Sides define themselves as neither top nor bottom, preferring non-penetrative practices to buttstuff. In this episode, Gabe and Chris go deep with the “Messiah of Masturbation”, BATEBANDIT XL, about why he identifies as both a side and a bator, and why he created the BBXL Bate Bros, an international organization that holds online and in-person events for Black and Brown masturbation enthusiasts. Then our hosts learn all about what led BATEBANDIT XL to start making horny (and hot AF) hip-hop music chronicling his wild life as a bator. Plus, a special Side edition of “Pump or Dump?”



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BATEBANDIT XL

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BBXL BATE BROS

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Sides define themselves as neither top nor bottom, preferring non-penetrative practices to buttstuff. In this episode, Gabe and Chris go deep with the “Messiah of Masturbation”, BATEBANDIT XL, about why he identifies as both a side and a bator, and why he created the BBXL Bate Bros, an international organization that holds online and in-person events for Black and Brown masturbation enthusiasts. Then our hosts learn all about what led BATEBANDIT XL to start making horny (and hot AF) hip-hop music chronicling his wild life as a bator. Plus, a special Side edition of “Pump or Dump?”
 
Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: <a href="http://cruisingconfessions.com">cruisingconfessions.com</a>
 
Try Sniffies: <a href="http://sniffies.com">sniffies.com</a>
 
Follow Sniffies on Social:
Instagram: <a href="http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp">instagram.com/sniffiesapp</a>
X: <a href="http://x.com/sniffiesapp">x.com/sniffiesapp</a>
TikTik: <a href="http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp">tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp</a>
 
Follow the hosts:
Gabe Gonzalez: <a href="http://instagram.com/gaybonez">instagram.com/gaybonez</a>
Chris Patterson-Rosso: <a href="http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife">instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife</a>
 
Guests featured in this episode:
 
BATEBANDIT XL
<a href="https://x.com/batebanditxl">x.com/batebanditxl</a>
 
BBXL BATE BROS
<a href="https://www.bbxlbatebros.com/">bbxlbatebros.com/</a>

Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions is back for a third season — and this time, we’re getting very, very intimate. Season 3 finds our hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson-Rosso chopping it up with their favorite queer comedians, cruising experts, porn stars and pastors, sharing personal stories and practical sex advice in conversations that are equal parts hilarious, heartfelt, and hot. This season, Gabe and Chris tackle timely topics like AI, religious homophobia, disability and access, trans and non-binary approaches to cruising and sex, as well as tips for cruising smart in a shifting political landscape. Plus, the wildest, wettest, weirdest cruising confessions you’ve ever heard, from guests like Ryheim Shabazz, Jay Jurden, James Tom, Brandon Kyle Goodman, Leo Herrera, and of course, our listeners. Think you can squeeze in a third season? Just push play.

Sniffies&rsquo; Cruising Confessions is back for a third season &mdash; and this time, we&rsquo;re getting very, very intimate. Season 3 finds our hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson-Rosso chopping it up with their favorite queer comedians, cruising experts, porn stars and pastors, sharing personal stories and practical sex advice in conversations that are equal parts hilarious, heartfelt, and hot. This season, Gabe and Chris tackle timely topics like AI, religious homophobia, disability and access, trans and non-binary approaches to cruising and sex, as well as tips for cruising smart in a shifting political landscape. Plus, the wildest, wettest, weirdest cruising confessions you&rsquo;ve ever heard, from guests like Ryheim Shabazz, Jay Jurden, James Tom, Brandon Kyle Goodman, Leo Herrera, and of course, our listeners. Think you can squeeze in a third season? Just push play.

Sniffies' Cruising Confessions

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