Marriage problems can occupy so much space that the relationship becomes hard to see beyond them. Dr. Laurie Betito offers questions for distinguishing a difficulty within a marriage from one that has come to define it.

The Same Incident, a Different Meaning

A damaged car might be an accident or part of a repeated pattern. Context changes the question. Laurie separates life’s pressures from damaging behaviour and considers what a history of friendship, support and repair contributes when something goes wrong.

Small Deposits, Important Limits

An emotional bank account is built through ordinary interactions, but goodwill isn’t permission for every kind of withdrawal. Laurie names everyday ways to strengthen that account, the habits that drain it, and the boundaries the metaphor must respect. Accountability matters alongside affection.

Topics: marriage problems, emotional bank account, relationship repair, accountability, relationship boundaries

GUEST: Dr. Laurie Betito | DrLaurie.com

Originally aired on 2026-10-02

Marriage problems can occupy so much space that the relationship becomes hard to see beyond them. Dr. Laurie Betito offers questions for distinguishing a difficulty within a marriage from one that has come to define it.
The Same Incident, a Different Meaning
A damaged car might be an accident or part of a repeated pattern. Context changes the question. Laurie separates life&rsquo;s pressures from damaging behaviour and considers what a history of friendship, support and repair contributes when something goes wrong.
Small Deposits, Important Limits
An emotional bank account is built through ordinary interactions, but goodwill isn&rsquo;t permission for every kind of withdrawal. Laurie names everyday ways to strengthen that account, the habits that drain it, and the boundaries the metaphor must respect. Accountability matters alongside affection.
Topics: marriage problems, emotional bank account, relationship repair, accountability, relationship boundaries
GUEST: Dr. Laurie Betito | DrLaurie.com
Originally aired on&nbsp;2026-10-02

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Shane Hewitt &amp; The Nightshift is your late-night companion for real talk, bold ideas, and unfiltered conversations that matter. Hosted by Canadian radio veteran Shane Hewitt, each episode dives into the headlines, human stories, and hidden truths shaping our world&mdash;always with curiosity, compassion, and a sharp edge.
From politics and pop culture to mental health, technology, and everyday life, this podcast is where night owls, deep thinkers, and curious minds come to connect. Featuring expert guests, passionate callers, and Shane&rsquo;s signature style&mdash;thoughtful, fearless, and refreshingly real.
If you crave meaningful dialogue, smart perspectives, and late-night radio energy in podcast form, subscribe now and join The Nightshift.

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