Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in my late forties and I’m raising three children on my own. I’ve had my fair share of dating horrors and I would love to be married, but the dating pool has pee in it. So, I’ve decided to like the man that likes me, but I’m also doing whatever I need to do on the side, to be sexually satisfied. My boyfriend is a decent lover, but he doesn’t cover all the bases................................