We all experience death through a different prism and there is no correct response. Wake-watching over the past few years we have created and found spaces to tell their stories and read about others, looking to connect with the shared pain. As a result, the digitalization of grief has moved the emotional process from being private to one that is much more public. We are in conversation with Clinical Psychologist, Nthabiseng Letta Selamolela - Mosima as we unpack what draws us to watching coverage of funerals?