A psychologist has put together a guide to arguing better in relationships and the key rules are: keep it logical, never bring up the past, listen without making assumptions, and pick your battles because most things just are not worth it. Ricki and Rich apparently communicate rather than argue which is very healthy. However Ricki did spend last Saturday morning crying with a champagne in her hand, furious about absolutely nothing, massaging the frown off her face while Rich sat quietly in the corner. Sometimes the toddler emotions just arrive uninvited and there is nothing to be done about it.