In Episode 98, Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae kick things off with a classic What Irritated Me This Week moment that wastes absolutely no time. From side‑eyeing loud, misogynistic podcast debates to unpacking the exhausting contradictions of “traditional” expectations placed on women, the duo makes it clear: some opinions deserve to be left at the mic. Things only get hotter when they dive into prom season, questioning why kids are pulling up in Lamborghinis for one night while graduation barely gets a balloon. Is it celebration, performance, or a little bit of both? And more importantly—who is this really for?  

The conversation shifts from rhinestones to red carpets as Jerrilyn and Lynee’ get real about the Met Gala, high fashion, and why being uncomfortable is somehow part of the aesthetic. They break down the industry’s long history of unrealistic beauty standards, from modeling culture to size obsessions, and why “beauty is pain” isn’t just a phrase—it’s a system. With jokes that land and truths that hit, they connect fashion, capitalism, and hypocrisy in a way only She Said It First can. Equal parts hilarious and honest, this episode is a reminder that looking good has never been worth losing yourself—and if it is, maybe it’s time to change the rules. 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@u1pn 

Follow: 

@urban1podcast  

@indeskribeabull   

@lynee_monae 

Executive Producer: 

Jahi Whitehead/ @Jahi_TRG 

Video/Social Media Producer: 

Walter Gainer II 

In Episode 98, Jerrilyn Lake (aka&nbsp;Indeskribeabull) and Lynee&rsquo; Monae kick things off with a classic&nbsp;What Irritated Me This Week&nbsp;moment that wastes absolutely no time. From side‑eyeing loud, misogynistic podcast debates to unpacking the exhausting contradictions of &ldquo;traditional&rdquo; expectations placed on women, the duo makes it clear: some opinions deserve to be left at the mic. Things only get hotter when they dive into prom season, questioning why kids are pulling up in Lamborghinis for one night while graduation barely gets a balloon. Is it celebration, performance, or a little bit of both? And more importantly&mdash;who is this really for?&nbsp;&nbsp;
The conversation shifts from rhinestones to red carpets as Jerrilyn and Lynee&rsquo; get real about the Met Gala, high fashion, and why being uncomfortable is somehow part of the aesthetic. They break down the industry&rsquo;s long history of unrealistic beauty standards, from modeling culture to size obsessions, and why &ldquo;beauty is pain&rdquo;&nbsp;isn&rsquo;t&nbsp;just a phrase&mdash;it&rsquo;s&nbsp;a system. With jokes that land and truths that hit, they connect fashion, capitalism, and hypocrisy in a way only&nbsp;She Said It First&nbsp;can. Equal parts hilarious and&nbsp;honest,&nbsp;this episode is a reminder that looking good has never been worth losing yourself&mdash;and if it is,&nbsp;maybe it&rsquo;s&nbsp;time to change the rules.&nbsp;
YouTube:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@u1pn">https://www.youtube.com/@u1pn</a>&nbsp;
Follow:&nbsp;
@urban1podcast&nbsp;&nbsp;
@indeskribeabull&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;
@lynee_monae&nbsp;
Executive Producer:&nbsp;
Jahi Whitehead/&nbsp;@Jahi_TRG&nbsp;
Video/Social Media Producer:&nbsp;
Walter Gainer II&nbsp;

Welcome to the She Said It First Podcast, where hosts Lynee’ Monae and Jerrilyn, also known as IndesKribeaBULL, bring you a refreshing and humorous take on the latest happenings in the world, trending topics on social media, and offer some hilarious yet insightful advice through their 'Sista to Sista' hotline. Join us for one of the most entertaining and engaging podcasts out there. If you're ready for a good kiki and some piping hot tea, She Said It First is the perfect podcast for you!

Welcome to the She Said It First Podcast, where hosts Lynee’ Monae and Jerrilyn, also known as IndesKribeaBULL, bring you a refreshing and humorous take on the latest happenings in the world, trending topics on social media, and offer some hilarious yet insightful advice through their 'Sista to Sista' hotline. Join us for one of the most entertaining and engaging podcasts out there. If you're ready for a good kiki and some piping hot tea, She Said It First is the perfect podcast for you!

She Said It First

Beauty is Pain | Episode 98

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