To alleviate some anxieties of dating and relationships, many people have "dated down" in order to keep the upper hand. Look back at your past relationships, how many of your partners were you hotter or smarter or more successful than? How many were hotter, smarter, or more successful than you? We've all been on one side or the other; because when it comes to relationships, things aren't always quite equal. We speak to Social Commentator, Aphiwe Tshele about dating down.