Today we’re unpacking a pattern so many strong women carry: the trauma of over-responsibility.

Why do we take on all the blame? Why does it feel safer to carry the emotional load alone than risk someone being upset with us? From peacekeeping to people-pleasing, we dive into the hidden wounds behind this dynamic—and the ways it silently builds resentment, robs us of connection, and stunts the growth of everyone involved.

This is a raw, honest convo on what it means to stop performing emotional labor for two, and start honoring your voice, needs, and truth.

If you’ve ever been scared to express how you really feel because it’s easier to just say, *“it’s my fault”… this one’s for you.

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Today we&rsquo;re unpacking a pattern so many strong women carry: the trauma of over-responsibility.
Why do we take on all the blame? Why does it feel safer to carry the emotional load&nbsp;alone&nbsp;than risk someone being upset with us? From peacekeeping to people-pleasing, we dive into the hidden wounds behind this dynamic&mdash;and the ways it silently builds resentment, robs us of connection, and stunts the growth of everyone involved.
This is a raw, honest convo on what it means to stop performing emotional labor for two, and start honoring&nbsp;your&nbsp;voice, needs, and truth.
If you&rsquo;ve ever been scared to express how you really feel because it&rsquo;s easier to just say, *&ldquo;it&rsquo;s my fault&rdquo;&hellip; this one&rsquo;s for you.
Follow us on Instagram @sherises.podcast
Join us in our Facebook forum 😊
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/share/g/14aGDENStv/?mibextid=wwXIfr">https://www.facebook.com/share/g/14aGDENStv/?mibextid=wwXIfr</a>
Link to Bestie Advice and Freaky Friday submissions:
<a href="https://form.jotform.com/243327003990857">https://form.jotform.com/243327003990857</a>

Join Ashy Bines & Tijana Bundalo as they help you conquer yourself, your goals, and rise above IT ALL.
This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to be your biggest, boldest & most authentic version of yourself.
We help you shed the shame, grow to a new level, laugh, cry and talk about the topics everyone else is afraid to talk about.
Get ready to feel a breath of fresh air as we invite you into new conversations, new levels of self and new levels of PERSONAL SUCCESS.
With love, play, fun and spice…. Get ready for your next level self.

Join Ashy Bines &amp; Tijana Bundalo as they help you conquer yourself, your goals, and rise above IT ALL. This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to be your biggest, boldest &amp; most authentic version of yourself. We help you shed the shame, grow to a new level, laugh, cry and talk about the topics everyone else is afraid to talk about. Get ready to feel a breath of fresh air as we invite you into new conversations, new levels of self and new levels of PERSONAL SUCCESS. With love, play, fun and spice&hellip;. Get ready for your next level self.

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She Rises with Ashy & Tijana

Join Ashy Bines & Tijana Bundalow as they help you conquer yourself, your goals, and rise above IT ALL.
This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to be your biggest, boldest & most authentic version of yourself.
We help you shed the shame, grow to a new level, laugh, cry and talk about the topics everyone else is afraid to talk about.
Get ready to feel a breath of fresh air as we invite you into new conversations, new levels of self and new levels of PERSONAL SUCCESS.
With love, play, fun and spice…. Get ready for your next level self.

Join Ashy Bines &amp; Tijana Bundalow as they help you conquer yourself, your goals, and rise above IT ALL. This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to be your biggest, boldest &amp; most authentic version of yourself. We help you shed the shame, grow to a new level, laugh, cry and talk about the topics everyone else is afraid to talk about. Get ready to feel a breath of fresh air as we invite you into new conversations, new levels of self and new levels of PERSONAL SUCCESS. With love, play, fun and spice&hellip;. Get ready for your next level self.

121. 2 Ways Responsibility Turns Into Self-Abandonment

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