I’m joined by my husband, Shaun, to discuss the sometimes complicated world of gift-giving in a relationship. If you’ve ever found yourself debating with your spouse or partner over how much money you spend on gifts, how much is “too much,” or how to honor each other's money habits, this conversation is for you.

Shaun and I get real about our different financial personalities—me as the frugal saver who values experiences over things, and Shaun as the generous giver who believes in creating smiles through thoughtful presents. We share how our upbringings shaped these perspectives and how they lead to “spirited” conversations around the holidays, birthdays, and everyday giving.

Key Takeaways:


Value and respect each other’s approach to giving


Don’t go into debt for holiday gifts—find ways to bless your loved ones within your means


Set a simple holiday budget or gift limit to relieve stress


Recognize when old money stories (like scarcity thinking) are influencing your present


Focus on connection—sometimes a heartfelt note means more than any wrapped package

Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

My new book, Tried and True, is releasing in January 2026! Get on the list to get your FREE 5-day devotional companion at danache.com/triedandtrue.

Still looking for simple ways to build connection with your mate? Get my "Ultimate Couple's Playbook" here. 

Follow Dana Che on the socials! 

Instagram 

Facebook 

YouTube

Like the show? Be sure to SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW the podcast! Then, give it a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ rating and leave a great review! 

I&rsquo;m joined by my husband, Shaun, to discuss the sometimes complicated world of gift-giving in a relationship. If you&rsquo;ve ever found yourself debating with your spouse or partner over how much money you spend on gifts, how much is &ldquo;too much,&rdquo; or how to honor each other's money habits, this conversation is for you.
Shaun and I get real about our different financial personalities&mdash;me as the frugal saver who values experiences over things, and Shaun as the generous giver who believes in creating smiles through thoughtful presents. We share how our upbringings shaped these perspectives and how they lead to &ldquo;spirited&rdquo; conversations around the holidays, birthdays, and everyday giving.
Key Takeaways:
<ul>
<li>
Value and respect each other&rsquo;s approach to giving
</li>
<li>
Don&rsquo;t go into debt for holiday gifts&mdash;find ways to bless your loved ones within your means
</li>
<li>
Set a simple holiday budget or gift limit to relieve stress
</li>
<li>
Recognize when old money stories (like scarcity thinking) are influencing your present
</li>
<li>
Focus on connection&mdash;sometimes a heartfelt note means more than any wrapped package
</li>
</ul>
Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
My new book, Tried and True, is releasing in January 2026! Get on the list to get your FREE 5-day devotional companion at <a href="https://danache.com/triedandtrue">danache.com/triedandtrue</a>.
Still looking for simple ways to build connection with your mate? Get my <a href="https://danache.com/ultimatecouple">"Ultimate Couple's Playbook" here.&nbsp;</a>
Follow Dana Che on the socials!&nbsp;
<a href="https://instagram.com/mrsdanache">Instagram&nbsp;</a>
<a href="https://facebook.com/mrsdanache">Facebook&nbsp;</a>
<a href="https://youtube.com/@mrsdanache">YouTube</a>
Like the show? Be sure to SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW the podcast! Then, give it a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ rating and leave a great review!&nbsp;

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Ever wish there was an "easy" button for marriage? Or that you just had someone who understands the struggle?&nbsp;Rebuilding Us is a top-rated marriage podcast to help you restore intimacy, rebuild trust, and renew hope in your marriage. Join marriage coach Dana Che, who's been married to her hubby, Shaun, for 25 years as she guides couples on the journey toward restoration and connection.
Each episode includes real-life stories, practical strategies, and faith-filled insights to help you reignite love, deepen commitment, and create a thriving, joy-filled relationship. Say goodbye to Christian clich&eacute;s&mdash;Dana&rsquo;s relatable, no-nonsense approach (with a touch of humor!) will keep you coming back week after week.&nbsp;
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A marriage podcast to help couples rebuild trust and rediscover genuine intimacy in their marriages. Sharing lessons from her 25-year marriage, marriage coach &amp; speaker Dana Che will help you heal your past and find hope for your future as you glean effective marriage advice and tools from Dana Che and her guests. These episodic adventures will take you on a transformative journey to a happier and healthier marriage, through faith-based principles.&nbsp;
With relevant relationship strategies, heartfelt stories, and uplifting messages of hope, aimed at inspiring marriages with lasting joy, intimacy, and fulfillment. No Christian clich&eacute;s over here! Dana's tell-it-like-it-is yet warm humor will endear you to come back every single week.
The first letter in "us" is "u," so "rebuilding us" is also about rebuilding u (you). Whether you're seeking reconciliation, restoration, or simply looking for marriage enrichment, 'Rebuilding Us' will help guide your way.
New episodes drop every Tuesday &amp; Friday. Subscribe today so you don't miss a single one!

If you’ve ever found yourself debating with your spouse or partner over how much money you spend on gifts, how much is “too much,” or how to honor each other's money habits, this conversation is for you.

Savers vs Spenders: How Couples Handle Holiday Gift-Giving

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