We are within winter and, many aspects of our lives had to undergo subtle changes. From our wardrobe choices to our daily routines, the colder months bring about a shift in how we interact with our surroundings—and with each other. One intriguing area is how winter impacts our intimacy needs and behaviours. Do we seek more closeness during these colder months, or does the chill in the air lead to a chill in our relationships? Pabi Moloi in conversation with intimacy coach Ndileka Mhlauli.