Sit on that Stump in Muddy Bottom

What does it really mean to finish well as a ministry leader? On this episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, Vikki Parker sits down with Robin Fuller, author of Finish Well and founder of Bloom Coaching, for an honest conversation about leadership, burnout, succession, identity, and the pressures ministry leaders often carry behind the scenes. Robin spent more than two decades leading pregnancy centers and knows firsthand how easily a ministry can become intertwined with a leader’s identity. She shares her own journey through an unplanned pregnancy, abortion, grace, restoration, leadership burnout, coaching, and eventually learning how to prepare both herself and her organization for the day she would step away. Vikki and Robin discuss why leaders need people outside their staff and board with whom they can be completely honest, the danger of believing everything depends on you, and why putting God and family ahead of ministry is essential for long-term health. Robin also explains how coaching helped transform her own leadership and why ministry leaders need intentional opportunities to withdraw, listen to God, evaluate their lives, and allow someone they trust to challenge them. They also tackle one of the most difficult transitions in leadership: succession. How do you prepare the next generation? How do you separate your identity from your position? And can you release something you've poured years of your life into and trust God with what happens next? Robin shares practical steps leaders can begin taking now—including making time for a personal retreat and finding a mentor, peer group, or coach who provides a safe place for honesty, accountability, and growth. Whether you lead a pregnancy center, church, nonprofit, ministry, Sunday school class, or another organization, this conversation is an important reminder: Your calling matters—but God never intended for you to carry it alone. The goal isn't simply to start strong. It's to remain faithful through every season, prepare others to carry the mission forward, and one day be able to say with Paul: "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith." — 2 Timothy 4:7

What happens when God completely transforms a life—and then uses that person’s darkest past to bring hope to others? On this episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, Vicki Parker sits down with Carol Everett, a former abortion clinic owner whose life took a dramatic turn after encountering Jesus Christ. Carol shares her firsthand story of entering the abortion industry after having an abortion herself, eventually becoming deeply involved in the business side of abortion. She discusses the financial incentives she says drove the industry, the methods used to persuade women to choose abortion, and the physical, emotional, and spiritual consequences she witnessed during her years inside it. But Carol’s story is ultimately about redemption. She recounts the moment a Christian business counselor told her that God loved her and explained the Gospel to her. After putting her faith in Jesus, Carol began seeing the women entering her clinic differently. Within weeks, circumstances forced her out of the abortion business and began a completely new chapter of her life. After a season of spiritual growth and healing, Carol began sharing her testimony, speaking to churches and pro-life organizations, testifying before the Texas legislature, and eventually helping pregnancy resource centers serve women and families. Carol and Vicki also discuss why they believe abortion should be understood by Christians not merely as a political issue, but as a spiritual and Gospel issue—and why churches have an opportunity to minister to women and families facing unplanned pregnancies. Carol will also be the featured speaker at Options Pregnancy Center’s Every Life Has a Story Vision Dinner, October 26–27. This conversation is a powerful reminder that no past is beyond the reach of God’s grace. As Carol’s life demonstrates, God can redeem the very places that once brought destruction and use them to bring life and hope to others.

What if heaven wasn’t something we only thought about at funerals—but a reality that shaped the way we live every single day? On this episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, Vicki Parker welcomes author Cindy Hamilton for a heartfelt conversation about her book, Walk Me Into Heaven: Getting Ready for the Adventure of My Forever Life. Cindy shares the personal story behind the book, including how a battle with stage three breast cancer caused her to think more deeply about eternity and how a statement she heard decades ago inspired the title: wanting to walk so closely with the Lord in this life that, when death comes, you simply “keep right on walking” with Him. Vikki and Cindy explore some of life’s biggest questions: What is heaven really like? How can we know we’re going there? Why should Christians think about eternity before the end of life? And how should the promise of heaven change our priorities, relationships, forgiveness, grief, and use of our time today? They also discuss the importance of preparing both spiritually and practically for the end of this earthly life—from deepening our relationship with Jesus and resolving unfinished business to organizing important family and estate matters so those we love aren’t left carrying unnecessary burdens. Along the way, Vikki shares deeply personal stories surrounding the deaths of her mother and husband, Charlie, and the peace she experienced in knowing that death does not have the final word for those who belong to Christ. Most importantly, this conversation points listeners back to the Gospel. Heaven isn’t earned by being a good person, attending church, being baptized, or doing good deeds. Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life.” Eternal life begins with knowing and surrendering to Him. If you’ve ever wondered what heaven will be like, struggled with the fear of death, grieved someone you love, or simply asked yourself, “Am I ready for eternity?”, this episode is for you. Pull up a stump and join Vikki Parker and Cindy Hamilton for an encouraging, joyful, and hope-filled conversation about living today with eternity in view.

What happens when God’s people stop treating prayer as a last resort and begin making it the starting point? On this episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, Vicki Parker welcomes Charlotte Mead Lear, Regional Director with the National Day of Prayer, for a powerful conversation about prayer, repentance, revival, and the spiritual future of Arkansas and America. As America marks its 250th anniversary, Charlotte shares the vision behind the America 250 Prayer Breakfast and Summit at Renewal Ranch near Conway and its theme, “Back to School, Back to God.” The gathering is designed to bring believers together across different areas of influence—including pastors, educators, business leaders, media, military, creatives, and intercessors—to seek God together in unified prayer. Vicki and Charlotte discuss why revival must begin with God’s people, the importance of repentance within the church, and why Christians cannot simply complain about the direction of the culture while remaining spiritually disengaged. They also talk about protecting and praying for the next generation, bringing faith into our workplaces and communities, and following Jesus’ own example of intentionally withdrawing from the noise to spend time with the Father. The conversation challenges believers to ask a personal question: What am I doing to move the needle? Prayer isn’t merely asking God to change our nation—it can begin by allowing Him to change us. Charlotte also explains the effort to place “As for me and my house, we will pray for our nation” signs throughout all 75 Arkansas counties as believers pray for their communities and the future of the state. Could revival that impacts America begin right here in Arkansas? Could it begin in your church, your workplace, your family—or in your own heart? Vicki and Charlotte believe it can. Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom airs Thursdays at 6 p.m. and Saturdays at noon on 99.5 The Word.

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation about adoption, Vikki Parker welcomes Terri Rosson back to Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom to go deeper into the realities of adoption, identity, belonging, and the role of the Church. How can adoptive parents help a child understand their story without shame or feelings of rejection? How can Christians change the language surrounding birth mothers and adoption? And what would happen if churches became places where women facing unexpected pregnancies knew they would receive grace, practical help, and genuine support? Vikki and Terri explore the biblical picture of adoption and God's heart for vulnerable children, while challenging believers to move beyond simply being pro-life in principle and become actively involved in the lives of women, babies, and families. They discuss practical ways churches can partner with pregnancy centers, support single mothers, encourage adoption, provide resources, and create communities where no woman feels she has to face an unexpected pregnancy alone. Terri also shares from her personal experience as a birth mother and explains why healthy conversations, testimony, grace, and carefully chosen words can make such a profound difference. As the conversation makes clear, adoption isn't about a mother simply "giving away" her child—it can be an extraordinarily difficult parenting decision made out of love. This episode ultimately asks an important question of every Christian and every church: What can we do to make sure women facing unexpected pregnancies know they are loved, supported, and never alone?

In this heartfelt episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, host Vicki Parker welcomes Terri Rawson to share her deeply personal adoption story and the journey that led her to choose an open adoption for her daughter. Vicki begins by reflecting on the meaning behind the show's title: the “muddy bottom” represents those difficult seasons of life when circumstances become messy, fear feels louder than faith, and the future looks nothing like we expected. Yet, even in those places, God is present. Sometimes we simply need to “sit on that stump,” get alone with Jesus, quiet the noise, and listen for His voice. Terri shares what it was like to become pregnant at 17 and initially plan to parent her daughter. Her daughter was born prematurely at 31 weeks and spent more than a month in the NICU. After bringing her baby home, Terri and the baby's father began reconsidering what would be best for their daughter. What started as something Terri believed she could never do eventually became a courageous decision to create a different future for her child. The conversation explores the emotional reality of adoption, including grief, fear, uncertainty, healing, and the importance of viewing adoption as a parenting plan rather than “giving a baby away.” Terri explains how she initially wanted a closed adoption but ultimately chose an open arrangement, allowing her daughter to grow up knowing both her adoptive family and her birth family. Terri describes the remarkable relationship that developed with her daughter's adoptive parents. Over the years, the families have shared birthdays, soccer games, FaceTime calls, sleepovers, family gatherings, and other milestones. Her daughter has also developed relationships with Terri's husband and children, creating an extended family built around love rather than fear. Vicki and Terri discuss how open adoption can help address some of the unanswered questions that birth parents and adopted children may otherwise carry for years. Terri's daughter knows where she came from, knows that she is loved, and has a safe environment in which to ask difficult questions and express complicated emotions. The episode also draws powerful parallels between Terri's experience and the biblical story of Moses and his mother, who trusted God with her child's future. Vicki discusses the story of Solomon and the two women claiming the same child as an illustration of sacrificial maternal love—the willingness to put a child's wellbeing above one's own desires. Throughout the conversation, Vicki and Terri emphasize that adoption does not mean a birth mother feels no pain. Grief can remain part of the journey, and healing may take time. Terri openly shares that she struggled with the decision and feared that she would never be loved or move beyond the pain. Ultimately, she describes how encountering Jesus, learning to live under grace, and forgiving herself transformed her perspective. The episode offers encouragement to women facing an unplanned pregnancy, birth mothers considering adoption, adoptive parents, grandparents, church communities, and anyone seeking to understand the realities of adoption. Above all, Terri's story is a testimony about trusting God one day, one minute, and sometimes one muddy bottom at a time. Vicki closes with a reminder that no matter how deep the mud gets, God has not lost sight of you. Find your stump, sit down with Jesus, quiet the surrounding noise, listen for His voice, and trust Him with the rest of the story.

Have you ever felt like your past, your mistakes, or your insecurities have disqualified you from being used by God? In this powerful episode of Sit on that Stump in Muddy Bottom, Vicki Parker welcomes author Karli Miller to discuss her upcoming book, Not Disqualified. Together they share honest stories about fear, obedience, faith, and the surprising ways God calls ordinary people to extraordinary purposes. Carly opens up about battling shame, believing she didn't belong, and how God interrupted her plans to begin writing the message that would become Not Disqualified. She shares how the Lord transformed her understanding of grace, identity, and calling, reminding believers that their past is not the final chapter of their story. Vicki also shares her own journey of launching Options Pregnancy Center despite feeling completely unqualified, offering encouragement for anyone who feels God is asking them to take a step of faith. In this episode, you'll discover: Why your identity is found in Christ—not your past. How God consistently chooses imperfect people throughout Scripture. The difference between shame and God's grace. Why obedience often begins before confidence. The importance of surrounding yourself with people who point you back to God's truth. The biblical significance of "having a seat at the table." How to walk by faith even when you can't see the next step. If you've ever wondered whether God could truly use someone like you, this conversation is a reminder that His grace is greater than your failures and His calling is not determined by your qualifications. Because of Jesus, you are seen, loved, welcomed—and never disqualified from His purpose.

What happens when God places a vision so deeply on someone's heart that it changes the course of their life? In this inspiring episode of Sit on that Stump in Muddy Bottom, Vikki Parker welcomes Dr. Terrence Farrier, founder of The Lamb's Plan, a Christ-centered ministry dedicated to providing safe housing, life skills, spiritual guidance, and long-term support for pregnant women facing crisis situations. Dr. Farrier shares the remarkable story of how God called him to launch this ministry, the vision behind creating a maternity home where women can find stability, hope, and practical training, and why helping mothers thrive benefits entire communities. Together, Vikki and Terrence discuss the importance of offering more than temporary assistance by equipping women with life skills, employment readiness, parenting support, biblical discipleship, and a foundation for lasting independence. The conversation also explores the critical role churches, businesses, pregnancy centers, and volunteers can play in transforming lives through mentorship, counseling, financial support, and practical resources. If you've ever wondered how faith can become action—or how ordinary people can make an extraordinary difference—this episode will encourage and challenge you. Join us as we discover how one act of obedience can create a legacy of hope for generations to come.

Join Vikki Parker, CEO of Options Pregnancy Center, as she welcomes bestselling author, speaker, and podcast host Lane Lawson Craft to discuss her inspiring children's book, The Beginning of You. Together they explore the importance of identity, purpose, faith, and speaking life over children from the very beginning. Lane shares her personal testimony of marriage restoration, raising prodigals, and how God led her to write a book that reminds every child they are intentionally created, deeply loved, and designed with purpose. They also discuss the mission behind Love Before the First Breath, an initiative to place The Beginning of You into pregnancy centers across the country to encourage mothers facing unexpected pregnancies. Topics include: • Identity in Christ • Pregnancy center ministry • Pro-life resources • Parenting with purpose • Speaking truth over children • Faith and family • Christian parenting • The Beginning of You • Love Before the First Breath • Encouraging mothers and families If you enjoyed this conversation, please Like, Subscribe, and Share to help encourage families and spread hope.

What if the very first words spoken over a child could shape their identity for a lifetime? In this inspiring episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, Vikki Parker sits down with bestselling author, speaker, and podcast host Lane Lawson-Craft to discuss her beautifully illustrated children's book, The Beginning of You. Together, they explore why a child's identity begins with God's truth—not the culture's opinions—and why those truths should be spoken over every child from the moment life begins. Lane shares her personal testimony of how God restored her marriage, led her into ministry, and later inspired her to write a book that reminds children—and their parents—that every life is intentionally created, deeply loved, and filled with purpose. Vikki and Lane also discuss the incredible impact words have on children in the womb, the importance of intentionally speaking Scripture over the next generation, and how parents can establish a biblical foundation before the culture ever has a chance to redefine their children. The conversation also highlights Lane's Love Before the First Breath initiative, an effort to place The Beginning of You into pregnancy centers across the nation so every mother facing an unexpected pregnancy receives a life-affirming message of hope. Whether you're a parent, grandparent, church leader, pregnancy center volunteer, or someone who simply believes every child is a gift from God, this episode will encourage you to speak life, truth, and purpose into the hearts of the next generation.

In this thought-provoking episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, Vikki Parker welcomes author Sabrina McDonald to discuss why every Christian needs a solid biblical worldview in today's rapidly changing culture. Drawing from her book, The Bible, Politics and Culture: A Biblical Worldview Guide for Christian Women, Sabrina explains how Scripture—not politics, popular opinion, or emotions—must remain the foundation for every believer's convictions. Together, Vikki and Sabrina tackle today's biggest cultural questions, including biblical truth, parenting, education, abortion, family, children, LGBTQ issues, discipleship, and how Christians can lovingly stand firm without compromising God's Word. The conversation explores why so many believers struggle to explain why they believe what they believe, the importance of raising children with biblical discernment, and how God's design always leads to human flourishing. Vikki also shares powerful insights from decades of ministering to women affected by abortion, reminding listeners that while the enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy, Jesus offers forgiveness, healing, and abundant life. If you've ever wondered how to confidently navigate today's cultural challenges through the lens of Scripture, this episode will encourage you to build your life on the unchanging truth of God's Word.

In this powerful conversation, Vicki Parker welcomes Pastor Kerry Rosenbaum of Bethel Assembly of God in Jacksonville to discuss a battle every believer faces: temptation. Many Christians assume temptation is a sign of spiritual failure, but even Jesus was tempted. So how does Satan work? How does compromise begin? And why do strong believers sometimes find themselves trapped in situations they never intended to enter? Together, Vicki and Pastor Kerry unpack biblical examples from Adam and Eve, David and Bathsheba, Samson, and even Jesus' temptation in the wilderness. They explore how the enemy often works through subtle thoughts, doubt, isolation, and small compromises that gradually pull us away from God's best. In this episode, you'll discover: • Why temptation itself is not sin • How Satan uses doubt, deception, and compromise • The importance of knowing God's voice and His Word • How to take every thought captive and recognize spiritual attacks • Why isolation makes believers vulnerable • The power of accountability and Christian community • Lessons from David, Samson, and other biblical figures who faced temptation • How guilt, shame, and past mistakes can be overcome through Christ • Why standing for biblical truth still matters in today's culture This is Part 1 of a candid and Scripture-centered discussion about spiritual warfare, holiness, grace, and the practical ways believers can stay close to Jesus when life gets muddy. Remember: Satan seeks compromise, but Jesus seeks communion. Even when life gets muddy, God is still working in the middle of it.

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Vicki Parker welcomes Pastor Kerry Rosenbaum of Bethel Assembly of God for a deep and honest discussion about temptation, spiritual warfare, and the importance of guarding your heart. Together, they explore how Satan targets believers, ministry leaders, pastors, and everyday Christians alike, seeking opportunities to distract, discourage, and divide. Drawing from biblical examples such as Judas, Peter, and Job, Vicki and Pastor Kerry discuss how temptation often begins subtly, how isolation can become a dangerous foothold for the enemy, and why prayer, accountability, and God's Word are essential weapons in the believer's life. The conversation also addresses ministry burnout, spiritual numbness, grief, church leadership, restoration after failure, and the importance of praying for pastors and their families. Most importantly, they remind listeners that no failure is final when surrendered to Jesus, and that the blood of Christ remains greater than any mistake, struggle, or attack of the enemy. Vicki shares the heart behind "Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom," encouraging listeners to quiet the noise of the world, spend time alone with God, and learn to recognize His voice above every other influence. Whether you're facing temptation, walking through a difficult season, recovering from failure, or seeking God's direction, this episode offers biblical encouragement and practical wisdom for standing firm in your faith.

In this powerful episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, host Vicki Parker sits down with Crystal Vinson-Holland to discuss her extraordinary journey from addiction, incarceration, and hopelessness to faith, healing, and a life dedicated to helping others. Crystal shares the defining moment that changed everything—waking up alone in a hospital bed after years of destructive choices and realizing she could no longer continue down the same path. Through faith, surrender, and the support of people who believed in her when she couldn't believe in herself, Crystal began the difficult road to recovery. Together, Vicki and Crystal explore the realities of addiction, the importance of addressing underlying trauma, the struggle of self-forgiveness, and the life-changing power of God's grace. Crystal also discusses her work helping incarcerated individuals and those battling substance abuse find hope, purpose, and a future beyond their mistakes. The conversation expands into personal transformation, health and wellness, overcoming shame, rebuilding relationships, and the importance of surrounding yourself with people who encourage growth and healing. This episode is a reminder that no matter how far you've fallen, your story isn't over. God is still writing your story, and redemption is always possible. Topics discussed: • Addiction and recovery • Faith-based healing • Self-forgiveness and grace • Incarceration and second chances • Trauma and recovery • Peer support and mentorship • Health and wellness transformation • Rebuilding family relationships • Hope, purpose, and redemption If you or someone you love is struggling with addiction, shame, or feeling stuck in life, this episode offers encouragement, inspiration, and proof that transformation is possible.

Vikki Parker sits down with Faulkner County Republican Women President Charlotte Mead-Layer for a powerful conversation about faith, politics, America’s Christian foundation, and why believers must get involved in shaping the future of their communities. They also discuss the upcoming Flag Day celebration featuring historian David Barton and the importance of teaching real American history to the next generation.

What separates a leader who falls apart from one who rises with purpose? In this episode, Vikki Parker and Brandy Cunningham unpack the powerful contrast between Saul and David, revealing how insecurity, pride, and people-pleasing can quietly destroy leadership. They also highlight how humility, repentance, and obedience to God create lasting impact. This conversation goes beyond scripture into real-life leadership challenges—covering communication, emotional health, accountability, and maintaining peace under pressure. Whether you lead in ministry, business, or everyday life, this episode offers practical wisdom to help you lead with clarity, strength, and integrity.

In this deep and honest conversation, Vikki Parker and Brandy Cunningham explore the powerful question: if God is our King, why do we still need leadership? Through scripture, real-life experiences, and practical wisdom, they unpack the dangers of self-leadership, the importance of accountability, and how lack of structure can lead to confusion and chaos. This episode challenges believers, leaders, and anyone seeking direction to examine the role of humility, wise counsel, and spiritual authority in their lives. Get ready for a meaningful discussion on leadership, obedience, and growing in wisdom.

A powerful and emotional conversation about loss, addiction, and the fentanyl crisis. Stacey shares the story of her son Hagen—his life, his struggles, and the devastating moment that changed everything. What began as unimaginable grief became a mission to educate others, fight stigma, and save lives. This episode dives into the reality of fentanyl poisoning, the truth about substance use disorder, and why open conversations can make all the difference. It’s a story of heartbreak, faith, and purpose—and a reminder that no one has to face these battles alone.

A thoughtful discussion on the role of Christians in politics, the responsibility of pastors to speak on moral issues, and how faith shapes leadership, culture, and personal conviction in today’s world.

A powerful and unfiltered conversation on abortion pills, how they work, the risks involved, and what women may not be told before taking them. Featuring medical insight and real-world experiences, this episode explores the physical, emotional, and ethical realities surrounding abortion pills—and why informed decisions matter.

A conversation with Dr. Mark Newman on why people avoid difficult topics, how that silence impacts individuals and communities, and an upcoming Little Rock event designed to equip people to engage with confidence, clarity, and compassion.

A powerful, deeply personal conversation about an unplanned pregnancy, the pressure surrounding life-altering decisions, and the long road to healing. This episode explores fear, silence, regret, and redemption—offering insight into what many experience but few openly discuss.

A powerful and encouraging message about overcoming life’s deepest struggles and trusting God’s plan through every season. This episode reminds us that pain, delay, and hardship are not the end—but part of the journey toward purpose, growth, and restoration.

Most programs focus only on short-term prevention, but what if there was a way to equip young people with lifelong skills for healthy, impactful decisions? In this powerful episode, Thelma Moten reveals how a small Bible-based initiative grew into a statewide movement impacting thousands of students, families, and communities over 35 years — all while facing cultural shifts and funding challenges. You'll discover: The origin story of Choosing to Excel and how one woman's desire to help young women led to a nationwide ripple effect Practical tools for fostering emotional health, character, and critical thinking in youth How including real-life stories, including her own family’s grief, transforms fostered resilience and purpose The importance of community, parental involvement, and advocacy in sustaining programs that genuinely change lives Why this approach is more vital than ever in an age of social media, misinformation, and early exposure to adult content Neglecting this vital work risks our kids growing up unprepared for the emotional and social complexities of today’s world. The opportunity? Equipping the next generation with internal assets, hope, and the ability to make healthier choices for a brighter future. Perfect for educators, parents, community leaders, and anyone passionate about raising resilient, responsible, and morally grounded youth. Unlock the power of faith-based, evidence-driven mentorship that turns pain into purpose. Visit choosing2excel.org to support, replicate, or learn more about expanding this life-changing work. Because these are not just kids — they are our sons and daughters, and their future depends on what we do today. Tune in now to discover how a village of believers is shaping a legacy of hope and success for generations to come. 1. Building influence starts with listening and responding to real needs The most impactful programs often originate from genuine awareness of community pain points rather than top-down initiatives. When leaders listen carefully and create tailored solutions, their influence naturally expands through authentic relationships. Why it matters Leaders who prioritize listening unlock deeper engagement and trust, which are essential for lasting change. Believing that impact begins with understanding transforms outreach from superficial to transformational. In practice Thelma’s approach of listening to students’ voiced struggles allowed her to tailor programs that resonated deeply, turning initial small efforts into statewide movement.2. Long-term change requires a principle-centered model over short-term campaigns Programs built on core values like integrity, purpose, and relational trust outlast fleeting trends and adapt effectively to cultural shifts. They create a mental framework that sustains impact even when external circumstances change. Why it matters Relying on principles rather than transient techniques ensures programs remain relevant, resilient, and capable of shaping future generations amid societal turbulence. In practice Choosing to excel’s focus on character and values, rather than just knowledge or prevention, enables it to navigate shifting cultural landscapes and maintain influence.3. Influence on young people flows from demonstrating authenticity and integrity Young people are drawn to honest, relational engagement—seeing adults who embody the values they promote. External programs succeed when leaders exemplify what they teach in character and behavior. Why it matters Authenticity builds credibility and trust with youth, making messages more persuasive and durable than information alone. In practice Thelma’s strategy of involving real couples and relatable stories shows that authenticity in action accelerates behavioral and worldview shifts among students.4. Effective education goes beyond information to asset-based transformation Concepts like internal assets and emotional health are crucial for empowering youth not just to avoid risks but to thrive. Recognizing and developing internal strengths leads to sustainable life choices. Why it matters Shifting from fear-based or risk-only messaging to asset recognition fosters resilience, confidence, and agency in young people. In practice Thelma’s utilization of personal stories where pain was converted into purpose exemplifies how acknowledging internal assets inspires youth to envision possibilities.5. Resilience in community programs demands continual adaptation and funded support Sustaining impactful efforts requires ongoing investment, innovation, and training aligned with current cultural realities. Without resources, even the most effective models risk extinction. Why it matters Investing in consistent training, research, and expansion ensures programs stay relevant and able to meet evolving needs. In practice Thelma emphasizes the necessity of grassroots funding and strategic partnerships to continue and expand her program’s reach and effectiveness.6. Teaching relational and emotional skills is as vital as academic knowledge Equipping youth with critical thinking, boundary setting, and relationship management skills empowers them to navigate complex social landscapes and long-term life challenges. Why it matters The future stability and health of communities hinge on the development of these foundational social-emotional competencies. In practice The program’s inclusion of real-life scenarios, peer panels, and mentor stories exemplifies practical relational skill-building that transcends traditional curriculum.7. Addressing cultural shift requires a proactive, value-driven community response Cultural changes—like the normalization of risky behaviors—demand that communities and leaders proactively communicate core values through trusted voices and comprehensive support systems. Why it matters Communities must act intentionally to counteract misinformation and cultural norms that threaten youth well-being. In practice Thelma advocates for community-wide awareness, local funding, and direct youth engagement as essential strategies to reinforce foundational health and character in a changing societal landscape.

In this episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, host Vikki Parker discusses how to respectfully and persuasively defend the pro-life position in today’s culture. Drawing from training by Scott Klusendorf, she explains practical tools like the pro-life syllogism and the SLED argument while emphasizing compassion, clarity, and calm dialogue. Learn how everyday conversations can make a difference for life, families, and communities.

In this powerful episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, Vikki Parker explores how to thoughtfully and compassionately defend the value of human life in today’s culture. Drawing from insights in The Case for Life by Scott Klusendorf, she explains the SLED framework, discusses the concept of innocence, and encourages Christians to approach this sensitive topic with truth, clarity, and compassion.

In this powerful episode, Leslie shares her journey through teen pregnancy, abortion, addiction, and despair—and how a radical encounter with Jesus transformed her life. This is a real-life John 10:10 testimony of forgiveness, healing, and generational restoration. If you’ve ever wondered whether God can truly redeem your past, this story is your answer.

Vikki sits down with Michelle Monte of Lifeline Children's Services to share a powerful conversation about open adoption, birth mother support, and answering God’s call. This episode explores the beauty, challenges, and lifelong impact of adoption—for children, families, and first mothers alike.

In this powerful episode of Sit on that Stump in Muddy Bottom, Vicki Parker sits down with Michelle Monte from Lifeline Children's Services to explore the real story of adoption—beyond the myths and misconceptions. From Michelle’s generational family legacy of fostering and adopting, to her work with Shared Beginnings and now Lifeline, this conversation dives deep into open adoption, honoring birth mothers, and walking out God’s calling with obedience and faith. A moving discussion on what it truly means to be chosen, to choose life, and to build families through love, transparency, and Christ-centered ministry.

In this powerful episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, host Vikki Parker sits down with Leslie Boone to share the remarkable story of Laura Abbott—a survivor of a near-fatal violent crime and a leading advocate for victims’ rights in Arkansas. Through faith, perseverance, and community, tragedy was transformed into purpose. This conversation sheds light on domestic violence, trauma, healing, and the life-changing impact of enforceable victims’ rights, offering hope to survivors and those who walk alongside them.

In this powerful episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, host Vikki Parker sits down with Chase Gwyn, a high school junior and founder of a Club America (Turning Point USA) chapter at Cabot High School. Chase shares his journey of faith, leadership, and conviction—what it means to stand for truth in today’s culture, why young people can’t wait until “someday” to lead, and how courage, faith, and responsibility are shaping the next generation.

When a woman says, “I want to choose life, but how am I going to do this?”—the answer can’t stop at encouragement alone. In this episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, Vicki Parker is joined by Lindsay Moon, Arkansas Coordinator for Her Plan, to talk about building a real, workable pro-life safety net. From housing and childcare to legal aid, recovery programs, and church involvement, this conversation explores how community connections make choosing life possible—and sustainable—for women and families across Arkansas and beyond.

Host Vickki Parker shares a powerful story of survival in the Alaskan wilderness to illustrate the life-saving importance of hearing and obeying God’s voice. In a world full of noise, learn how to find your "stump," quiet your soul, and look for the cross at the end of the runway.

In this powerful episode of Sit on That Stump at the Muddy Bottom, guest host Brandi Cunningham sits down with Amber Singleton, the new Executive Director of Arkansas Right to Life. Amber shares her personal calling, her heart for mothers and babies, and the urgent need for truth, compassion, and action in a post–Roe v. Wade world. The conversation covers the March for Life, Bow Ties for Babies, legislative priorities, and the church’s role in standing for life—from the unborn to the aging—while offering hope and healing to women and families in crisis.

In this powerful episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, host Vicki Parker sits down with therapist and author Jessica Derrickson to talk about family dysfunction, generational trauma, and what it truly means to be labeled the “black sheep.” Jessica shares the story behind her book Cycle Breaker and offers compassionate insight into toxic family dynamics, emotional invalidation, and the patterns that get passed down when healing never happens. Together, Vicki and Jessica explore forgiveness, boundaries, communication, and how understanding perspective can begin the process of restoration—for individuals and entire families. Whether you’ve felt like the outcast, struggled with broken relationships, or want to stop harmful cycles for future generations, this episode offers hope, validation, and practical tools for healing and growth.

A deep, practical conversation about Psalm 23:5 and the powerful truth that God sets a table for you in the presence of your enemies. Vikki Parker and guest Brandi Cunningham unpack how we unintentionally give the enemy a seat at our table through offense, fear, bitterness, and old wounds—especially during the holidays. Learn how to guard your mind, protect your peace, walk in forgiveness, and sit confidently at the table Jesus prepares for you.

In this deeply moving episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, host Vikki Parker welcomes guest Steventhen Holland, who shares his powerful testimony of being conceived in rape, carried by a mentally challenged mother who fought for his life, and adopted into a loving family. Together, they discuss God’s redemption, the value of every human life, and the emotional weight carried by pregnancy-center leaders. Steventhen also introduces the We See You Retreats, a new ministry designed to restore and refresh frontline workers in pro-life pregnancy centers. A conversation filled with hope, healing, and God’s purpose in the muddy bottom moments of life.

On this special Thanksgiving episode of Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom, Vikki Parker sits down with her dear friend Trina Welch for a raw, tear-stained, joy-filled conversation about gratitude that doesn’t wait for the storm to pass. From teen pregnancy and public shame to walking the streets of Israel alone and hearing the audible voice of God, Trina shares how a heart of thanksgiving—even in the darkest, muddiest moments—became the very weapon that brought healing, breakthrough, and supernatural miracles. If you’ve ever wondered how to thank God when life hurts, when you can’t see the way out, or when the pain feels wasted, this episode will remind you: gratitude isn’t just an emotion—it’s a sacrifice that shifts atmospheres, silences the enemy, and turns broken hallelujahs into diamonds. Pull up a stump, grab a tissue, and let two women who’ve lived it show you how to praise your way out of the pit. Follow Trina Welch https://linktree.com/trinawelch

In this heartfelt episode of Sit on That Stump Muddy Bottom, host Vicki Parker sits down with Jennifer Jones from Embrace Grace at First Baptist Cabot. Discover how this powerful 11-week support and discipleship program wraps single moms facing unplanned pregnancies in love, practical help, and the hope of the gospel. From “Daughter of the King” pampering nights to life-changing baby showers and ongoing family-style support, Jennifer shares real stories of healing, gratitude, and brave women choosing life. Learn how Embrace Grace is filling a vital gap for pregnancy centers and bringing young moms into the church family – and how your church can start a group today. A beautiful picture of the hands and feet of Jesus in action.

Is it okay for a Christian to cuss? Vicki Parker (author and CEO of Options Pregnancy Center) sits down with Pastor Kerry Rosenbaum for a candid, no-condemnation conversation about the “Cussing Christian.” Pulling straight from Ephesians 4 & 5, they unpack why Scripture is so serious about our words, share their own past struggles with foul language, and talk practical steps to let the Holy Spirit clean up a mouth that once sounded more like the world than the Word. Raw stories, real grace, and a whole lot of hope for anyone who’s ever let a word slip and wondered, “Does God really care about this?” Spoiler: He does—and He’s ready to help.

When life gets messy and the road ahead disappears into the fog, how do you keep walking? Join Vikki Parker—author, speaker, and CEO of Options Pregnancy Center—as she shares heartfelt stories of faith, provision, and perseverance from her journey through life’s muddy bottoms. In this episode, "Walking By Faith" Vikki opens up about trusting God through uncertainty, from launching life-saving pregnancy centers with no resources to waiting patiently for His perfect timing. With warmth, humor, and deep biblical insight, Vikki reminds listeners that faith isn’t a feeling—it’s a choice to keep stepping forward when you can’t yet see the next step. Whether you’re facing a foggy path, a delayed promise, or a mountain that feels too high, this episode will encourage you to hold tight to the One who makes a way through the mud.

Join Vicki Parker and Brandy Cunningham on Sit on That Stump in Muddy Bottom as they dive into the powerful topic, "Broken Before the Crown: How God Uses Pain to Prepare Purpose." Through heartfelt stories, scripture, and real-life experiences, they explore how God transforms brokenness into strength, using pain as a pathway to purpose. From Esther’s trials to David’s solitude, discover how your struggles can qualify you for God’s calling. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about finding hope and courage in life’s toughest moments.

Vicki Parker shares her deeply personal story of loss, deception, and faith. As a widow, she opens up about how scammers infiltrated her family through social media during a vulnerable time. This episode exposes the tactics used to target widows, seniors, and the lonely—while offering spiritual insight and practical ways to guard your heart, your finances, and your peace.