Threesomes are an extremely common fantasy (if not the most common), for both men and women. However, despite this desire, according to a 2017 study, only 10% of women and 18% of men have engaged in a threesome. If you fall into the group that has always thought about a threesome but has yet to turn the fantasy into a reality, We have invited Social Commentator, Nombulelo Tyatya and Founder of School Of Side Chicks, Pinky Shange to unpack how to have a successful first threesome.