It might sound dramatic, but it’s becoming a real issue. When fictional heroes are written to be endlessly patient, impossibly romantic, or superhumanly perfect, it’s easy for real guys to feel like they’re constantly falling short…. and for your girlfriends to have superhero-like expectations. Fictional heroes swoop in with perfect lines, flawless devotion, and just the right amount of brooding mystery — and real people rarely stand a chance. But letting those dreamy characters set the bar for actual relationships can quietly sabotage our chances at real love. Before you blame your dating life, it might be time to ask: is fantasy ruining our reality?

GUEST: 

Dr. Laurie Betito, clinical psychologist and certified psychosexual therapist

It might sound dramatic, but it&rsquo;s becoming a real issue. When fictional heroes are written to be endlessly patient, impossibly romantic, or superhumanly perfect, it&rsquo;s easy for real guys to feel like they&rsquo;re constantly falling short&hellip;. and for your girlfriends to have superhero-like expectations. Fictional heroes swoop in with perfect lines, flawless devotion, and just the right amount of brooding mystery &mdash; and real people rarely stand a chance. But letting those dreamy characters set the bar for actual relationships can quietly sabotage our chances at real love. Before you blame your dating life, it might be time to ask: is fantasy ruining our reality?
GUEST: 
Dr. Laurie Betito, clinical psychologist and certified psychosexual therapist

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Shane Hewitt &amp; The Nightshift is your late-night companion for real talk, bold ideas, and unfiltered conversations that matter. Hosted by Canadian radio veteran Shane Hewitt, each episode dives into the headlines, human stories, and hidden truths shaping our world&mdash;always with curiosity, compassion, and a sharp edge.
From politics and pop culture to mental health, technology, and everyday life, this podcast is where night owls, deep thinkers, and curious minds come to connect. Featuring expert guests, passionate callers, and Shane&rsquo;s signature style&mdash;thoughtful, fearless, and refreshingly real.
If you crave meaningful dialogue, smart perspectives, and late-night radio energy in podcast form, subscribe now and join The Nightshift.

Shane Hewitt and The Nightshift

Shane Hewitt is known for his engaging and relatable on-air personality, which captivates listeners. His ability to blend insightful commentary with humour and empathy creates a genuine connection with listeners.  Shane Hewitt and the Night Shift provides relatable content, informative discussions and expert insights – along with a balance of anecdotes and entertainment.

Shane Hewitt is known for his engaging and relatable on-air personality, which captivates listeners. His ability to blend insightful commentary with humour and empathy creates a genuine connection with listeners.  Shane Hewitt and the Night Shift provides relatable content, informative discussions and expert insights – along with a balance of anecdotes and entertainment.