Since the breakup, have there been moments when you actually felt calm, clear, or more like yourself?

When you imagine texting them, what are you secretly hoping they’ll say—or make you feel?

In this heartfelt and insightful compilation, Jay dives deep into the emotional landscape of breakups, offering a thoughtful and healing space for anyone navigating heartache. With his signature warmth and clarity, Jay brings together trusted voices in emotional wellness and relationships—Lori Gottlieb, Matthew Hussey, Stephan Speaks, Esther Perel, and Mel Robbins—each offering honest, thoughtful perspectives on what it really takes to move on after a relationship ends.

Together, they unpack the emotional aftermath of a breakup, from grief and confusion to self-doubt and the search for clarity. Whether you're dealing with the sting of rejection, stuck with unanswered questions, or scared to start over, this episode offers clear, grounded guidance that will leave you feeling both supported and uplifted. Without pressure, it offers a calm, compassionate space to work through the pain with presence, perspective, and hope.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Stop Blaming Yourself After a Breakup

How to Know When It's Time to Let Go

How to Break Emotional Patterns in Relationships

How to Sit With Pain and Still Move Forward

How to Choose Peace Over the Past

This episode offers more than advice—it brings hope, the kind that encourages self-love, future growth, and a belief that better things are ahead.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty.

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What We Discuss: 

00:00 Intro 

02:19 Why Breakups Feel Like the Hardest Loss

09:19 “Why Wasn’t I Enough?” Understanding the Root of Self-Blame

20:21 Knowing When It’s Time to Let Go

25:15 Should You Try to Win Them Back?

28:43 Practical Steps to Letting Go After a Breakup

34:41 Do What’s Best For You to Heal

36:56 Everyone Handles a Breakup Differently and That’s Okay

39:30 Shifting Conflict Into Understanding 

45:07 What Power Struggles in Relationships Really Mean

47:44 Why Breakups Make You Feel Unlovable

51:25 How to Release Control and Finally Find Peace

Since the breakup, have there been moments when you actually felt calm, clear, or more like yourself?
When you imagine texting them, what are you secretly hoping they&rsquo;ll say&mdash;or make you feel?
In this heartfelt and insightful compilation, Jay dives deep into the emotional landscape of breakups, offering a thoughtful and healing space for anyone navigating heartache. With his signature warmth and clarity, Jay brings together trusted voices in emotional wellness and relationships&mdash;Lori Gottlieb, Matthew Hussey, Stephan Speaks, Esther Perel, and Mel Robbins&mdash;each offering honest, thoughtful perspectives on what it really takes to move on after a relationship ends.
Together, they unpack the emotional aftermath of a breakup, from grief and confusion to self-doubt and the search for clarity. Whether you're dealing with the sting of rejection, stuck with unanswered questions, or scared to start over, this episode offers clear, grounded guidance that will leave you feeling both supported and uplifted. Without pressure, it offers a calm, compassionate space to work through the pain with presence, perspective, and hope.
In this episode, you'll learn:
How to Stop Blaming Yourself After a Breakup
How to Know When It's Time to Let Go
How to Break Emotional Patterns in Relationships
How to Sit With Pain and Still Move Forward
How to Choose Peace Over the Past
This episode offers more than advice&mdash;it brings hope, the kind that encourages self-love, future growth, and a belief that better things are ahead.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty.
Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe <a href="https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe">here</a>.
Join Jay for his first ever, On Purpose Live <a href="http://jayshetty.me/tour">Tour</a>! Tickets are on sale now. Hope to see you there!&nbsp;
What We Discuss:&nbsp;
00:00 Intro&nbsp;
02:19 Why Breakups Feel Like the Hardest Loss
09:19 &ldquo;Why Wasn&rsquo;t I Enough?&rdquo; Understanding the Root of Self-Blame
20:21 Knowing When It&rsquo;s Time to Let Go
25:15 Should You Try to Win Them Back?
28:43 Practical Steps to Letting Go After a Breakup
34:41 Do What&rsquo;s Best For You to Heal
36:56 Everyone Handles a Breakup Differently and That&rsquo;s Okay
39:30 Shifting Conflict Into Understanding&nbsp;
45:07 What Power Struggles in Relationships Really Mean
47:44 Why Breakups Make You Feel Unlovable
51:25 How to Release Control and Finally Find Peace

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.

I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.
I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

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