Dear Steve and Shirley I've lost my best friend. We've been best friends for over 15 years. Thee best of friends. We were thick as thieves and nothing could keep us apart. Whenever she got in relationships she introduced me as her brother and I got along with all her boyfriends. She started dating her current boyfriend and I didn't approve of him at first because he had a reputation of being a liar and a cheater. I played it cool and supported her through all of the drama and the breakups with him. He knows I don't really like him. So one night he invited me to go to a strip club with him. I met him at the club and ended up having a great time........