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The Aftershow: Brian’s take on Matt Sorum, Scott Weiland and how Sex and Drugs defined Rock n Roll

Published May 7, 2021, 9:00 AM

In previous Aftershows we dabbled in how sex, drugs and rock n roll all go hand and hand but in this episode we tackle it head on… From Matt’s coke running days, to the fairly hedonistic parties, to people going missing on tours, to the stories of those who survived addiction and to those who sadly did not, like Velvet Revolver and Stone Temple Pilots front man, Scott Weiland …. in contrast we cover a lot of hysterical moments in Matt’s interview, including the remarkable partying ability and work ethic of Slash and Keith Richards and examine if there is any red underwear left in the world after Matt Sorum fulfilled his show day superstition. 


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You're listening to the After Show, the bonus episode series for on Tour with Brian Ray. This is a production of I Heart Radio and Black Barrel Media and I'm your host Mandy Wimmer. In the after show, we dive a little deeper into Brian's thoughts about certain parts of the interviews, as well as expound a bit more on his own experiences on tour. In previous after shows, we dabbled in how sex, drugs, and rock and roll all go hand in hand, but in this episode we tackle it head on, from Matt's coke running days, to the fairly hedonistic parties, to people going missing on tours, to the stories of those who survived addiction, and to those who sadly did not, like Velvet Revolver and Stone Temple Pilots frontman Scott Wiland. In contrast, we cover a lot of hysterical moments in Matt's interview, including the remarkable partying ability and work ethic up Slash and Keith Richard's and we examine if there's any red underwear left in the world after Matt sorum fulfilled his show day superstitions. Here's my conversation with Brian Ray Brian Episode seven. Matt Sorum, Hey Mandy, Mandy women my producer, thank you for inserting the British accent. Yes, you got it. You know I can't do it. Gratuitous and not good. I get really jealous when people do accents because I cannot do them to save my life. Best not to try. No, I won't try. I'm not I'm not going to embarrass myself anyway. Matt Sorum, I have to say I laughed out loud multiple times during this interview. I mean, and editing this interview, I you know, this interview was actually about two hours two plus hours long, and so editing this interview was a treat to get it down to to one hour. There's so many great stories on the cutting room floor. I really wish we could put it all out. It just would have been way too long. But anyway, what we did put out is great and absolutely hysterical. And we are going to start right away with where we started the interview, and that is the cocaine running days. Whoa uh, you, as everybody knows, have had your time in the sun with drugs, but this is this is over the top. I mean, my heart was racing hearing these stories about him strapping kilos of coke to his chest and flying to Hawaiian doing drops and then coming back with thousands of dollars. I mean, I don't know, and he did this for years. I cannot think of anything more stressful. Were you ever on that side of it or what were your thoughts of stories? It would have made a terrible dealer. I would have definitely used up all the profits in knows or in my lungs. Uh. You know what, when you're a young musician trying to make it, you've got big dreams. None of those dreams have come true yet you gotta make ends meet. So what you run a couple of drugs? But what what I mean? Have you guys not heard of like serving in a restaurant or maybe Starbucks, or like, you know, doing something on this side, I mean, like drugs? What nine dollars? I mean, my god, But it's honest at least, and you're not going to jail. Yeah, but then you're not a renegade badass. I don't. I really don't know how you guys are still among us. I don't either. I mean, was that the okay? So? But to wrap this up, was that we're hearing that story. Was was your heart racing like mine? Were you just like this is entertaining? It was all news to me. I had no idea that he had that sortid tail in his past. But it's hilarious, you know, he and I just so the audience knows we're both a couple of sober men, we talk about that. You know, we both have been in recovery for a long time, and uh so between us, that stuff is hilarious. We left our heads off over that stuff all the time when we see each other and talk about our exploits, because it's funny. This is these are the tales of survivors. Now, sadly, for every one of those stories of a survivor, there are thousands of stories of people who didn't survive. So it's not that cute. But in this in this case, while we're talking about you know, an eighties style r a w K rock musician, it's hilarious. So really, the cult is what brought Matt out of his drug smuggling days. He got an audition for the cult, thank god, because actually the person who took a spot was then arrested and spent ten years in federal penitentiary, which is insane, crazy, But that's what happens when you smuggle drugs. Don't do it, that's right, then you join a cult. Oh my god. Um. So he actually says he's been in so many amazing bands, but he says that the Cult was actually, as a lot of people have said, apparently the best fit for him as a drummer. So I really enjoyed the cult. I I believe I had one of their CDs back in the day. But knowing what I know of Matt as a person, I didn't realize he was a drummer at that point. I don't see that as like the best fit, like I see him more as like straight g n R. Yeah, I can see what he's getting at there with a cult that's a very straight ahead eighth note band, whereas g n R had a lot bit a bit more swing and variety of fields. Maybe Matt is talking about that that he's probably better at that more straight ahead style. Maybe that's what he means. Yeah, interesting. Yeah, I don't really know, but I thought that was that. It was interesting also that he had to change his entire appearance to We're All Black to fit in with the death cult, he asked the death call. Okay. So another laugh out loud moment in his interview was when Slash and Duff I think it was came to a cult show. That's how they met Matt. And then Matt coming off that tour I think a dred and eighty Days or something like that. I don't, I don't know you hear it in the interview. But he got walking pneumonia. He was home with his mom. His mom was taking care of him, which is so cute, and Slash calls his house and his mom says, there's someone named Slush on the phone video. Oh my god, It's like, it's such a mom thing to say. That is so cute. Next time I see Slash, I'm gonna call him Slush. Well, the best part about this is a that story that isn't just great. But Slush says to Matt, our drummer is in rehab and so we need a new drummer. Okay. So then Matt, having walking pneumonia, goes and basically auditions or starts working with them the next day while having pneumonia. So I mean, obviously there's no stop stop switch for him. But then we're going to talk about drugs a little bit longer, because I find this really interesting that their drummers in rehab. Matt comes to take the place of the drummer and he finds out that everybody in g n R is on heroin and everyone's like falling asleep. He's like, it's like an opium den, which I think straight like Deadwood or Tombstone or something like that opium den. But then so he credits himself for getting the band to do more cocaine. Well, you know, when you're going nowhere, you want to get there as fast as possible. No, g n R was clearly going places, and it's hard to go places when you're sleeping, unless, of course, you're a sleepwalker. Okay, but anyway, I'm going to get into that right and we're not going to get into that right now. But people, that's for another episode. You can ask in your questions about the sleepwalking. I will talk about it at some point. I might never talk about it, but well I will anyway. Uh yeah, I mean that's hilarious the drug that the drugs have taken control of the band and they're all like nodding out all day long. And then Matt convinces them that a better drug would be cocaine. But guess what, they didn't stop doing heroin. They did both. I mean, so what happens like, so, so cocaine obviously makes you really hyper and heroin puts you to sleep? Is that the difference? Basically and basically and in a nutshell? Yeah? Okay, So like if you're doing both, then I don't even understand what you would be like if you would be given your heart a real hard time because you're you're your brain is going fast, but your mouth is still going slow. Just I don't understand. Had you guys never heard of like um soda or coffee or anything like that to like, I mean, I I've worked insanely long hours doing Super Bowls, I mean eighteen hour days, seven days a week, and I don't recall any at any point looking at my events team and saying, we really need to get some cocaine in here. Well, you would have been sent to jail if you did, because you know, the NFL isn't really kind towards drug addiction. But you know you used exorbitant amounts of of caffeine. That's true, that that was our drug of choice. That will work. The way you do it. It's like rocket fuel. It is it actually is seen you work. I guess I am addicted to fresh cup over here right now. Let me look in there halfway down, still warm fifth cup. It goes with me everywhere. I am never without my coffee. It's like a sippy cup. Do you have like one of those helmets with a hose that goes like coffee all day? I should actually have one. I think that's a good idea, and then I don't have to keep going back for refills. It takes way too much time. Perhaps you could do some Starbucks branding on the side. Also, very very very funny, so we brought in the Rolling Stones in this episode. Keith Richards, I this was another laugh out loud moment for me. When Matt was talking about the work ethic of bands. I mean, among in and among all of the drugs and all of the alcohol, they also play shows. I know, they also record albums. I mean, I don't know how this all gets done. You have to do something to afford all those drugs. It's true, it's true. So we're paying them for their music. Keith Richards is probably the biggest icon for how is he still functioning as a human with all of the drugs and the smoking and I'm sure the alcohol. I don't know Keith personally, so I don't know what all he does. But in his shows he's smoking, So I mean that you do see that all the time. And he's known as a party animal, of course. So Matt talks about a story about um axel was had was late to a sound check or something like that for the Rolling Stones, and and Keith Richards looks at him and says, I slept in the chandelier last night. What's your excuse? And Matt talks about going missing in Venezuela and they find him on some hotel balcony. I don't think a hotel he was staying in. That's point in the story was that Slash has the best work ethic of just about anybody, where he can be out all night partying and he can still be at sound check at New Is that a thing like back in your heyday, were you struggling to actually do your job? No? You know, uh, there were times erewhere like I remember being in I think it was Chile when I was playing with Laura Brannigan in the mid eighties, back when all the drugs were still working for me. Uh well, you know, you'd have jet lag and these were very long flights. So we had found out about a sleeping pill and it was a very strong but over the counter sleeping pill down there in South America and Chile, and so apparently you could take half of one of these tiny little pills and you'd be out for your whole flight back. So you know, I was excited about that because I don't sleep that well on a flight. Was this legal or not legal? Yeah? Legal there? Okay, you're not supposed to have it here. You can't pronounce the name and they don't know what it is, so they'll view it as illegal anyway. So um well, I of course I had to sample something, of course while I was down there, and then I took a couple smuggled a couple home. You know, but this is lightweight. I was, okay a little bit, but not for money. That's the thing. Smuggling is for money. It okay, you know, just bringing in a little something something. Those of us, non drug addicts and non smugglers don't really understand these things. We have to be told. But anyway, that was when I was coming to the end of my um my drug abuse and alcohol abuse career in the mid eighties. It was still kind of working but kind of not really. But anyway, I brought it one of the guys, but I should say this, one of the guys in the tour guitar tech for the other guitar player, went to a strip club and uh, he went to go enjoy himself down in Chile and woke up at ten in the morning out in an alley with his wallet gone. Well, they'd given him a whole one of these things and he was out like a lot. Yeah, they put him out, So it's a little bit dangerous. Yeah, but um in general, Yeah, for myself, I didn't have too difficult of time with balancing work and uh those things. But at a certain point I knew that the gig was up, And at a certain point I had friends later tell me after I was sober man that session you look rough, and I'm like, what's session? Oh my god? Yeah, So you know, I mean you just learn and hopefully, you know, like in my case, in a Matt's case, we found another path where we could find a life truly worth living that was a lot better and rewarding with all without all that chaos and danger. Okay, So there's one part of this that, I mean, a lot of it was very funny now obviously in looking at all of this stuff retrospect, and then there was part of it that made me cringe a little bit. Some of it we've already talked about. So the other part of it that I really think that we need to address address is the hedonistic nature of rock and roll. Uh in the fact that you guys talk about how it was a time and that time has changed. He talks about this story where people are rolling down the aisles of the seven Is, they're taking off and everybody's sleeping with everybody, and they're picking up girls in strip clubs in Houston and sending them back home on a Southwest ticket. I mean, it's just chaos. I mean it was pure chaos, right, and I mean me as a female, of course, I'm cringing hearing the story. And but Matt talks about how he looks back on it again not with pride, but and and recognizes that it was very hedonistic, but that he has completely changed now at this point. But what are your thoughts on that time? Versus this time, and how rock and roll was versus how it is now. And do you guys have more respect than you showed? Oh yeah, we do, trust me. Look in my eyes, you looking right at me. I know there's a devilish glint, but there is respect behind that devilish glint. No, it's not like a me to moment. It's more like a me fourteen moment. It's terrible, but you know, I guess um, rock and roll went through a phase and and and some would say that that was it's a death rattle. To be honest with you. What started out in rock and roll, in my opinion, was a fantastic outlet for teens uh and people of any age who needed that outlet, full of energy, danger, uh, the forbidden thing and uh fun and rebelliousness. Uh. But it turned into just like you know, hedonistic you know, naval gazing, excess and abuse of people and drugs, you know. And it's sad, but that's what happened to rock and roll unfortunately. Right now. I do think that we it's important that we say that. Matt is, you know, the posit or child of the fact that people do actually change. I don't know about poster child in an example of someone who might have changed. No, Matt is happily married and they have a kid on the way. And you know, he's sober, he's sober long time. He's an industrious man. He does charity work, trying to rub out a record, what can I say? And they just you know, they live really close to my getaway pad in Palm Springs. And yeah, he's a very good dude. Yeah yeah, no completely, I mean, very very impressive how he's done all of this. But now is is so different. So next time someone says to people, don't change, refer them to the Matt Sarm episode on that's right here exhibit A. Yes, yes they do change. So okay, the last thing that I want to talk about kind of in the Guns and Roses, heydays when Axel does end up firing Matt, and he leaves his firing, he goes home. He lives in this huge rock star pad and he pulls into his he pulls into his garage and he finds a black Porsche in his garage and he rolls in in a black porch. He now has two black Porsches because he literally forgot about the first one. I know it's so hard. It's tough. I mean, finding your way the music business can be so challenging. I mean, I think that that's a new life goal. Have enough money that you're buying two cars because I don't know. I mean, if I had that much money, I would spend it all on I would give it all the animal shelters lets. You know, but it's a fun thing to think about. You wouldn't forget that you'd give into an app No, I would not. I would just and it wouldn't matter. I just keep giving two quick things. We're going to wrap it up here. We did talk about the semi glamorous side of the drug business, which we don't condone, but there is a sad side to this as well. When Matt Swarm was with Velvet Revolver, the frontman of that band was Scott Wyland or Weland Wyland, Okay, who lost his life to addiction, very very very sad. He was the frontman also for Stone Temple Pilots, an amazing band. Um. You know, I didn't know much about Scott, but what was your experience with him? Yeah, well I got to meet Scott. Uh lovely guy. Uh. We rehearsed one day and then played a big charity on the beach in Santa Monica behind a large mansion. It was just one of those sort of all star bands. It was Matt on drums, Dave Kushner also from from Velvet Revolver on guitar, and a bunch of other people, Steve Jones from the Sex Pistols and uh I did a handful of songs with Scott Wiland singing. And he was a great performer, really magnificent, very charismatic. Uh an interesting singer, had a very good voice. As you said, Stone Temple Pilots is a really important band from the nineties, and uh so his contribution to that era of rock and roll when grunge music came to save rock and roll, which had gone so far south and so far into the excess of the eighties. They were one of the bands that led the charge to try to save rock and roll. And so imagine my sadness when I saw that Scott Whyland was struggling with drugs and alcohol to a great degree and basically was never able to control that. And um though he tried, he could never slay that dragon and his demons won out and unfortunately there's no more Scott Wiland except in video and in recordings. And it's a shame. It's a real shame. Oh man, Yeah, a complete shame. Um. So we're gonna we're gonna end this on a light notes because I think that probably one of the funniest parts of this interview was when Matt was talking about his superstitions that he does not do as much anymore, but but did do them at one time for a long time. And they were literally laugh out loud funny. Hopefully you heard them in the episode. But one of them was that he would have to wear red underwear every single night when he played. I cannot imagine the amount of red underwear that must be. I hope he had to read underwear sponsor there's all of the red underwear on Earth is now gone. Basically, that's why he doesn't do it as much anymore. Matt Sorum has all the Earth's red underwear. Um, and then he could then he had to chew gum for the first three songs, and as we all know, they only take pictures of the first three songs in the press pit. So and as you know, there's nothing that I hate worse than people chewing gums. So I was completely on board of that one going away. I've heard that about you. The truth is is that when you chew gum and somebody's taking a photo, you're likely to be making a funny face if you're in the middle of chewing gum. I don't think anyone looks attractive while chewing gum. Yeah, picture or no picture, no one looks attract to chewing gup. I'm just I'm going on the record with that. Let's just talk about the sound of chewing gum. I can't even go there. Absolutely disgusting. Okay. So the last one that his absolutely hysterical. So Matt had a chrome chain that he had to wear at every single show, and on his way from his dressing room to the stage at a Guns n' Roses show, he realized he didn't have it, and he starts screaming at his golf cart driver that he's got to go back, he has to go back. He cannot go on stage without this chain. Oh my god, just absolutely hysterical. So you have your ring that Johnny Holiday gave you. That's been brought up in a few of these after shows. I mean, how dire is it that you have this ring on? I mean, do you can you not perform? Would you have a horrible show? Would you have a great show and then go cry back stage like how do you get through? Well? I don't think that I would have a struggle doing the show or drying after, although I might, but I might do that anyway. You know, I don't think that it would be a struggle to do a show without it. It's just that it's it became a part of me ever since Johnny Halliday gave me that ring in whatever that was two thousand, Um, It's been on my finger on my right hand, my middle finger, uh, for every show that I've played since then. So I think I would just feel naked without it, And uh yeah, I don't think I've played a single show without it. And I almost lost it in New York City. I almost lost the ring. We checked out of our hotel there and I'm on the way to the airport in our in our suv and I go, oh my god, my heart just sank. I don't have my ring on, and then my my head instantly went to I remember taking it off on top of the bed, and so I instantly call our tour manager. Uh, Phil and Phil, this is a crazy request. I don't do this to you often, but would you please see if you can get the keys to my room on the thirty third floor and go in there and see if you can find my big old ring. It's probably right in the middle of the bed. And he goes, we'll do And he called me back in like ten minutes he says, I got it. Thank god. Oh my god. You can't imagine what I was stressed out over that one that happened to me in a hotel once I left my prized ring in the bathroom and I called them immediately, but it mysteriously could not be found. Yeah. I think we've all got sad stories about that. But this is a story that ended on a happiness, thank God, because it is one of your faiths. All right, So we are going to wrap up with the lightning round. First question, music related. Who is the one artist that you are a pretty big fan of that people might not expect. Mmm. Interesting, let me see here. That's a good question. Um, Little Feet a band from the very late sixties, early seventies and all through the seventies and eighties. Kind of uh, multi ethnicity, uh cross genre. It's sort of like R and B rock and roll, sometimes roots, sometimes country. And I loved him. I was so addicted to that band. Also Ray couder I. There's a time when that's all I listened to those two? Are you used to listen to them? Now? Not as much now, I mean, but that's also because I wore it out. I listened to it every day, all day, on tour, off tour, all the time, right right, Okay, So the non music related question, if you could live anywhere outside of the United States, where would you live? Canada or France? Canada France? Yes? Interesting? So why Canada or Buenos Aires? I know, I know you love France. You said that that's your favorite place to tour, Buenos Aires. Let's go there. Okay, let's go there. Okay, why why would so? What is it about Buenos Aires that you love? Buenos Aires? Okay? So that place is magnificent. It is its own architecture, its own vibe, very different from any South American city. It's got a lot of Art Deco architecture and as you know, very into architecture. So it's got a lot of this sort of twenties and thirties architecture sort of. Uh. One of the main features is big round corners instead of uh, you know, ninety degree angles, very rounded. And the city was planned by one of the people that helped to plan Paris. The way the city of Paris ended up sort of expanding out, uh, was sort of very similar to the way Buenos Aires is. And it just feels like a European city other than being in South America. And I just love it down there. And the people are also so friendly and so fun. You've you've toured there with the Bayonets as well. I have and Solo a few times. I've gone down there a few times. It's a great rock and roll crowd in bueness Aures. He's just wonderful. But uh. And then Canada because for the most part they speak English and find that comforting because I'm too lazy now to learn another language. But so they speak English very well, and uh, and it's so beautiful up there, and there's so many lakes and rivers and streams and snow and beach just a lot. And it's filled with lovely Canadians. All right, So thank you very much, Brian, and thank you to Matt Sorum for the incredibly entertaining episode. Yeah, it was a great, great fun too. Uh, Yeah, it was great, great fun to sit down with my old buddy, Matt Sorum. He's a lovely guy and uh, I'm really happy for him the way they start turning out now and he's got a kid on the way. It's and it's lovely, awesome. All right, Brian, We'll see you next week. Okay, thank you everyone for listening. On tour in the After Show are productions of iHeart Radio and Black Barrel Media. 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