Friend advice in relationships gets complicated when their baggage clouds what they see in yours. Your closest friend gives you relationship advice. It sounds helpful. But their last breakup was brutal, and now you're wondering: are they seeing your situation clearly, or filtering everything through their own pain?

Shane talks with Jen Kirsch and Tony Tedesco about navigating friend influence, including Ashley Tisdale leaving a toxic celebrity mom circle. Jen shares how she prefaced advice with "I could be projecting here," modeling the self-awareness most skip. Tony explains why he looks for soundboards over advisors, especially avoiding friends stuck reliving their glory days. They explore when repeated venting signals your friend needs professional support.

Discover how to recognize projection masked as concern. Learn why asking "what do you see here?" shifts the dynamic. Understand the difference between friends who know your past and friends who understand your present.

GUEST: Jen Kirsch | @‌jen_kirsch and Tony Tedesco

Originally aired on2026-01-16

Friend advice in relationships gets complicated when their baggage clouds what they see in yours. Your closest friend gives you relationship advice. It sounds helpful. But their last breakup was brutal, and now you're wondering: are they seeing your situation clearly, or filtering everything through their own pain?
Shane talks with Jen Kirsch and Tony Tedesco about navigating friend influence, including Ashley Tisdale leaving a toxic celebrity mom circle. Jen shares how she prefaced advice with "I could be projecting here," modeling the self-awareness most skip. Tony explains why he looks for soundboards over advisors, especially avoiding friends stuck reliving their glory days. They explore when repeated venting signals your friend needs professional support.
Discover how to recognize projection masked as concern. Learn why asking "what do you see here?" shifts the dynamic. Understand the difference between friends who know your past and friends who understand your present.
GUEST: Jen Kirsch | @&zwnj;jen_kirsch and Tony Tedesco
Originally aired on 2026-01-16

Shane Hewitt & The Nightshift is your late-night companion for real talk, bold ideas, and unfiltered conversations that matter. Hosted by Canadian radio veteran Shane Hewitt, each episode dives into the headlines, human stories, and hidden truths shaping our world—always with curiosity, compassion, and a sharp edge.

From politics and pop culture to mental health, technology, and everyday life, this podcast is where night owls, deep thinkers, and curious minds come to connect. Featuring expert guests, passionate callers, and Shane’s signature style—thoughtful, fearless, and refreshingly real.

If you crave meaningful dialogue, smart perspectives, and late-night radio energy in podcast form, subscribe now and join The Nightshift.

Shane Hewitt &amp; The Nightshift is your late-night companion for real talk, bold ideas, and unfiltered conversations that matter. Hosted by Canadian radio veteran Shane Hewitt, each episode dives into the headlines, human stories, and hidden truths shaping our world&mdash;always with curiosity, compassion, and a sharp edge.
From politics and pop culture to mental health, technology, and everyday life, this podcast is where night owls, deep thinkers, and curious minds come to connect. Featuring expert guests, passionate callers, and Shane&rsquo;s signature style&mdash;thoughtful, fearless, and refreshingly real.
If you crave meaningful dialogue, smart perspectives, and late-night radio energy in podcast form, subscribe now and join The Nightshift.

Shane Hewitt and The Nightshift

Shane Hewitt is known for his engaging and relatable on-air personality, which captivates listeners. His ability to blend insightful commentary with humour and empathy creates a genuine connection with listeners.  Shane Hewitt and the Night Shift provides relatable content, informative discussions and expert insights – along with a balance of anecdotes and entertainment.

Shane Hewitt is known for his engaging and relatable on-air personality, which captivates listeners. His ability to blend insightful commentary with humour and empathy creates a genuine connection with listeners.  Shane Hewitt and the Night Shift provides relatable content, informative discussions and expert insights – along with a balance of anecdotes and entertainment.

Friend Advice in Relationships: When Support Becomes Baggage

The 2016 nostalgia trend hit your feed this week. Instagram prompted you to post a photo from 10 years ago. You scrolled through old albums, found pictures of yourself at summer camp or working retail or figuring out college. Maybe you posted it. Maybe you just looked and remembered how different life felt then. The question nobody's asking: why 2016 specifically when nostalgia usually runs on a 20-year cycle?

The hosts note Happy Days in 1974 looked back to the 1950s. That 70s Show premiered in the late 90s. The pattern holds at roughly 20 years, yet here we are celebrating 10. One theory: social media needs content. People aren't posting like they used to. Everyone reposts Reels that disappear. AI generates half the feed. The platforms are running out of updates, so they prompt you to mine your archive. Pokemon Go gets mentioned as the last time the internet felt genuinely calm and unified.

Discover why this nostalgia cycle broke its own pattern. Learn what changed between 2016 and now that makes 10 years feel like a lifetime. Consider what you did regularly in 2016 that you wish you still did.

Originally aired on 2026-01-16

The 2016 nostalgia trend hit your feed this week. Instagram prompted you to post a photo from 10 years ago. You scrolled through old albums, found pictures of yourself at summer camp or working retail or figuring out college. Maybe you posted it. Maybe you just looked and remembered how different life felt then. The question nobody's asking: why 2016 specifically when nostalgia usually runs on a 20-year cycle?
The hosts note Happy Days in 1974 looked back to the 1950s. That 70s Show premiered in the late 90s. The pattern holds at roughly 20 years, yet here we are celebrating 10. One theory: social media needs content. People aren't posting like they used to. Everyone reposts Reels that disappear. AI generates half the feed. The platforms are running out of updates, so they prompt you to mine your archive. Pokemon Go gets mentioned as the last time the internet felt genuinely calm and unified.
Discover why this nostalgia cycle broke its own pattern. Learn what changed between 2016 and now that makes 10 years feel like a lifetime. Consider what you did regularly in 2016 that you wish you still did.
Originally aired on&nbsp;2026-01-16

Why 2016 Became the Internet's Nostalgia Cutoff

The Canada China EV deal brings electric vehicles into the country that was labeled a security threat nine months ago. Your government negotiated tariff quotas on cars and canola with the nation whose technology was banned from cell networks. Now that same technology will fill roads in $33,000 vehicles while auto workers question if their jobs got traded for cheaper imports.

Baron explains Canada is "heavily dependent on our commerce relationship with the US" and needed diversification. China represents "the largest market in the world outside of" America. The deal uses sliding tariff scales, but pricing strategy remains unclear. Will Chinese manufacturers sell EVs at their $33,000 price point or mark up to $50,000 and pocket the difference? Canadian manufacturing "is still not well-tailored" for EV production. The contradiction: technology banned from networks nine months ago now arrives in cars.

Learn why Canada risked US backlash to diversify trade partners. Understand how sliding tariff quotas could impact car pricing and job protection. Discover what changed politically to make China an acceptable trade partner for agriculture and technology-heavy electric vehicles.

GUEST: Opher Baron

Originally aired on 2026-01-16

The Canada China EV deal brings electric vehicles into the country that was labeled a security threat nine months ago. Your government negotiated tariff quotas on cars and canola with the nation whose technology was banned from cell networks. Now that same technology will fill roads in $33,000 vehicles while auto workers question if their jobs got traded for cheaper imports.
Baron explains Canada is "heavily dependent on our commerce relationship with the US" and needed diversification. China represents "the largest market in the world outside of" America. The deal uses sliding tariff scales, but pricing strategy remains unclear. Will Chinese manufacturers sell EVs at their $33,000 price point or mark up to $50,000 and pocket the difference? Canadian manufacturing "is still not well-tailored" for EV production. The contradiction: technology banned from networks nine months ago now arrives in cars.
Learn why Canada risked US backlash to diversify trade partners. Understand how sliding tariff quotas could impact car pricing and job protection. Discover what changed politically to make China an acceptable trade partner for agriculture and technology-heavy electric vehicles.
GUEST:&nbsp;Opher Baron
Originally aired on&nbsp;2026-01-16

NEW - Canada China EV Deal: The Tariff Trade-Off Nobody's Explaining

The Ontario snowstorm response that captured national attention wasn't about accumulation totals or road conditions. You watched a CTV reporter approach a random guy on a Toronto street during 22 centimeters of snowfall. You expected complaints about transit or shoveling. Instead, he delivered the most Canadian answer possible, then walked away. That was all. Done talking. Peak Canadian in one sentence.

Ottawa got 33 centimeters. Toronto got 22. Schools closed, something Alberta kids "can only dream of" since closures don't happen there. One Calgary student remembers getting 35 centimeters overnight, checking email to find "there's no classes, but they should come to school." The comparison reveals regional winter culture gaps. Meanwhile, drivers going 45 in an 80 zone on plowed streets in broad daylight prompted the observation: "You should be home taking an online driver's ed course. You live in Canada, friend."

Discover why the viral snowstorm interview resonated across the country. Learn how 1944 Toronto handled nearly 60 centimeters without calling the army. Understand regional differences in school closure policies and winter driving expectations.

Originally aired on 2026-01-16

The Ontario snowstorm response that captured national attention wasn't about accumulation totals or road conditions. You watched a CTV reporter approach a random guy on a Toronto street during 22 centimeters of snowfall. You expected complaints about transit or shoveling. Instead, he delivered the most Canadian answer possible, then walked away. That was all. Done talking. Peak Canadian in one sentence.
Ottawa got 33 centimeters. Toronto got 22. Schools closed, something Alberta kids "can only dream of" since closures don't happen there. One Calgary student remembers getting 35 centimeters overnight, checking email to find "there's no classes, but they should come to school." The comparison reveals regional winter culture gaps. Meanwhile, drivers going 45 in an 80 zone on plowed streets in broad daylight prompted the observation: "You should be home taking an online driver's ed course. You live in Canada, friend."
Discover why the viral snowstorm interview resonated across the country. Learn how 1944 Toronto handled nearly 60 centimeters without calling the army. Understand regional differences in school closure policies and winter driving expectations.
Originally aired on&nbsp;2026-01-16

Friend Advice in Relationships: When Support Becomes Baggage

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