Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 41 year old entrepreneur and I own a brokerage firm. I’m dating a 40 year old former pro athlete and we met 3 years ago. He is a coach and he owns a laundromat. I have my own house and he has his house. I was driving a small sports car when I met him and he suggested I get an SUV for all of my yard signs and stuff for my business..........................................