She Deserves Better: Overcoming Toxic Teachings About Sex - with Sheila Gregoire

Did you grow up believing what you now realize was toxic teaching on sex? Maybe your church, youth group, or family told you that as a girl you were somehow responsible for the lust of men. Yep. We’re going there. Joining us on today’s episode is popular author and speaker, Sheila Gregoire, who co-wrote the book She Deserves Better. 

Sheila and I talk about some of the toxic teachings on sex that the evangelical church (and other entities) promoted. Some of these teachings include things like, “Boys will be boys,” and “Girls are a stumbling block for men,” which in a sense is teaching men that they are not responsible for their own lust, but girls are. We also talk about how parents, moms especially, can shift the conversation from blaming young women for the sexual advances and inappropriateness of others.



Toxic Teaching on Sex Can Be Triggering



As you listen, you may be triggered by some of the toxic teaching on sex, especially if you were hurt by adults you trusted. This podcast is not meant to stir up those feelings, but it is meant to be a breath of fresh air that we no longer have to repeat these teachings to our daughters (or sons!). She deserves better, and so do you. 

It’s time we start telling the truth about modesty, purity, lust, and sin. It’s time we put the responsibility back on those in whom it belongs. It’s time we start living in the freedom that Christ gives and not allowing ourselves to be “under a yoke of bondage” (Galatians 5:1). Does this mean we should throw modesty and purity out of the window? Absolutely not. It means that we learn to have the right conversations and we teach a balanced, biblical, and honest view of sexuality and its expressions. 

Be sure to listen to the full episode and be ready to rethink how you’ve believed or how you believe. 





Links Mentioned in this Episode 

Register for the Thrive Marriage Mastermind

Get Sheila’s Book: She Deserves Better 

Listen to Sheila’s Podcast

Episode 24: Rethinking Intimacy: Rethinking Sex with Sheila Gregoire



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She Deserves Better: Overcoming Toxic Teachings About Sex - with Sheila Gregoire
Did you grow up believing what you now realize was toxic teaching on sex? Maybe your church, youth group, or family told you that as a girl you were somehow responsible for the lust of men. Yep. We’re going there. Joining us on today’s episode is popular author and speaker, Sheila Gregoire, who co-wrote the book She Deserves Better. 
Sheila and I talk about some of the toxic teachings on sex that the evangelical church (and other entities) promoted. Some of these teachings include things like, “Boys will be boys,” and “Girls are a stumbling block for men,” which in a sense is teaching men that they are not responsible for their own lust, but girls are. We also talk about how parents, moms especially, can shift the conversation from blaming young women for the sexual advances and inappropriateness of others.
 
Toxic Teaching on Sex Can Be Triggering
 
As you listen, you may be triggered by some of the toxic teaching on sex, especially if you were hurt by adults you trusted. This podcast is not meant to stir up those feelings, but it is meant to be a breath of fresh air that we no longer have to repeat these teachings to our daughters (or sons!). She deserves better, and so do you. 
It’s time we start telling the truth about modesty, purity, lust, and sin. It’s time we put the responsibility back on those in whom it belongs. It’s time we start living in the freedom that Christ gives and not allowing ourselves to be “under a yoke of bondage” (Galatians 5:1). Does this mean we should throw modesty and purity out of the window? Absolutely not. It means that we learn to have the right conversations and we teach a balanced, biblical, and honest view of sexuality and its expressions. 
Be sure to listen to the full episode and be ready to rethink how you’ve believed or how you believe. 
 
 
Links Mentioned in this Episode 
<a href="http://thrivemarriagemastermind.com">Register for the Thrive Marriage Mastermind</a>
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/She-Deserves-Better-Teachings-Speaking/dp/B0C1HNRWQX/ref=sr_1_1?crid=356GSH7PCHNCQ&amp;amp;keywords=she+deserves+better+sheila+wray+gregoire&amp;amp;qid=1682471004&amp;amp;sprefix=she+d%252Caps%252C92&amp;amp;sr=8-1&amp;_encoding=UTF8&amp;tag=danache00-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;linkId=71bbcd2b303f6c6cde05b2c8f9e8dfce&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325">Get Sheila’s Book: She Deserves Better </a>
<a href="http://baremarriage.com">Listen to Sheila’s Podcast</a>
<a href="https://realrelationshiptalk.com/rethinking-intimacy-redefining-sex-with-sheila-wray-gregoire-all-about-sex-series/">Episode 24: Rethinking Intimacy: Rethinking Sex with Sheila Gregoire</a>
 
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Each episode offers effective relationship strategies, heartfelt stories, and uplifting messages of hope, aimed at inspiring couples to cultivate lasting joy, intimacy, and fulfillment in their marriage. No Christian clichés over here! Dana's tell-it-like-it-is yet warm humor will endear you to come back every single week.
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Did you grow up believing what you now realize was toxic teaching on sex? Maybe your church, youth group, or family told you that as a girl you were somehow responsible for the lust of men.

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