In this episode, we’re getting brutally honest about something no one wants to admit — sometimes… you’re the problem. Before you panic, take a breath — this isn’t about shame. It’s about power. We’re diving into the blame game: why we point fingers at our job, our partner, our past, or our friendships — and how that blame secretly keeps us stuck, small, and spiraling. 

We unpack the real reason it feels so hard to take ownership and how most people weaponise responsibility against themselves instead of using it as a tool for transformation.  

Ashy shares how blaming her stepdad held her back for years, and Tijana opens up about blaming everything around her — from work to relationships — until she finally reclaimed her life through radical ownership.  If you’re ready to stop outsourcing your peace and start shifting your patterns, this is the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed.  It might sting — but it’ll set you free.

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In this episode, we&rsquo;re getting brutally honest about something no one wants to admit &mdash; sometimes&hellip; you&rsquo;re the problem. Before you panic, take a breath &mdash; this isn&rsquo;t about shame. It&rsquo;s about power. We&rsquo;re diving into the blame game: why we point fingers at our job, our partner, our past, or our friendships &mdash; and how that blame secretly keeps us stuck, small, and spiraling.&nbsp;
We unpack the real reason it feels so hard to take ownership and how most people weaponise responsibility against themselves instead of using it as a tool for transformation. &nbsp;
Ashy shares how blaming her stepdad held her back for years, and Tijana opens up about blaming everything around her &mdash; from work to relationships &mdash; until she finally reclaimed her life through radical ownership. &nbsp;If you&rsquo;re ready to stop outsourcing your peace and start shifting your patterns, this is the wake-up call you didn&rsquo;t know you needed. &nbsp;It might sting &mdash; but it&rsquo;ll set you free.
Follow us on Instagram @sherises.podcast
Join us in our Facebook forum 😊
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/g/14aGDENStv/?mibextid=wwXIfr">https://www.facebook.com/share/g/14aGDENStv/?mibextid=wwXIfr</a>
Link to Bestie Advice and Freaky Friday submissions:
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Join Ashy Bines & Tijana Bundalo as they help you conquer yourself, your goals, and rise above IT ALL.
This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to be your biggest, boldest & most authentic version of yourself.
We help you shed the shame, grow to a new level, laugh, cry and talk about the topics everyone else is afraid to talk about.
Get ready to feel a breath of fresh air as we invite you into new conversations, new levels of self and new levels of PERSONAL SUCCESS.
With love, play, fun and spice…. Get ready for your next level self.

Join Ashy Bines &amp; Tijana Bundalo as they help you conquer yourself, your goals, and rise above IT ALL. This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to be your biggest, boldest &amp; most authentic version of yourself. We help you shed the shame, grow to a new level, laugh, cry and talk about the topics everyone else is afraid to talk about. Get ready to feel a breath of fresh air as we invite you into new conversations, new levels of self and new levels of PERSONAL SUCCESS. With love, play, fun and spice&hellip;. Get ready for your next level self.

Join Ashy Bines & Tijana Bundalow as they help you Conquer yourself, your goals, and rise above IT ALL. This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to be your biggest, boldest & most authentic version of yourself. We help you shed the shame , grow to a new level, laugh, cry and talk about the topics everyone else is afraid to talk about. Get ready to feel a breath of fresh air as we invite you into new conversations, new levels of self acceptance & new levels of PERSONAL SUCCESS. With love, play, fun and spice…. Get ready for your next level self.

She Rises with Ashy & Tijana

Join Ashy Bines & Tijana Bundalow as they help you conquer yourself, your goals, and rise above IT ALL.
This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to be your biggest, boldest & most authentic version of yourself.
We help you shed the shame, grow to a new level, laugh, cry and talk about the topics everyone else is afraid to talk about.
Get ready to feel a breath of fresh air as we invite you into new conversations, new levels of self and new levels of PERSONAL SUCCESS.
With love, play, fun and spice…. Get ready for your next level self.

Join Ashy Bines &amp; Tijana Bundalow as they help you conquer yourself, your goals, and rise above IT ALL. This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to be your biggest, boldest &amp; most authentic version of yourself. We help you shed the shame, grow to a new level, laugh, cry and talk about the topics everyone else is afraid to talk about. Get ready to feel a breath of fresh air as we invite you into new conversations, new levels of self and new levels of PERSONAL SUCCESS. With love, play, fun and spice&hellip;. Get ready for your next level self.

STOP BLAMING, Maybe you're the problem? 🥵 OUCH truth hurts sometimes……

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