Being a peacemaker is one of the greatest qualities to have in a relationship. As the holiday season approaches, many of us are preparing to gather—whether with family, friends, or even by ourselves—and the pursuit of peace in our relationships becomes more relevant than ever. In this episode, we discuss the value of peacemaking in relationships and discuss the many differences between peacemaking and “peacefaking.”

Key Topics:
The Differences Between Peacemakers and Peacefakers
The Importance of Starting with Reconciliation in Mind
How Conflict Can Be a Tool for Growth
How Listening Impacts Your Influence

Resources Mentioned in this Episode: 

Learn About my online course: From Conflict to Connection 

Get your Free Conversation Starters to Bash Conflict 



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Being a peacemaker is one of the greatest qualities to have in a relationship. As the holiday season approaches, many of us are preparing to gather—whether with family, friends, or even by ourselves—and the pursuit of peace in our relationships becomes more relevant than ever. In this episode, we discuss the value of peacemaking in relationships and discuss the many differences between peacemaking and “peacefaking.”
Key Topics:
<ol>
<li>The Differences Between Peacemakers and Peacefakers</li>
<li>The Importance of Starting with Reconciliation in Mind</li>
<li>How Conflict Can Be a Tool for Growth</li>
<li>How Listening Impacts Your Influence</li>
</ol>
Resources Mentioned in this Episode: 
<a href="https://danache.com/connectioncourse">Learn About my online course: From Conflict to Connection </a>
<a href="https://danache.com/conversationstarters">Get your Free Conversation Starters to Bash Conflict </a>
 
If you enjoy the show, please be sure to leave a five-star rating and write a review!

Welcome to "Rebuilding Us,” a marriage podcast helping to restore intimacy and renew hope in your relationship. Join marriage coach Dana Che on an episodic adventure and explore the transformative journey of rebuilding trust, commitment, and connection by reigniting love through faith-based principles.

Each episode offers effective relationship strategies, heartfelt stories, and uplifting messages of hope, aimed at inspiring couples to cultivate lasting joy, intimacy, and fulfillment in their marriage. No Christian clichés over here! Dana's tell-it-like-it-is yet warm humor will endear you to come back every single week.

The first letter in "us" is "u," so "rebuilding us" is also about rebuilding u (you). Whether you're seeking reconciliation, restoration, or simply looking to enrich your relationship, 'Rebuilding Us' is here to support you on your journey to a thriving and resilient marriage grounded in grace and godly guidance."

Let the rebuild begin!

New episodes drop every Tuesday & Friday. Subscribe today so you don't miss a single one!

Welcome to "Rebuilding Us,” a marriage podcast helping to restore intimacy and renew hope in your relationship. Join marriage coach Dana Che on an episodic adventure and explore the transformative journey of rebuilding trust, commitment, and connection by reigniting love through faith-based principles.
Each episode offers effective relationship strategies, heartfelt stories, and uplifting messages of hope, aimed at inspiring couples to cultivate lasting joy, intimacy, and fulfillment in their marriage. No Christian clichés over here! Dana's tell-it-like-it-is yet warm humor will endear you to come back every single week.
The first letter in "us" is "u," so "rebuilding us" is also about rebuilding u (you). Whether you're seeking reconciliation, restoration, or simply looking to enrich your relationship, 'Rebuilding Us' is here to support you on your journey to a thriving and resilient marriage grounded in grace and godly guidance."
Let the rebuild begin!
New episodes drop every Tuesday &amp; Friday. Subscribe today so you don't miss a single one!

Get the blueprint to improve your marriage and overcome hurt, rediscover intimacy, and deepen your connection. Communication problems got you down? "Rebuilding Us" gives you the valuable tools and encouragement to restore trust, learn from conflict, and navigate the ups and downs of marriage with grace and resilience.

Rebuilding Us: Marriage Podcast

A podcast for married people to build and rebuild trust, intimacy, and connection in your relationship. Heal your past and find hope for your future as you glean relevant, effective relationship advice and tools from marriage coach Dana Che and her guests. These episodic adventures explore the transformative journey of what it takes to have a happy and healthy marriage, reigniting love through faith-based principles. 

Each episode offers effective relationship strategies, heartfelt stories, and uplifting messages of hope, aimed at inspiring couples to cultivate lasting joy, intimacy, and fulfillment in their marriage. No Christian clichés over here! Dana's tell-it-like-it-is yet warm humor will endear you to come back every single week.

The first letter in "us" is "u," so "rebuilding us" is also about rebuilding u (you). Whether you're seeking reconciliation, restoration, or simply looking to enrich your relationship, 'Rebuilding Us' is here to support you on your journey to a thriving and resilient marriage grounded in grace and godly guidance."

Let the rebuild begin!

New episodes drop every Tuesday & Friday. Subscribe today so you don't miss a single one!

A podcast for married people to build and rebuild trust, intimacy, and connection in your relationship. Heal your past and find hope for your future as you glean relevant, effective relationship advice and tools from marriage coach Dana Che and her guests. These episodic adventures explore the transformative journey of what it takes to have a happy and healthy marriage, reigniting love through faith-based principles. 
Each episode offers effective relationship strategies, heartfelt stories, and uplifting messages of hope, aimed at inspiring couples to cultivate lasting joy, intimacy, and fulfillment in their marriage. No Christian clichés over here! Dana's tell-it-like-it-is yet warm humor will endear you to come back every single week.
The first letter in "us" is "u," so "rebuilding us" is also about rebuilding u (you). Whether you're seeking reconciliation, restoration, or simply looking to enrich your relationship, 'Rebuilding Us' is here to support you on your journey to a thriving and resilient marriage grounded in grace and godly guidance."
Let the rebuild begin!
New episodes drop every Tuesday &amp; Friday. Subscribe today so you don't miss a single one!

Being a peacemaker is one of the greatest qualities to have in a relationship. In this episode, we discuss the  differences between peacemaking and “peacefaking.”

Are You a Peacemaker or a "Peacefaker" in Your Relationship?

Entering into marriage is undoubtedly one of the most significant decisions you'll make in your life. But it comes with a cost. With the joys of the engagement season heightened by holidays like Christmas and Valentine's Day, many find themselves caught up in the excitement of wedding planning. However, while beautiful ceremonies and Instagram-worthy moments are cherished, the essence of a marriage lies in its longevity and health. This podcast episode details nine important questions to ask before you get married and emphasizes the importance of counting the cost before tying the knot, ensuring that you're prepared for a lifetime commitment, not just a memorable wedding day.

Resources Mentioned in this Episode: 

Get Your FREE "7 Secrets to a Lasting Marriage" Audio Download Here.



If you enjoy the show, please be sure to leave a five-star rating and write a review!

Entering into marriage is undoubtedly one of the most significant decisions you'll make in your life. But it comes with a cost. With the joys of the engagement season heightened by holidays like Christmas and Valentine's Day, many find themselves caught up in the excitement of wedding planning. However, while beautiful ceremonies and Instagram-worthy moments are cherished, the essence of a marriage lies in its longevity and health. This podcast episode details nine important questions to ask before you get married and emphasizes the importance of counting the cost before tying the knot, ensuring that you're prepared for a lifetime commitment, not just a memorable wedding day.
Resources Mentioned in this Episode: 
<a href="https://danache.com/7things">Get Your FREE "7 Secrets to a Lasting Marriage" Audio Download Here.</a> 
 
If you enjoy the show, please be sure to leave a five-star rating and write a review!

Entering into marriage is undoubtedly one of the most significant decisions you'll make in your life. But it comes with a cost.

Counting the Cost: 9 Questions to Ask Before You Get Married

We're addressing a listener's distressing experience of financial abuse within her marriage. Despite having a stable job and a good income, her husband refuses to pay household bills and indulges in personal expenditures. This has brought about financial strain and an emotional toll. Listen as we discuss the nature of financial abuse and what she can do to "fix" her situation.

Key Discussion Points:


Understanding Financial Abuse: I elaborate on how financial abuse is a form of control, likened to physical, emotional, verbal, and other types of abuse.


Potential Solutions: Best and worst-case scenarios are discussed, including the importance of courageous conversations with her husband and engaging a financial planner or counselor for intervention.


Practical Steps: I outline actionable steps for our listener to protect her financial assets if her husband doesn't change.


Legal Advice: I stress the importance of understanding her legal rights in marriage and documenting all financial decisions she makes.

Resources Mentioned:


Episode 119: "Financial Peace in Your Marriage" with Austin Black


Episode 137: "What is Financial Infidelity?" with Chad Willardson


Get Your FREE Ultimate Couples Checklist: 5 Simple Steps to Build More Intimacy

Got a question you'd like answered on the show? Submit your relationship questions via email or on Instagram.

Like the show? Please give it a 5-star rating, and I'd love for you to write a review!

We're addressing a listener's distressing experience of financial abuse within her marriage. Despite having a stable job and a good income, her husband refuses to pay household bills and indulges in personal expenditures. This has brought about financial strain and an emotional toll. Listen as we discuss the nature of financial abuse and what she can do to "fix" her situation.
Key Discussion Points:
<ul>
<li>
Understanding Financial Abuse: I elaborate on how financial abuse is a form of control, likened to physical, emotional, verbal, and other types of abuse.
</li>
<li>
Potential Solutions: Best and worst-case scenarios are discussed, including the importance of courageous conversations with her husband and engaging a financial planner or counselor for intervention.
</li>
<li>
Practical Steps: I outline actionable steps for our listener to protect her financial assets if her husband doesn't change.
</li>
<li>
Legal Advice: I stress the importance of understanding her legal rights in marriage and documenting all financial decisions she makes.
</li>
</ul>
Resources Mentioned:
<ul>
<li>
<a href="https://danache.com/marriage-podcasts/119-finding-financial-peace-in-your-marriage-with-austin-black/">Episode 119: "Financial Peace in Your Marriage" with Austin Black</a>
</li>
<li>
<a href="https://danache.com/marriage-podcasts/137-overcoming-financial-infidelity-in-marriage-with-chad-willardson/">Episode 137: "What is Financial Infidelity?" with Chad Willardson</a>
</li>
<li>
<a href="https://danache.com/ultimatecouple">Get Your FREE Ultimate Couples Checklist: 5 Simple Steps to Build More Intimacy</a>
</li>
</ul>
Got a question you'd like answered on the show? Submit your relationship questions via <a href="danache.com/contact">email </a>or on <a href="https://instagram.com/mrsdanache">Instagram</a>.
Like the show? Please give it a 5-star rating, and I'd love for you to write a review!

We're addressing a listener's distressing experience of financial abuse within her marriage. Despite having a stable job and a good income, her husband refuses to pay household bills.

Q & A: Help! My Husband Refuses to Pay the Bills

Have you ever felt like your spouse was a shell of a person and you couldn't emotionally connect to him/her? I'm addressing a pressing concern shared by a listener and many couples - the struggle of feeling emotionally disconnected in their marriage or relationship. Many in similar situations will resonate deeply with this discussion.

Episode Highlights:



Create a Safe Environment:

I address the importance of creating a space where couples feel safe to share their emotions. Understanding a partner’s background and upbringing can offer insight into their emotional responses.


Meet Him Where He Is:

Engaging in activities your spouse or partner enjoys can naturally open the door to deeper conversations and connection.


Lead with Vulnerability:

By sharing your own struggles and vulnerabilities, you can encourage your spouse to do the same.


Affirm Small Steps:

Acknowledging and affirming small instances of vulnerability can help build trust.

Have a marriage-related question for the show? Send your questions here or DM on Instagram. 

Links and Resources:


Take the "How Connected Are You Partner Quiz"

Tune in next week for another episode of relationship insights and advice!

Have you ever felt like your spouse was a shell of a person and you couldn't emotionally connect to him/her? I'm addressing a pressing concern shared by a listener and many couples - the struggle of feeling emotionally disconnected in their marriage or relationship. Many in similar situations will resonate deeply with this discussion.
Episode Highlights:
<ul>
<li>
<ul>
<li>
Create a Safe Environment:
I address the importance of creating a space where couples feel safe to share their emotions. Understanding a partner’s background and upbringing can offer insight into their emotional responses.
</li>
<li>
Meet Him Where He Is:
Engaging in activities your spouse or partner enjoys can naturally open the door to deeper conversations and connection.
</li>
<li>
Lead with Vulnerability:
By sharing your own struggles and vulnerabilities, you can encourage your spouse to do the same.
</li>
<li>
Affirm Small Steps:
Acknowledging and affirming small instances of vulnerability can help build trust.
</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
Have a marriage-related question for the show? Send your questions <a href="https://danache.com/contact">here</a> or <a href="https://instagram.com/mrsdanache">DM on Instagram. </a>
Links and Resources:
<ul>
<li>
Take the <a href="danache.com/partnerquiz">"How Connected Are You Partner Quiz"</a><a href="https://danache.com/partnerquiz"></a>
</li>
</ul>
Tune in next week for another episode of relationship insights and advice!

Have you ever felt like your spouse was a shell of a person and you couldn't emotionally connect to him/her?

Are You a Peacemaker or a "Peacefaker" in Your Relationship?

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