In this episode of the podcast Gavin is joined by Dr Jane Tornatore, an author, coach & therapist to talk about the spirituality that comes into play in the journey of self-discovery & lessons she’s learned in her life.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS

• We think that everybody else can have faults or can screw up sometimes, but us? No. I asked my partner to do something, he texted me back saying: “It might come across nicer if it were more of a suggestion rather than a command”. I thought, oh no, I’m a terrible partner, an awful communicator, I suck. I suggested having these conversations face-to-face rather than by text & it was a totally different experience.
• I don’t allow myself to make mistakes, that’s how I learned to be safe as a kid. But now I’m learning, at the age of 61, that I get to make mistakes, or even make them mad (not on purpose) & I’m still loveable.
• Spirituality is bringing in the highest good through my inner knowing, through what my body tells me. My intuition comes through me auditorily, I hear my voice. I’ve had to build up that. There’s a whole lot of knowledge & intuitive knowing in me more connected to spirit than all the wonderful theories I’ve learned, but using them both together will be a lot better for everybody. It made me much better in all aspects of my life.
• I used to hate affirmations. It was like trying to prove or make ourselves think a certain way. When I first graduated and was studying them, I would say “I am wealthy!” but I was over $50k in debt. My whole body went: “liar” & I felt it tense because there was nothing in me that could hold on to any of that as true. What I discovered was that when I practice gratitude or say about getting more of something in my life, I will tweak it ‘til it makes me feel a little expanded, hopeful & good. I can totally get behind saying: “I want to get out of debt or have more money”.

BEST MOMENTS

‘Something I say to myself and my clients every day is: “I’m allowed to be human”.’
‘So many people work with me & think that I’ve got everything figured out, but oh no!’
‘Not once have I ever followed my intuition & regretted it. When we listen to our intuition, it can actually save us a lot of time & trouble’
‘There are 6 gazillion experts out there that want to tell us what’s good for us & what they’re really sharing is what’s true for them, it may or may not work for us.’

ABOUT THE GUEST

Dr Jane Tornatore is a therapist and speaker based in Seattle, WA, Jane BG Tornatore draws on her extensive professional training and wide-ranging life experiences to help clients convert old, outdated patterns and unnecessary stress into authenticity and wisdom.

CONTACT METHODS

https://doctortornatore.com/ 

ABOUT THE HOST

Gavin Scott is a born entrepreneur with a passion for start up and scale up. He has over 20 years real estate experience in investment and development.

Gavin says: Over the years I have discovered that mindset is everything. Now, that might sound obvious, but it is! You see the number of awoken minds are very few in reality. Whilst acknowledging mindset is key it is absolutely different from utilising, influencing, impacting and effecting great change, for yourself, your loved ones, friends, colleagues and the wider public.

Why?

Like most of us I have had many ups and downs. I want to share the lessons learnt and promote a better environment for all, internally and externally!

How?

Through sharing my own experiences and hosting some fabulous individuals including some big household names to discuss key topics around mindset and the success formulas I hope the listener will become inspired to create space for change for betterment in their lives. I aim to inspire change by encouragement, not by force. I intend to inspire by education, not by regulation.

CONTACT METHODS

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