This week on Pour Minds, it’s all about Lex P’s 36th birthday—aka the pinnacle of Leo season! Lex and Drea Nicole kick back with no guests, just cocktails, confessions, and plenty of grown-woman gems. From funny birthday memories and the best (and worst) birthday songs, to childhood “fast girl” fashion changes, the ladies cover it all.

Lex opens up about stepping into a season of gratitude—owning her home, leveling up in friendships, and embracing the confidence that comes with age. They also get real about the outdated stigma around telling your age, the rise of “seasoned baddies,” and why beauty maintenance—Botox, fillers, and all—isn’t up for debate.

Of course, they still keep it messy and hilarious, diving into ghosting after getting gifts, calling out hairline sensitivity, and ranking the cheeses you need in your life.