Do you ever pretend to be confident when you’re not?

When do you feel most confident?

What if real confidence isn’t loud or visible—but built quietly in the moments no one else sees? In today's Jay's Must-Listens, Jay explores the powerful theme of inner confidence—not the kind rooted in outside validation or achievements, but the kind built slowly through learning to trust yourself, commitment to showing up, and living with purpose.

Throughout the episode, Jay draws from powerful moments with past guests and their helpful insights. He shares a moment from his conversation with Kendall Jenner, where she opened up about experiencing anxiety and how even people who appear confident outwardly are often battling internal struggles. Jay also references insights from Lisa Bilyeu, who spoke about repetition and how confidence is built by proving to yourself—again and again—that you can do hard things. 

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Build Confidence Without External Validation

How to Create a Daily Confidence-Boosting Practice

How to Turn Self-Doubt into Self-Discipline

How to Build Confidence Through Repetition and Consistency

How to Anchor Yourself with Purpose, Not Praise

How to Redefine Confidence as Clarity and Alignment

This episode is both a motivational reset and a practical guide for anyone who’s ready to stop doubting themselves or seeking outside validation and start rooting their confidence in something far more lasting: their own truth.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty.

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What We Discuss: 

00:00 Intro 

01:43 Find What Makes You Happy and Do That

04:44 How To Start Believing in Yourself

09:34 Doing Things that Scare You is Worth the Risk

13:26 Genuine Love Should Boost Your Confidence

16:41 Staying Confident When Your Body Is Changing 

18:52 How Stress Can Manifest In Your Body 

26:32 Don’t Wait To Take Action 

29:59 This is How You Build Real Confidence From Within

33:33 The Song I Made Just For Me That Changed Everything

35:28 Healing and Maturing Through Motherhood 

36:55 Every Day Is A Chance For Progress

39:01 Stay Consistent In Improving Yourself

Do you ever pretend to be confident when you&rsquo;re not?
When do you feel most confident?
What if real confidence isn&rsquo;t loud or visible&mdash;but built quietly in the moments no one else sees? In today's Jay's Must-Listens, Jay explores the powerful theme of inner confidence&mdash;not the kind rooted in outside validation or achievements, but the kind built slowly through learning to trust yourself, commitment to showing up, and living with purpose.
Throughout the episode, Jay draws from powerful moments with past guests and their helpful insights. He shares a moment from his conversation with Kendall Jenner, where she opened up about experiencing anxiety and how even people who appear confident outwardly are often battling internal struggles. Jay also references insights from Lisa Bilyeu, who spoke about repetition and how confidence is built by proving to yourself&mdash;again and again&mdash;that you can do hard things.&nbsp;
In this episode, you'll learn:
How to Build Confidence Without External Validation
How to Create a Daily Confidence-Boosting Practice
How to Turn Self-Doubt into Self-Discipline
How to Build Confidence Through Repetition and Consistency
How to Anchor Yourself with Purpose, Not Praise
How to Redefine Confidence as Clarity and Alignment
This episode is both a motivational reset and a practical guide for anyone who&rsquo;s ready to stop doubting themselves or seeking outside validation and start rooting their confidence in something far more lasting: their own truth.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty.
Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe <a href="https://news.jayshetty.me/subscribe">here</a>.
Join Jay for his first ever, On Purpose Live <a href="http://jayshetty.me/tour">Tour</a>! Tickets are on sale now. Hope to see you there!&nbsp;
What We Discuss:&nbsp;
00:00 Intro&nbsp;
01:43 Find What Makes You Happy and Do That
04:44 How To Start Believing in Yourself
09:34 Doing Things that Scare You is Worth the Risk
13:26 Genuine Love Should Boost Your Confidence
16:41 Staying Confident When Your Body Is Changing&nbsp;
18:52 How Stress Can Manifest In Your Body&nbsp;
26:32 Don&rsquo;t Wait To Take Action&nbsp;
29:59 This is How You Build Real Confidence From Within
33:33 The Song I Made Just For Me That Changed Everything
35:28 Healing and Maturing Through Motherhood&nbsp;
36:55 Every Day Is A Chance For Progress
39:01 Stay Consistent In Improving Yourself

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.

I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.
I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

Jay’s Must-Listens: 7 Transformative Lessons to Build Confidence And Real Self Worth (Ft. Kobe Bryant & Kendall Jenner)

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