This is the episode every woman needs to hear. Because most of us think money in relationships will just sort itself out, or that breaking up is something that happens to other people. Sorry to burst that love bubble, but today is here to show you this mindset can cost you everything… and how to protect yourself (while still building a life together). To do that, we’re joined by special guest Claire Walczak, a family law expert who sees the reality of this every day. She walks us through the early money decisions most people barely think about and how those choices shape power, security, and options over time. You’ll leave this episode knowing what actually protects you financially in a relationship, which conversations are worth having sooner rather than later, and how to set yourself up without turning love into a legal strategy.

In this ep:
💸Where financial power actually shows up in relationships, even when everything feels equal
💸Why avoiding money conversations to keep the peace just means more drama later
💸The assumptions couples make about shared money that don’t hold up legally
💸What “setting yourself up” really looks like inside a loving, healthy relationship
💸The #1 thing people wish they knew earlier (when it's already too late)

CLAIRE'S LINKS: Claire Walczak is an accredited family law specialist and a partner in the Melbourne family and relationship law office at Lander & Rogers, you can find out more about her here. 

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The advice shared on She's On The Money is general in nature and does not consider your individual circumstances. She's On The Money exists purely for educational purposes and should not be relied upon to make an investment or financial decision. If you do choose to buy a financial product, read the PDS, TMD and obtain appropriate financial advice tailored towards your needs. Victoria Devine and She's On The Money are authorised representatives of Money Sherpa PTY LTD ABN - 321649 27708, AFSL - 451289.

This is the episode every woman needs to hear. Because most of us think money in relationships will just sort itself out, or that breaking up is something that happens to other people. Sorry to burst that love bubble, but today is here to show you this mindset can cost you everything&hellip; and how to protect yourself (while still building a life together). To do that, we&rsquo;re joined by special guest Claire Walczak, a family law expert who sees the reality of this every day. She walks us through the early money decisions most people barely think about and how those choices shape power, security, and options over time. You&rsquo;ll leave this episode knowing what actually protects you financially in a relationship, which conversations are worth having sooner rather than later, and how to set yourself up without turning love into a legal strategy. In this ep: 💸Where financial power actually shows up in relationships, even when everything feels equal 💸Why avoiding money conversations to keep the peace just means more drama later 💸The assumptions couples make about shared money that don&rsquo;t hold up legally 💸What &ldquo;setting yourself up&rdquo; really looks like inside a loving, healthy relationship 💸The #1 thing people wish they knew earlier (when it's already too late) CLAIRE'S LINKS: Claire Walczak is an accredited family law specialist and a partner in the Melbourne family and relationship law office at Lander &amp; Rogers, you can find out more about her <a href="https://www.landers.com.au/our-people/claire-walczak">here</a>.&nbsp; FREE DOWNLOAD MENTIONED IN THIS EP: <a href="https://www.shesonthemoney.com/s/SOTM-DivorceSeparationGuide.pdf">How to prepare for divorce and seperation</a> EVEN MORE MONEY AND RELATIONSHIPS EPISODES:&nbsp;<a href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4AJP5rPZmTf9IvKoLFeQou?si=693278a717704819">How to Combine Finances playlist</a> FREEBIE: Find our SOTM Money Date Checklist for both couples and singles <a href="https://www.shesonthemoney.com/download-resources">here</a>.
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The advice shared on She's On The Money is general in nature and does not consider your individual circumstances. She's On The Money exists purely for educational purposes and should not be relied upon to make an investment or financial decision. If you do choose to buy a financial product, read the PDS, TMD and obtain appropriate financial advice tailored towards your needs. Victoria Devine and She's On The Money are authorised representatives of Money Sherpa PTY LTD ABN - 321649 27708, AFSL - 451289.

Australia’s #1 finance podcast. Ready to take control of your money without the stress (or boring lectures)? This is the show for you. Hosted by award-winning financial expert and your ultimate money hype girl, Victoria Devine, SOTM makes personal finance relatable, empowering, and —yes—actually fun. Join a community of 400,000+ smashing their financial goals, from buying their first property to learning to invest, levelling up their careers, or tackling budgeting, saving and debt— all without giving up their morning latte. From Deep Dives into the topics you care about, to pervy looks at real-life Money Diaries or cheeky Friday Drinks money talk with the girls, Victoria and her team make finance feel like your group chat—just way better for your bank balance. 

It's honest, relatable and non-judgmental talk about personal finance, investing, real estate, career and business... with a big dose of fun.  

Australia’s #1 finance podcast. Ready to take control of your money without the stress (or boring lectures)? This is the show for you. Hosted by award-winning financial expert and your ultimate money hype girl, Victoria Devine, SOTM makes personal finance relatable, empowering, and —yes—actually fun. Join a community of 400,000+ smashing their financial goals, from buying their first property to learning to invest, levelling up their careers, or tackling budgeting, saving and debt— all without giving up their morning latte. From Deep Dives into the topics you care about, to pervy looks at real-life Money Diaries or cheeky Friday Drinks money talk with the girls, Victoria and her team make finance feel like your group chat—just way better for your bank balance. 
It's honest, relatable and non-judgmental talk about personal finance, investing, real estate, career and business... with a big dose of fun.

Empowering you to take control of your finances, one relatable, brunch-worthy chat at a time.

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What a Family Lawyer Wishes Every Woman Knew About Money and Relationships

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