Ryan O'Donnell tries to convince Shane that his excitement for Christmas and Ryan's love of Magic the Gathering are basically the same nerdy habit, and Shane is not having it, kicking off a debate that somehow lands on a much bigger idea.

The forwarded meme with no caption, the stranger who says good morning first, the coffee shop worker who remembers your face, all of it turns out to be part of something Shane calls a bid for affection, and once you hear the pattern you will start noticing it everywhere in your own day.

Ryan gets caught in the middle of his own example when he admits he felt genuinely good about being recognized by a barista, and Shane uses it to show exactly how these small moments work on all of us, strangers included.

Topics: bids for affection, everyday connection habits, coffee shop greetings, relationship intimacy, Gottman research

Originally aired on 2026-08-21

Ryan O'Donnell tries to convince Shane that his excitement for Christmas and Ryan's love of Magic the Gathering are basically the same nerdy habit, and Shane is not having it, kicking off a debate that somehow lands on a much bigger idea.
The forwarded meme with no caption, the stranger who says good morning first, the coffee shop worker who remembers your face, all of it turns out to be part of something Shane calls a bid for affection, and once you hear the pattern you will start noticing it everywhere in your own day.
Ryan gets caught in the middle of his own example when he admits he felt genuinely good about being recognized by a barista, and Shane uses it to show exactly how these small moments work on all of us, strangers included.
Topics: bids for affection, everyday connection habits, coffee shop greetings, relationship intimacy, Gottman research
Originally aired on&nbsp;2026-08-21

Shane Hewitt & The Nightshift is your late-night companion for real talk, bold ideas, and unfiltered conversations that matter. Hosted by Canadian radio veteran Shane Hewitt, each episode dives into the headlines, human stories, and hidden truths shaping our world—always with curiosity, compassion, and a sharp edge.

From politics and pop culture to mental health, technology, and everyday life, this podcast is where night owls, deep thinkers, and curious minds come to connect. Featuring expert guests, passionate callers, and Shane’s signature style—thoughtful, fearless, and refreshingly real.

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Shane Hewitt &amp; The Nightshift is your late-night companion for real talk, bold ideas, and unfiltered conversations that matter. Hosted by Canadian radio veteran Shane Hewitt, each episode dives into the headlines, human stories, and hidden truths shaping our world&mdash;always with curiosity, compassion, and a sharp edge.
From politics and pop culture to mental health, technology, and everyday life, this podcast is where night owls, deep thinkers, and curious minds come to connect. Featuring expert guests, passionate callers, and Shane&rsquo;s signature style&mdash;thoughtful, fearless, and refreshingly real.
If you crave meaningful dialogue, smart perspectives, and late-night radio energy in podcast form, subscribe now and join The Nightshift.

Shane Hewitt and The Nightshift

Shane Hewitt is known for his engaging and relatable on-air personality, which captivates listeners. His ability to blend insightful commentary with humour and empathy creates a genuine connection with listeners.  Shane Hewitt and the Night Shift provides relatable content, informative discussions and expert insights – along with a balance of anecdotes and entertainment.

Shane Hewitt is known for his engaging and relatable on-air personality, which captivates listeners. His ability to blend insightful commentary with humour and empathy creates a genuine connection with listeners.  Shane Hewitt and the Night Shift provides relatable content, informative discussions and expert insights – along with a balance of anecdotes and entertainment.