In this first episode of On Purpose with Radhi, Jay opens up a conversation many of us have faced but rarely unpack, being asked, “When are you having kids?” What seems like a casual question often carries a weight that touches on biology, cultural expectations, financial realities, and deeply personal struggles. Together, Jay and Radhi peel back the layers of why this question can feel so triggering, especially for women, and why the assumptions behind it often miss the heart of the matter.

They explore how family pressure, societal timelines, and even social media comparisons can make people feel like they’re “behind,” while statistics actually show that having children later in life has become the norm. From the challenges of IVF and miscarriages to the fear of balancing career and motherhood, Jay and Radhi shed light on the unspoken realities couples quietly carry. They remind us that true preparation for parenthood isn’t about perfect timing, it’s about awareness, acceptance, and readiness for change. 

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Handle Pressure About Having Kids

How to Prepare for the Real Changes of Parenthood

How to Know if You’re Ready for Children

How to Separate Society’s Timeline From Your Own

How to Support Friends Struggling With Fertility

The milestones that matter most are the ones that feel true to you, not the ones dictated by outside voices. Fulfillment is not found in comparison but in living with intention, compassion, and alignment to your own values.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:45 When Are You Going to Have Kids?

03:53 So, Do You Want to Have Kids?

07:57 Are You Prepared to Raise Kids?

12:31 A Different Mindset on Being a Parent

16:23 Delaying Parenthood Because of Financial Constraints

21:16 Parenthood Equates to Success

23:20 Can a Child Fix a Broken Relationship?

29:02 Are You Willing to Sacrifice Your Career to Become a Parent?

32:32 Live the Life You Want For Yourself

Episode Resources:

Radhi Devlukia | Website

Radhi Devlukia | YouTube

Radhi Devlukia | Instagram

Radhi Devlukia | Facebook

Radhi Devlukia | TikTok

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A Really Good Cry

In this first episode of On Purpose with Radhi, Jay opens up a conversation many of us have faced but rarely unpack, being asked, &ldquo;When are you having kids?&rdquo; What seems like a casual question often carries a weight that touches on biology, cultural expectations, financial realities, and deeply personal struggles. Together, Jay and Radhi peel back the layers of why this question can feel so triggering, especially for women, and why the assumptions behind it often miss the heart of the matter.
They explore how family pressure, societal timelines, and even social media comparisons can make people feel like they&rsquo;re &ldquo;behind,&rdquo; while statistics actually show that having children later in life has become the norm. From the challenges of IVF and miscarriages to the fear of balancing career and motherhood, Jay and Radhi shed light on the unspoken realities couples quietly carry. They remind us that true preparation for parenthood isn&rsquo;t about perfect timing, it&rsquo;s about awareness, acceptance, and readiness for change.&nbsp;
In this episode, you'll learn:
How to Handle Pressure About Having Kids
How to Prepare for the Real Changes of Parenthood
How to Know if You&rsquo;re Ready for Children
How to Separate Society&rsquo;s Timeline From Your Own
How to Support Friends Struggling With Fertility
The milestones that matter most are the ones that feel true to you, not the ones dictated by outside voices. Fulfillment is not found in comparison but in living with intention, compassion, and alignment to your own values.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
00:45 When Are You Going to Have Kids?
03:53 So, Do You Want to Have Kids?
07:57 Are You Prepared to Raise Kids?
12:31 A Different Mindset on Being a Parent
16:23 Delaying Parenthood Because of Financial Constraints
21:16 Parenthood Equates to Success
23:20 Can a Child Fix a Broken Relationship?
29:02 Are You Willing to Sacrifice Your Career to Become a Parent?
32:32 Live the Life You Want For Yourself
Episode Resources:
Radhi Devlukia | <a href="https://www.radhidevlukia.com/">Website</a>
Radhi Devlukia | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@radhidevlu">YouTube</a>
Radhi Devlukia | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia">Instagram</a>
Radhi Devlukia | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/">Facebook</a>
Radhi Devlukia | <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia">TikTok</a>
<a href="https://www.joyfullbook.com/">Joyfull</a>
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-really-good-cry/id1708895338">A Really Good Cry</a>

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.

I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.
I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

Jay & Radhi Talk About the Pressure and Expectations Around Parenthood

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