How did Selena and Benny first meet?

What makes their love story unique?

On today’s episode of On Purpose, Jay sits down with global superstar Selena Gomez and acclaimed music producer Benny Blanco where they share their love story like they never have before. They open up about their personal journey—one that didn’t start with an immediate spark.

Their story is full of humor, mixed signals, and that moment when it all clicked. Benny once thought Selena didn’t like him, while Selena, protecting her heart, kept her distance. But as their friendship grew, they built something real—a relationship rooted in trust, respect, open communication, and always supporting each other. Their story is a true testament that love unfolds when the timing is right.

Together, Jay, Selena, and Benny reflect on the power of embracing love, letting go of past fears, and choosing a partner who helps you grow. Their journey serves as a beautiful reminder that love often comes when you least expect it—but when it’s right, you’ll know.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Build a Strong Friendship Before Dating

How to Communicate Openly in a Relationship

How to Maintain Trust in a Long-Distance Relationship

How to Support Your Partner’s Emotional Needs

How to Balance a Busy Career with a Healthy Relationship

Selena and Benny’s story reminds us that true love isn’t defined by grand gestures or perfection—it’s about finding someone who sees you for who you are, supports you through life’s challenges, and makes even the simplest moments feel special.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:10 Male Friendships Can Be Challenging

03:01 First Meeting & Deep Conversations

08:48 How It All Started

16:32 Opening Up to Love Again

18:57 It All Happens for a Reason

21:08 Finding Genuine Love

27:13 Be Kind to Yourself

33:37 Don’t Let Negativity Dictate Your Life

37:55 Cultivating Relationships with Trust

48:22 This is How Emotionally Mature Relationships Work      

57:08 The Proposal 

01:05:29 Wedding Planning

01:06:26 Recording an Album Together

01:13:17 Future Family Plans

01:18:03 Selena and Benny on Fun Questions

Episode Resources:

Selena Gomez | Website

Selena Gomez | Facebook

Selena Gomez | Twitter

Selena Gomez | Instagram

Selena Gomez | YouTube

Benny Blanco | TikTok

Benny Blanco | Instagram

Benny Blanco | YouTube

Benny Blanco | Twitter

Benny Blanco | Facebook

How did Selena and Benny first meet?
What makes their love story unique?
On today&rsquo;s episode of On Purpose, Jay sits down with global superstar Selena Gomez and acclaimed music producer Benny Blanco where they share their love story like they never have before. They open up about their personal journey&mdash;one that didn&rsquo;t start with an immediate spark.
Their story is full of humor, mixed signals, and that moment when it all clicked. Benny once thought Selena didn&rsquo;t like him, while Selena, protecting her heart, kept her distance. But as their friendship grew, they built something real&mdash;a relationship rooted in trust, respect, open communication, and always supporting each other. Their story is a true testament that love unfolds when the timing is right.
Together, Jay, Selena, and Benny reflect on the power of embracing love, letting go of past fears, and choosing a partner who helps you grow. Their journey serves as a beautiful reminder that love often comes when you least expect it&mdash;but when it&rsquo;s right, you&rsquo;ll know.
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to Build a Strong Friendship Before Dating
How to Communicate Openly in a Relationship
How to Maintain Trust in a Long-Distance Relationship
How to Support Your Partner&rsquo;s Emotional Needs
How to Balance a Busy Career with a Healthy Relationship
Selena and Benny&rsquo;s story reminds us that true love isn&rsquo;t defined by grand gestures or perfection&mdash;it&rsquo;s about finding someone who sees you for who you are, supports you through life&rsquo;s challenges, and makes even the simplest moments feel special.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe&nbsp;<a href="https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe">here</a>.
Join Jay for his first ever, On Purpose Live Tour!&nbsp;<a href="http://jayshetty.me/tour">Tickets</a> are on sale now. Hope to see you there!
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:10 Male Friendships Can Be Challenging
03:01 First Meeting &amp; Deep Conversations
08:48 How It All Started
16:32 Opening Up to Love Again
18:57 It All Happens for a Reason
21:08 Finding Genuine Love
27:13 Be Kind to Yourself
33:37 Don&rsquo;t Let Negativity Dictate Your Life
37:55 Cultivating Relationships with Trust
48:22 This is How Emotionally Mature Relationships Work&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;
57:08 The Proposal&nbsp;
01:05:29 Wedding Planning
01:06:26 Recording an Album Together
01:13:17 Future Family Plans
01:18:03 Selena and Benny on Fun Questions
Episode Resources:
Selena Gomez | <a href="https://www.selenagomez.com/#/">Website</a>
Selena Gomez | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/Selena">Facebook</a>
Selena Gomez | <a href="https://twitter.com/selenagomez">Twitter</a>
Selena Gomez | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/selenagomez/">Instagram</a>
Selena Gomez | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/selenagomezvevo">YouTube</a>
Benny Blanco |&nbsp;<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itsbennyblanco">TikTok</a>
Benny Blanco | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itsbennyblanco">Instagram</a>
Benny Blanco | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqrBKQHQVEvD2Q9FP0DCP2g">YouTube</a>
Benny Blanco | <a href="https://twitter.com/ItsBennyBlanco">Twitter</a>
Benny Blanco | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/itsbennyblanco/">Facebook</a>

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.

I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.
I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before

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