We are living in a time where expensive clothes, the latest gadgets, luxury experiences and the appearance of success have become important markers of status, even among young people who are unemployed or have no stable source of income. But what happens when the lifestyle does not match the financial reality? Are parents asking the difficult questions about where the money comes from, or have we become so comfortable with appearances that we no longer challenge questionable decisions? Beyond individual choices, we must also examine the role of families and communities in teaching financial responsibility, accountability and the value of working towards what we want. This morning, we unpack the pressure to look successful, the influence of social media, the role of parenting and whether society has become too afraid to hold young people accountable. Kefentse Mkhari is in conversation with Social Commentator, Letlhogonolo Tlhogi Mosuwe