Have you ever found yourself comparing your current partner to someone from your past? 

Are you wondering why your current relationship isn’t as happy as it used to be?

If you’re currently struggling with keeping your relationship afloat, then this episode is for you. 

We all know that effective communication is the key to maintaining healthy connections, and I am here to guide us on how to better express our thoughts and concerns to our loved ones. Here's the first golden rule in improving your relationships – someone's past behavior doesn't define them today. And it's not just about their actions; it's about what you bring to the table as well. 

Let's take a look at crucial insights on how we tend to fill in the gaps with our own assumptions, the importance of asking the right questions, and why criticism rarely leads to positive change. And always consider the significance of seeing vulnerability as strength and not putting your loved ones down in public.

In this episode, you'll learn:

The reasons why relationships fail

How to avoid actions that ruin relationships

How to become a better listener

How to communicate yourself effectively

We're in for a heartfelt discussion that will surely help you strengthen your relationships and take a step closer to the happier, healthier connections you deserve.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:38 How to Better Communicate Issues in Your Relationship

03:31 #1: Someone's Behavior Doesn’t Make Them The Same As Someone You Were With Before  

09:01 #2: Don't Fill In Uncertainties Mentally

13:26 #3: We All Have A Long List Of Needs

18:12 #4: Ask Yourself These Three Questions

20:38 #5: Criticism Doesn’t Help Change, Coaching Does

23:27 #6: Seeing Opening Up As A Weakness 

26:33 #7: Criticism Is Often Linked With Comparison

27:20 #8: Don’t Put Them Down In Public

Have you ever found yourself comparing your current partner to someone from your past?&nbsp;
Are you wondering why your current relationship isn&rsquo;t as happy as it used to be?
If you&rsquo;re currently struggling with keeping your relationship afloat, then this episode is for you.&nbsp;
We all know that effective communication is the key to maintaining healthy connections, and I am here to guide us on how to better express our thoughts and concerns to our loved ones. Here's the first golden rule in improving your relationships &ndash; someone's past behavior doesn't define them today. And it's not just about their actions; it's about what you bring to the table as well.&nbsp;
Let's take a look at crucial insights on how we tend to fill in the gaps with our own assumptions, the importance of asking the right questions, and why criticism rarely leads to positive change. And always consider the significance of seeing vulnerability as strength and not putting your loved ones down in public.
In this episode, you'll learn:
The reasons why relationships fail
How to avoid actions that ruin relationships
How to become a better listener
How to communicate yourself effectively
We're in for a heartfelt discussion that will surely help you strengthen your relationships and take a step closer to the happier, healthier connections you deserve.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:38 How to Better Communicate Issues in Your Relationship
03:31 #1: Someone's Behavior Doesn&rsquo;t Make Them The Same As Someone You Were With Before&nbsp;&nbsp;
09:01 #2: Don't Fill In Uncertainties Mentally
13:26 #3: We All Have A Long List Of Needs
18:12 #4: Ask Yourself These Three Questions
20:38 #5: Criticism Doesn&rsquo;t Help Change, Coaching Does
23:27 #6: Seeing Opening Up As A Weakness&nbsp;
26:33 #7: Criticism Is Often Linked With Comparison
27:20 #8: Don&rsquo;t Put Them Down In Public

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.

I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.
I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

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