Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for 13 years and we've been married for five years. Before we got married, we broke up for about a year and during that time we dated other people. We got back together in 2010 and we swore that we cut ties with anyone from our past. I moved in with him and we got married. Not long after our wedding, I found out that my husband was still communicating with an ex girlfriend. This woman had the nerve to call our house and ask for him. I had words with her and she ended up hanging up on me......