In this episode, you’ll learn about the powerful role of friendship and connection in promoting physical, emotional, and even cognitive longevity.

I sit down with longtime (40 years long!) friends Christy and Ana from the Girl, Can You Talk? podcast to explore their BOND method—Be Open, Offer Invitations, Nurture Consistency, and Deepen Through Vulnerability—a simple, intentional approach to building real relationships that help you live better, feel better, and not feel alone.

This show is great if you want to learn more about how connection impacts your health, why friendships can be more than just brunch buddies, and how simple things like sending a voice memo or asking a friend, “have you been outside today?” can literally change someone’s day. You’ll hear relatable, heartwarming (and often hilarious) real-life stories about perimenopause, empty nest syndrome, and navigating one-sided friendships. Christy and Ana share how getting in front of people, even just once a week for coffee, can turn into something meaningful—and how just one close friend can make a life-changing difference.

If you want practical tools, some good laughs, and an important reminder about the importance of building and maintaining social connections, this episode is for you!

 

TIMESTAMPS:

Sometimes we forget that friendship and connection are very important to our overall health. [01:03]

Having a society inundated with the internet has changed the way people relate. [07:07]

Your relationships at 50 predict your health and longevity and happiness at 80 [10:39]

B is for be open. O is for offer invitations. N is for nurture, consistency, and D is deepen through vulnerability. [13:11]

Loneliness is the new smoking as far as damage is concerned. [15:45]

You need to learn how to engage. [21:15]

There are methodical steps one can take to learn how to engage with people. B is for be open. [24:00]

O is for offering invitations without fear of rejection. Think about including someone with something you are already doing. [32:41]

N is nurturing consistency through intentional habits. [40:49]

Deepen your connection through vulnerability. [44:25]

What if your friendship feels unbalanced.? You give more than you receive. [49:08]

Be inquisitive.  You learn a lot that way. [54:56]

 

LINKS:
Brad Kearns.com
BradNutrition.com
B.rad Whey Protein Superfuel - The Best Protein on The Planet!
Brad’s Shopping Page
BornToWalkBook.com
B.rad Podcast – All Episodes
Peluva Five-Toe Minimalist Shoes
Girl, Can You Talk? Podcast
Cactus to Clouds Hike

 

We appreciate all feedback, and questions for Q&A shows, emailed to podcast@bradventures.com. If you have a moment, please share an episode you like with a quick text message, or leave a review on your podcast app. Thank you!

Check out each of these companies because they are absolutely awesome or they wouldn’t occupy this revered space. Seriously, I won’t promote anything that I don't absolutely love and use in daily life:


B.rad Nutrition: Premium quality, all-natural supplements for peak performance, recovery, and longevity; including the world's highest quality whey protein!


Peluva: Comfortable, functional, stylish five-toe minimalist shoe to reawaken optimal foot function. Use code BRADPODCAST for 15% off!


Ketone-IQ Save 30% off your first subscription order & receive a free six-pack of Ketone-IQ!
Get Stride: Advanced DNA, methylation profile, microbiome & blood at-home testing. Hit your stride the right way, with cutting-edge technology and customized programming. Save 10% with the code BRAD.


Mito Red Light: Photobiomodulation light panels to enhance cellular energy production, improve recovery, and optimize circadian rhythm. Use code BRAD for 5% discount!


Online educational courses: Numerous great offerings for an immersive home-study educational experience


Primal Fitness Expert Certification: The most comprehensive online course on all aspects of traditional fitness programming and a total immersion fitness lifestyle. Save 25% on tuition with code BRAD!

In this episode, you&rsquo;ll learn about the powerful role of friendship and connection in promoting physical, emotional, and even cognitive longevity.
I sit down with longtime (40 years long!) friends Christy and Ana from the Girl, Can You Talk? podcast to explore their BOND method&mdash;Be Open, Offer Invitations, Nurture Consistency, and Deepen Through Vulnerability&mdash;a simple, intentional approach to building real relationships that help you live better, feel better, and not feel alone.
This show is great if you want to learn more about how connection impacts your health, why friendships can be more than just brunch buddies, and how simple things like sending a voice memo or asking a friend, &ldquo;have you been outside today?&rdquo; can literally change someone&rsquo;s day. You&rsquo;ll hear relatable, heartwarming (and often hilarious) real-life stories about perimenopause, empty nest syndrome, and navigating one-sided friendships. Christy and Ana share how getting in front of people, even just once a week for coffee, can turn into something meaningful&mdash;and how just one close friend can make a life-changing difference.
If you want practical tools, some good laughs, and an important reminder about the importance of building and maintaining social connections, this episode is for you!
&nbsp;
TIMESTAMPS:
Sometimes we forget that friendship and connection are very important to our overall health. [01:03]
Having a society inundated with the internet has changed the way people relate. [07:07]
Your relationships at 50 predict your health and longevity and happiness at 80 [10:39]
B is for be open. O is for offer invitations. N is for nurture, consistency, and D is deepen through vulnerability. [13:11]
Loneliness is the new smoking as far as damage is concerned. [15:45]
You need to learn how to engage. [21:15]
There are methodical steps one can take to learn how to engage with people. B is for be open. [24:00]
O is for offering invitations without fear of rejection. Think about including someone with something you are already doing. [32:41]
N is nurturing consistency through intentional habits. [40:49]
Deepen your connection through vulnerability. [44:25]
What if your friendship feels unbalanced.? You give more than you receive. [49:08]
Be inquisitive.&nbsp; You learn a lot that way. [54:56]
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LINKS:
<ul>
<li><a href="https://bradkearns.com/podcast-index/">Brad Kearns.com</a></li>
<li><a href="http://bradnutrition.com/">BradNutrition.com</a></li>
<li><a href="about:blank">B.rad Whey Protein Superfuel - The Best Protein on The Planet!</a></li>
<li><a href="https://bradkearns.com/shop/">Brad&rsquo;s Shopping Page</a></li>
<li><a href="http://borntowalkbook.com/">BornToWalkBook.com</a></li>
<li><a href="https://bradkearns.com/podcast-index/">B.rad Podcast &ndash; All Episodes</a></li>
<li dir="ltr"><a href="https://peluva.com/?view=cro-id28570" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://peluva.com/?view%3Dcro-id28570&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1756941794050000&amp;usg=AOvVaw2PiVK-qu-zuIOGs1s-d6n3">Peluva Five-Toe Minimalist Shoes</a></li>
<li dir="ltr"><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girl-can-you-talk/id1690298368" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girl-can-you-talk/id1690298368&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1756941794050000&amp;usg=AOvVaw2HkHncz25BPyBaZZ9PtL8k">Girl, Can You Talk? Podcast</a></li>
<li dir="ltr"><a href="https://hikingguy.com/hiking-trails/palm-springs-hiking-trails/cactus-to-clouds-hike/" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://hikingguy.com/hiking-trails/palm-springs-hiking-trails/cactus-to-clouds-hike/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1756941794050000&amp;usg=AOvVaw1loILE28o9PAB0rPUQNVrR">Cactus to Clouds Hike</a></li>
</ul>
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We appreciate all feedback, and questions for Q&amp;A shows, emailed to <a href="mailto:getoveryourselfpodcast@gmail.com">podcast@bradventures.com</a>. If you have a moment, please share an episode you like with a quick text message, or leave a review on your podcast app. Thank you!
Check out each of these companies because they are absolutely awesome or they wouldn&rsquo;t occupy this revered space. Seriously, I won&rsquo;t promote anything that I don't absolutely love and use in daily life:
<ul>
<li>
<a href="http://bradnutrition.com/?utm_source=brad-kearns-news.beehiiv.com&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=brad-kearns-news-dismantling-the-modern-fitness-lie">B.rad Nutrition:</a> Premium quality, all-natural supplements for peak performance, recovery, and longevity; including the world's highest quality whey protein!
</li>
<li>
<a href="https://peluva.com/?sscid=91k7_1q58j&amp;utm_source=brad-kearns-news.beehiiv.com&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=brad-kearns-news-dismantling-the-modern-fitness-lie">Peluva</a>: Comfortable, functional, stylish five-toe minimalist shoe to reawaken optimal foot function. Use code BRADPODCAST for 15% off!
</li>
<li>
<a href="https://ketone.com/BRAD?utm_source=brad-kearns-news.beehiiv.com&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=brad-kearns-news-dismantling-the-modern-fitness-lie">Ketone-IQ</a>&nbsp;Save 30% off your first subscription order &amp; receive a free six-pack of Ketone-IQ!
</li>
<li><a href="http://getstride.com" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=http://getstride.com&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1744479083574000&amp;usg=AOvVaw2M5EotlxxWpksCKN7ZVyMD">Get Stride: </a>Advanced DNA, methylation profile, microbiome &amp; blood at-home testing. Hit your stride the right way, with cutting-edge technology and customized programming. Save 10% with the code BRAD.</li>
<li>
<a href="https://www.mitoredlight.com/?utm_source=brad-kearns-news.beehiiv.com&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=brad-kearns-news-dismantling-the-modern-fitness-lie">Mito Red Light:</a>&nbsp;Photobiomodulation light panels to enhance cellular energy production, improve recovery, and optimize circadian rhythm. Use code BRAD for 5% discount!
</li>
<li>
<a href="https://bradventures.thinkific.com/collections?utm_source=brad-kearns-news.beehiiv.com&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=brad-kearns-news-dismantling-the-modern-fitness-lie">Online educational courses:</a>&nbsp;Numerous great offerings for an immersive home-study educational experience
</li>
<li>
<a href="https://www.primalhealthcoach.com/brad/?utm_source=brad-kearns-news.beehiiv.com&amp;utm_medium=newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=brad-kearns-news-dismantling-the-modern-fitness-lie">Primal Fitness Expert Certification</a>: The most comprehensive online course on all aspects of traditional fitness programming and a total immersion fitness lifestyle. Save 25% on tuition with code BRAD!
</li>
</ul>

Join Brad Kearns, New York Times bestselling author, world #1 ranked masters 60+ high jumper, Speedgolf world record holder, and former world #3 ranked pro triathlete, in pursuing peak performance with passion throughout life. Brad delivers an engaging mix of step-by-step education on important health topics like staying fit, strong and powerful as you age; transforming diet to lose body fat and increase energy; sort through hype and misinformation to make simple, sustainable lifestyle changes; and broaden your perspective beyond a fit body to experience happy relationships, nonstop personal growth, and ultimately sail to 100 with a happy, healthy, long life. Let’s explore beyond shortcuts, hacks, and crushing competition to laugh, have fun, appreciate the journey, and not take ourselves too seriously. It’s time to B.rad!

 

Join Brad Kearns, New York Times bestselling author, world #1 ranked masters 60+ high jumper, Speedgolf world record holder, and former world #3 ranked pro triathlete, in pursuing peak performance with passion throughout life. Brad delivers an engaging mix of step-by-step education on important health topics like staying fit, strong and powerful as you age; transforming diet to lose body fat and increase energy; sort through hype and misinformation to make simple, sustainable lifestyle changes; and broaden your perspective beyond a fit body to experience happy relationships, nonstop personal growth, and ultimately sail to 100 with a happy, healthy, long life. Let&rsquo;s explore beyond shortcuts, hacks, and crushing competition to laugh, have fun, appreciate the journey, and not take ourselves too seriously. It&rsquo;s time to B.rad!
&nbsp;

Brad Kearns, NY Times bestselling author and world #1 masters age 60+ high jumper, offers a fun and diverse mix of interviews with leading authors and health experts, and  how-to shows for peak performance, weight loss, personal growth, and longevity

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