Have you ever been concerned about your spouse's social media activities . . . or in our listener's case, lack of social media activities? I'm addressing a listener who feels unsettled that her husband never posts about her on social media and even occasionally unfollows her, while sharing other aspects of his life online.

Episode Highlights:


Marriage Advice: I emphasize the importance of communication. Ask, don't assume your partner's intentions.


Use "I statements" to express your feelings without being accusatory.


Key Strategies:


Understand that everyone expresses affection differently, especially on public platforms like social media.


The significance of clear communication around personal expectations in a relationship is critical.


Directly address concerns with your spouse to gain clarity rather than making assumptions.

If you find yourself facing similar a marriage concern, this episode provides a blueprint for addressing issues with empathy and directness. 

 

Resources Mentioned:


Heart-to-Heart Conversation Starters: danache.com/conversationstarters


Submit Your Marriage Questions


It's Not You; It's Me: The I Statement Formula

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Have you ever been concerned about your spouse's social media activities . . . or in our listener's case, lack of social media activities? I'm addressing a listener who feels unsettled that her husband never posts about her on social media and even occasionally unfollows her, while sharing other aspects of his life online.
Episode Highlights:
<ul>
<li>
Marriage Advice: I emphasize the importance of communication. Ask, don't assume your partner's intentions.
</li>
<li>
Use "I statements" to express your feelings without being accusatory.
</li>
<li>
Key Strategies:
<ul>
<li>
Understand that everyone expresses affection differently, especially on public platforms like social media.
</li>
<li>
The significance of clear communication around personal expectations in a relationship is critical.
</li>
<li>
Directly address concerns with your spouse to gain clarity rather than making assumptions.
</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
If you find yourself facing similar a marriage concern, this episode provides a blueprint for addressing issues with empathy and directness.&nbsp;
&nbsp;
Resources Mentioned:
<ul>
<li>
Heart-to-Heart Conversation Starters: <a href="http://danache.com/conversationstarters">danache.com/conversationstarters</a>
</li>
<li>
<a href="https://danache.com/contact">Submit Your Marriage Questions</a>
</li>
<li>
<a href="https://danache.com/marriage-podcasts/86-its-not-you-its-me-communication-101-series/">It's Not You; It's Me: The I Statement Formula</a>
</li>
</ul>
Love the show? Be sure to give it a five-star rating and write a great review!

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My new book is out! Get Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples wherever books are sold! 

Tried and True is a marriage guide for couples facing pressure—disappointment, unmet expectations, seasons of delay, or conflict. Drawing from twelve flawed biblical couples, this book helps you understand what your trials are revealing—and how God can use them to strengthen your covenant and your connection.

A marriage podcast to help couples rebuild trust and rediscover genuine intimacy in their marriages. Sharing lessons from her 25-year marriage, marriage coach &amp; speaker Dana Che will help you heal your past and find hope for your future as you glean effective marriage advice and tools from Dana Che and her guests. These episodic adventures will take you on a transformative journey to a happier and healthier marriage, through faith-based principles.&nbsp;
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Have you ever been concerned about your spouse's social media activities . . . or in our listener's case, lack of social media activities? 