You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

What are your expectations in your current relationship? Do you wish for your partner to like the things that you like, enjoy the things that you enjoy doing, and share the same passion with you? Or do you want your partner to carve their own path along with you?

In many relationships, this idealism that your partner needs to like what you like, love what you love, and hate what you hate in the pretext that it should be how they show their love for you can be toxic. It can strip away your partner's identity and freedom. It can be suffocating.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty tells us the common mistakes we make that don't help our relationships grow and what you can do now to strengthen it.

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Key Takeaways:
00:00 Intro
01:41 The mistakes we make in a relationship
02:58 Mistake #1: We make someone our everything
07:28 Mistake #2: You’re with someone for they could be, not for who they are
12:33 Mistake #3: You stay too long because you’re scared to be seen as the bad person
15:04 Mistake #4: We trade time with our partners instead of creating new experiences
16:39 Mistake #5: You want them to like what you like
18:12 Mistake #6: You don’t take the time to understand why they are the way they are
20:06 Mistake #7: You talk to too many people but not to the person you’re in a relationship with
21:31 Mistake #8: You’re mad at them for the sacrifices you made that they didn’t ask for
23:47 Mistake #9: Know the difference between ownership, partnership, and relationship

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at <a href="http://8rulesoflove.com/">8rulesoflove.com</a> or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to <a href="http://jayshettytour.com/">jayshettytour.com</a> and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.What are your expectations in your current relationship? Do you wish for your partner to like the things that you like, enjoy the things that you enjoy doing, and share the same passion with you? Or do you want your partner to carve their own path along with you?In many relationships, this idealism that your partner needs to like what you like, love what you love, and hate what you hate in the pretext that it should be how they show their love for you can be toxic. It can strip away your partner's identity and freedom. It can be suffocating.In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty tells us the common mistakes we make that don't help our relationships grow and what you can do now to strengthen it.Get your copy of Think Like a Monk today by clicking this link! <a href="https://thinklikeamonkbook.com/">https://thinklikeamonkbook.com/</a>Key Takeaways:<ul><li>00:00 Intro</li><li>01:41 The mistakes we make in a relationship</li><li>02:58 Mistake #1: We make someone our everything</li><li>07:28 Mistake #2: You’re with someone for they could be, not for who they are</li><li>12:33 Mistake #3: You stay too long because you’re scared to be seen as the bad person</li><li>15:04 Mistake #4: We trade time with our partners instead of creating new experiences</li><li>16:39 Mistake #5: You want them to like what you like</li><li>18:12 Mistake #6: You don’t take the time to understand why they are the way they are</li><li>20:06 Mistake #7: You talk to too many people but not to the person you’re in a relationship with</li><li>21:31 Mistake #8: You’re mad at them for the sacrifices you made that they didn’t ask for</li><li>23:47 Mistake #9: Know the difference between ownership, partnership, and relationship</li></ul><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/on-purpose-with-jay-shetty/id1450994021">Like this show? Please leave us a review here</a> - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.

I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.
I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

What are your expectations in your current relationship? Do you wish for your partner to like the things that you like, enjoy the things that you enjoy doing, and share the same passion with you? Or do you want your partner to carve their own path along with you?

In many relationships, this idealism that your partner needs to like what you like, love what you love, and hate what you hate in the pretext that it should be how they show their love for you can be toxic. It can strip away your partner's identity and freedom. It can be suffocating.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty tells us the common mistakes we make that don't help our relationships grow and what you can do now to strengthen it.

9 Mistakes We Make in Love and Relationships

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