Sides define themselves as neither top nor bottom, preferring non-penetrative practices to buttstuff. In this episode, Gabe and Chris go deep with the “Messiah of Masturbation”, BATEBANDIT XL, about why he identifies as both a side and a bator, and why he created the BBXL Bate Bros, an international organization that holds online and in-person events for Black and Brown masturbation enthusiasts. Then our hosts learn all about what led BATEBANDIT XL to start making horny (and hot AF) hip-hop music chronicling his wild life as a bator. Plus, a special Side edition of “Pump or Dump?”



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BATEBANDIT XL

x.com/batebanditxl



BBXL BATE BROS

bbxlbatebros.com/

Sides define themselves as neither top nor bottom, preferring non-penetrative practices to buttstuff. In this episode, Gabe and Chris go deep with the “Messiah of Masturbation”, BATEBANDIT XL, about why he identifies as both a side and a bator, and why he created the BBXL Bate Bros, an international organization that holds online and in-person events for Black and Brown masturbation enthusiasts. Then our hosts learn all about what led BATEBANDIT XL to start making horny (and hot AF) hip-hop music chronicling his wild life as a bator. Plus, a special Side edition of “Pump or Dump?”
 
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BATEBANDIT XL
<a href="https://x.com/batebanditxl">x.com/batebanditxl</a>
 
BBXL BATE BROS
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Fiercely sex positive and deeply entertaining, Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions is the queer sex podcast you’ve been waiting for. Every week, hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson-Rosso invite you to explore the sublime world of queer sex, cruising, relationships, culture and more. Through candid conversations with special guests, intimate revelations from our hosts’ lives, and plenty of practical advice, we hope to broaden minds and expand understanding. You’ll learn about underground sex scenes, hear titillating true stories that will make your jaws drop, and get sexpert guidance that will help you go after what you really want. Curious about cruising, queer sexuality and expanding your horizons? Just push play.

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Side In My DMs

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The holidays can be super stressful for queers, which is why Gabe and Chris are back for a special episode full of tips for how to stay safe, sane, and sexually active over the season with the help of Sniffies! First up, RuPaul’s Drag Race icon Kandy Muse spills some very hot tea about her most outrageous Sniffies experiences while touring the globe. Then, for anyone thinking of throwing their own holiday party, the co-founder of NYC’s beloved Papi Juice nightlife and art collective, Oscar Nñ, shares the lessons he’s learned creating positive, uplifting spaces for QTPOC to come together over the past 11 years. Finally, Gabe heads over to Animal in Brooklyn on the wildest gay night of the year - Thanksgiving Eve - to hear hot and heartwarming home-for-the-holidays hookup stories. 

 

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Kandy Muse

instagram.com/thekandymuse

https://thekandymuse.com/

 

Oscar Nn

instagram.com/oscarnn

instagram.com/papijuicebk

soundcloud.com/oscarnn

 

Animal

instagram.com/animal.nyc

The holidays can be super stressful for queers, which is why Gabe and Chris are back for a special episode full of tips for how to stay safe, sane, and sexually active over the season with the help of Sniffies! First up, RuPaul&rsquo;s Drag Race icon Kandy Muse spills some very hot tea about her most outrageous Sniffies experiences while touring the globe. Then, for anyone thinking of throwing their own holiday party, the co-founder of NYC&rsquo;s beloved Papi Juice nightlife and art collective, Oscar Nñ, shares the lessons he&rsquo;s learned creating positive, uplifting spaces for QTPOC to come together over the past 11 years. Finally, Gabe heads over to Animal in Brooklyn on the wildest gay night of the year - Thanksgiving Eve - to hear hot and heartwarming home-for-the-holidays hookup stories.&nbsp;
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Guests featured in this episode:
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Kandy Muse
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/thekandymuse/?hl=en">instagram.com/thekandymuse</a>
<a href="https://thekandymuse.com/">https://thekandymuse.com/</a>
&nbsp;
Oscar Nn
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/oscarnn/?hl=en">instagram.com/oscarnn</a>
instagram.com/papijuicebk
<a href="https://soundcloud.com/oscarnn">soundcloud.com/oscarnn</a>
&nbsp;
Animal
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/animal.nyc/?hl=en">instagram.com/animal.nyc</a>

The Holiday Special With Kandy Muse

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Queer people grow up experiencing bullying at a higher rate than that of our peers. Could that be why some of us find ourselves turned on by consensual domination, degradation and humiliation play in the bedroom? In our spicy final episode of this season, Gabe and Chris welcome two kinky pleasure educators - submissive Bobby Box and dominant Dominion Onyx -  to talk about dominance, submission, bullying, BDSM, and how and why people get into this fetish practice. Can playing this way help queer people turn past traumas into pure pleasure? 



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Bobby Box

linktr.ee/bybobbybox



Dominion Onyx

linktr.ee/domonyx

Queer people grow up experiencing bullying at a higher rate than that of our peers. Could that be why some of us find ourselves turned on by consensual domination, degradation and humiliation play in the bedroom? In our spicy final episode of this season, Gabe and Chris welcome two kinky pleasure educators - submissive Bobby Box and dominant Dominion Onyx -  to talk about dominance, submission, bullying, BDSM, and how and why people get into this fetish practice. Can playing this way help queer people turn past traumas into pure pleasure? 
 
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Guests featured in this episode:
 
Bobby Box
<a href="https://linktr.ee/bybobbybox">linktr.ee/bybobbybox</a>
 
Dominion Onyx
<a href="https://linktr.ee/domonyx">linktr.ee/domonyx</a>

That’s So Degrading!

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It’s easy to talk about what we don’t want in the world—hate, discrimination, and violence against our community—but what kind of future DO we want to see?  In this episode Gabe and Chris ask past guests from this season what kind of queer utopia they’d like to see materialize by the year 2069, on the 100th anniversary of the Stonewall riots. You’ll hear from kinksters, artists, and sex workers about their hopes for the future, and the possible innovations, societal shifts, and sexual possibilities that await us later this century. 





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Guests featured in this episode:



Scott Carslake: x.com/muscledcumhole

Leo Herrera:  iftheylived.org



Brontez Purnell 

instagram.com/brontezpurnell



Xavier Blanco linktr.ee/nycdominicano



Tomik Dash

instagram.com/tomik2point0

linkin.bio/tomik2point0



Dale Corvino

instagram.com/dalecorvino

dalecorvino.com



Jules Rosskam

instagram.com/julesrosskamfilms

www.desirelinesfilm.com



Santos J. Arce

instagram.com/kinkpunx/

linktr.ee/santosjarce



Donald C. Shorter Jr

instagram.com/donxmen



Chipper

instagram.com/followchipper

instagram.com/unleashedbk

It’s easy to talk about what we don’t want in the world—hate, discrimination, and violence against our community—but what kind of future DO we want to see?  In this episode Gabe and Chris ask past guests from this season what kind of queer utopia they’d like to see materialize by the year 2069, on the 100th anniversary of the Stonewall riots. You’ll hear from kinksters, artists, and sex workers about their hopes for the future, and the possible innovations, societal shifts, and sexual possibilities that await us later this century. 
 
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Scott Carslake: <a href="http://x.com/muscledcumhole">x.com/muscledcumhole</a>
Leo Herrera:  <a href="http://iftheylived.org">iftheylived.org</a>
 
Brontez Purnell 
<a href="http://instagram.com/brontezpurnell">instagram.com/brontezpurnell</a>
 
Xavier Blanco <a href="https://linktr.ee/nycdominicano">linktr.ee/nycdominicano</a>
 
Tomik Dash
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/tomik2point0/?hl=en">instagram.com/tomik2point0</a>
<a href="https://linkin.bio/tomik2point0/">linkin.bio/tomik2point0</a>
 
Dale Corvino
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/dalecorvino/?hl=en">instagram.com/dalecorvino</a>
<a href="https://dalecorvino.com/">dalecorvino.com</a>
 
Jules Rosskam
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/julesrosskamfilms/">instagram.com/julesrosskamfilms</a>
<a href="https://www.desirelinesfilm.com/">www.desirelinesfilm.com</a>
 
Santos J. Arce
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/kinkpunx/">instagram.com/kinkpunx/</a>
<a href="https://linktr.ee/santosjarce">linktr.ee/santosjarce</a>
 
Donald C. Shorter Jr
<a href="http://instagram.com/donxmen">instagram.com/donxmen</a>
 
Chipper
<a href="http://instagram.com/followchipper">instagram.com/followchipper</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/unleashedbk">instagram.com/unleashedbk</a>

Queer Utopia 2069

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