If you come from a background where you’ve been part of the ‘have-not’, downgrading your lifestyle may be difficult. It will feel as though you’ve graduated from ‘the struggle’ only to go back there. So, the thought of downgrading hits hard; it’s a psychological and personal journey that you may not have anticipated. We are in conversation with Relationship and Life coach, Tshidi Lethwane on why the ‘Abantu Bazothini’ syndrome holds so much power over us?