Key Takeaways:
Conflict as Growth: Conflict is not a sign of a broken relationship but rather an indication of growth and developing individuality in teens.
Parental Influence: Parents play a crucial role in modeling healthy conflict resolution, setting the emotional precedent teens will carry into other relationships.
Importance of Repair: Relationships are strengthened not by the absence of conflict but by how effectively repair and reconnection occur post-disagreement.
Imperfect Repair: Repair does not need to be perfect or overly orchestrated; simple apologies and acknowledgments of emotions can suffice.
Long-term Skills: Teaching teens to navigate conflict and repair equips them with essential skills for future relationships and life challenges.

Notable Quotes:
"What if conflict isn't evidence of a broken relationship? What if it is evidence that your relationship is simply growing?"
"The repair is where trust is built because repair gives us evidence that the relationship is resilient."
"Parents set the emotional tone; we're the ones modeling what adults do when relationships are strained."
"Just moving on is not the same as repair. That often just builds resentment or hurt in our young people."
"Apologising isn't weakness. Apologising is strength. Healthy relationships aren't built by perfect people."

Key Takeaways:
<ul>
<li>Conflict as Growth: Conflict is not a sign of a broken relationship but rather an indication of growth and developing individuality in teens.</li>
<li>Parental Influence: Parents play a crucial role in modeling healthy conflict resolution, setting the emotional precedent teens will carry into other relationships.</li>
<li>Importance of Repair: Relationships are strengthened not by the absence of conflict but by how effectively repair and reconnection occur post-disagreement.</li>
<li>Imperfect Repair: Repair does not need to be perfect or overly orchestrated; simple apologies and acknowledgments of emotions can suffice.</li>
<li>Long-term Skills: Teaching teens to navigate conflict and repair equips them with essential skills for future relationships and life challenges.</li>
</ul>
Notable Quotes:
<ol>
<li>"What if conflict isn't evidence of a broken relationship? What if it is evidence that your relationship is simply growing?"</li>
<li>"The repair is where trust is built because repair gives us evidence that the relationship is resilient."</li>
<li>"Parents set the emotional tone; we're the ones modeling what adults do when relationships are strained."</li>
<li>"Just moving on is not the same as repair. That often just builds resentment or hurt in our young people."</li>
<li>"Apologising isn't weakness. Apologising is strength. Healthy relationships aren't built by perfect people."</li>
</ol>

When it comes to raising little ones, we often feel as though we have a small village around us – in morning play groups, meeting other parents at tots’ birthday parties, or on the sides of sports fields. It can feel like we have it (mostly) under control. Until our child gradually emerges into their teen years and so much changes! It is a unique time for both you and your child.

Sometimes, everything you thought you knew goes out the window and you’re struggling to keep up. You look around and the village seems to have diminished. Raising Teens will be part of your support system – your village! There will be something here for everyone who cares for teens. Most importantly, this is your resource, so we want to hear from you – your challenges, your suggestions – you are part of this community.

For more information, expert advice or to ask Collett a question, visit raisingteens.au.

The information provided on this podcast is for general educational purposes only and does not take into account your personal situation. It is not a substitute for professional advice. We recommend you seek a medical or healthcare professional if you are seeking advice, diagnosis or treatment.

Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via the Hope website, Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. 

When it comes to raising little ones, we often feel as though we have a small village around us – in morning play groups, meeting other parents at tots’ birthday parties, or on the sides of sports fields. It can feel like we have it (mostly) under control. Until our child gradually emerges into their teen years and so much changes! It is a unique time for both you and your child.
Sometimes, everything you thought you knew goes out the window and you’re struggling to keep up. You look around and the village seems to have diminished. Raising Teens will be part of your support system – your village! There will be something here for everyone who cares for teens. Most importantly, this is your resource, so we want to hear from you – your challenges, your suggestions – you are part of this community.
For more information, expert advice or to ask Collett a question, visit <a href="https://www.raisingteenagers.com.au/" data-auth="VerificationFailed" data-linkindex="0">raisingteens.au</a>.
The information provided on this podcast is for general educational purposes only and does not take into account your personal situation. It is not a substitute for professional advice. We recommend you seek a medical or healthcare professional if you are seeking advice, diagnosis or treatment.
Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at <a href="http://www.hopepodcasts.com.au/">hopepodcasts.com.au</a>. And send the team a message via the <a href="https://hope1032.com.au/listen/podcasts/">Hope website</a>, <a href="https://hope1032.com.au/listen/#apps">Hope 103.2’s app</a>, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/Hope103.2">Facebook</a> or <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sydneyshope1032/">Instagram</a>.

Raising Teens with Collett Smart

When it comes to raising little ones, we often feel as though we have a small village around us – in morning play groups, meeting other parents at tots’ birthday parties, or on the sides of sports fields. It can feel like we have it (mostly) under control. Until our child gradually emerges into their teen years and so much changes! It is a unique time for both you and your child.

Sometimes, everything you thought you knew goes out the window and you’re struggling to keep up. You look around and the village seems to have diminished. Raising Teens will be part of your support system – your village! There will be something here for everyone who cares for teens. Most importantly, this is your resource, so we want to hear from you – your challenges, your suggestions – you are part of this community.

For more information, expert advice or to ask Collett a question, visit raisingteens.au.

The information provided on this podcast is for general educational purposes only and does not take into account your personal situation. It is not a substitute for professional advice. We recommend you seek a medical or healthcare professional if you are seeking advice, diagnosis or treatment.

Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. 

When it comes to raising little ones, we often feel as though we have a small village around us – in morning play groups, meeting other parents at tots’ birthday parties, or on the sides of sports fields. It can feel like we have it (mostly) under control. Until our child gradually emerges into their teen years and so much changes! It is a unique time for both you and your child.
Sometimes, everything you thought you knew goes out the window and you’re struggling to keep up. You look around and the village seems to have diminished. Raising Teens will be part of your support system – your village! There will be something here for everyone who cares for teens. Most importantly, this is your resource, so we want to hear from you – your challenges, your suggestions – you are part of this community.
For more information, expert advice or to ask Collett a question, visit <a href="https://www.raisingteenagers.com.au/" data-auth="VerificationFailed" data-linkindex="0">raisingteens.au</a>.
The information provided on this podcast is for general educational purposes only and does not take into account your personal situation. It is not a substitute for professional advice. We recommend you seek a medical or healthcare professional if you are seeking advice, diagnosis or treatment.
Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at <a href="http://www.hopepodcasts.com.au/">hopepodcasts.com.au</a>. And send the team a message via <a href="https://hope1032.com.au/listen/#apps">Hope 103.2’s app</a>, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/Hope103.2">Facebook</a> or <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sydneyshope1032/">Instagram</a>.