Listener Kesha sent in a text that she needs an answer to: 

"The school year has just begun and the school my son attends already has me annoyed. They sent a letter home to parents telling them if they were planning a birthday celebration during the school year, they should invite ALL the kids in the class, or if it's a girl, invite ALL the girls and for boys, all the boys in the class must be invited. Who do they think they are? My child isn't friends with all the kids, which would just make it awkward. And I can't afford a party for 20 or more kids anyway!
I would like to hear opinions on whether I should respond to the school, or just ignore it and do the party the way I want. Thanks!