ResemeletseDitlamorago tsa go kgalema bana ka mokgwa o o sa siamang le Mme Maite – Counselling Psychologist
To make an error is human, and making discipline mistakes is part of being a parent. Your child misbehaves and you find yourself losing your cool, yelling, or reacting in a way that you think could have been handled better.
It can be safely concluded that parental instincts always kicks in and prompts an adult to instil what they deem as rightful corrective measures to address mistakes made by a child, but sometimes parents go way overboard, end up frightening a child or instilling worst kind of fear just by yelling at them or even spanking them.
Verbal or physical aggressiveness that always rises when reprimanding a child can have longer lasting negative psychological effects, which can negatively change a child’s life for worse. Many children see their parents or closest elders as their heroes, protectors and people they can always seek comfort in. now having to see an uglier side of the once thought of as a hero person, can now give impressions that the once so called hero is now a monster, resulting in a broken relationship with the child, even manifesting toxicity in within a child.
It can be safely concluded that parental instincts always kicks in and prompts an adult to instil what they deem as rightful corrective measures to address mistakes made by a child, but sometimes parents go way overboard, end up frightening a child or instilling worst kind of fear just by yelling at them or even spanking them.
Verbal or physical aggressiveness that always rises when reprimanding a child can have longer lasting negative psychological effects, which can negatively change a child’s life for worse. Many children see their parents or closest elders as their heroes, protectors and people they can always seek comfort in. now having to see an uglier side of the once thought of as a hero person, can now give impressions that the once so called hero is now a monster, resulting in a broken relationship with the child, even manifesting toxicity in within a child.
