We all have expectations about how we think our lives will go, but we have no guarantee things will happen according to our plans or expectations. We have all heard the saying: “We plan, God laughs.” At every stage of life we make plans, setting out where we want to go and imagining what we will be like when we have “arrived.” But things have a way of turning out not quite as we hoped or expected. We speak to Relationship and life coach, Tshidi Lethwane.