Laid-off tech workers are hiking their grief uphill, together. Strangers are covering each other's grocery bills. Young people are throwing parties to do their taxes. John and Libby unpack The Helper's High and the stat behind it: 91% of Americans say helping others is how they build their own hope, which flips everything we believe about asking. The ask was never a withdrawal. It was always a gift, for both people. So why are we so terrible at giving it?