We speak to Themba Tom Ntuli, Leadership and Relationship Consultant, about the viral "Revenge Diaries" trend on TikTok, where users share painful stories of betrayal by ex-partners. Ntuli explores the emotional appeal and risks of public storytelling—highlighting the fine line between empowerment and harm. While the trend fosters solidarity and awareness, he cautions that true healing comes through private reflection and healthy communication, not digital retaliation.