We often want to be recognized for what we did well and not for our mistakes. If we keep hearing the things we did wrong over and over, we tend to see them as truth and eventually keep repeating the same mistakes.

This is where most relationships struggle because people often focus on the wrong, the mistake, the unsightly character instead of appreciating the good traits, the commendable actions, and the everyday effort our partners put into the relationship.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about looking past the negative aspects of your relationship and learning to pick out what can make it work.  

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Key Takeaways:
00:00 Intro
02:19 Getting through the tough days, weeks, and months in a relationship
04:39 Principle #1: Think of the person as a dear friend
08:32 Principle #2: Relationships should have non-negotiables and things you can be persuaded on
13:25 Principle #3: Don’t respond out of your own insecurity and ego
16:56 Principle #4: Don’t expect your partner to be like you in situations
18:47 Principle #5: Don’t try to change them to be you
20:46 Principle #6: Amplify who they are in bad times
22:10 Principle #7: Do an intervention on yourself

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We often want to be recognized for what we did well and not for our mistakes. If we keep hearing the things we did wrong over and over, we tend to see them as truth and eventually keep repeating the same mistakes.
This is where most relationships struggle because people often focus on the wrong, the mistake, the unsightly character instead of appreciating the good traits, the commendable actions, and the everyday effort our partners put into the relationship.
In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about looking past the negative aspects of your relationship and learning to pick out what can make it work. 
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/on-purpose-with-jay-shetty/id1450994021">Like this show? Please leave us a review here</a> - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!
Key Takeaways:
<ul>
<li>00:00 Intro</li>
<li>02:19 Getting through the tough days, weeks, and months in a relationship</li>
<li>04:39 Principle #1: Think of the person as a dear friend</li>
<li>08:32 Principle #2: Relationships should have non-negotiables and things you can be persuaded on</li>
<li>13:25 Principle #3: Don’t respond out of your own insecurity and ego</li>
<li>16:56 Principle #4: Don’t expect your partner to be like you in situations</li>
<li>18:47 Principle #5: Don’t try to change them to be you</li>
<li>20:46 Principle #6: Amplify who they are in bad times</li>
<li>22:10 Principle #7: Do an intervention on yourself</li>
</ul>
Achieve success in every area of your life with <a href="https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGenius">Jay Shetty’s Genius Community</a>. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at <a href="https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGenius">https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGenius</a>

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.

I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.
I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

We often want to be recognized for what we did well and not for our mistakes. If we keep hearing the things we did wrong over and over, we tend to see them as truth and eventually keep repeating the same mistakes.

This is where most relationships struggle because people often focus on the wrong, the mistake, the unsightly character instead of appreciating the good traits, the commendable actions, and the everyday effort our partners put into the relationship.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about looking past the negative aspects of your relationship and learning to pick out what can make it work.  

Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!

Key Takeaways:
00:00 Intro
02:19 Getting through the tough days, weeks, and months in a relationship
04:39 Principle #1: Think of the person as a dear friend
08:32 Principle #2: Relationships should have non-negotiables and things you can be persuaded on
13:25 Principle #3: Don’t respond out of your own insecurity and ego
16:56 Principle #4: Don’t expect your partner to be like you in situations
18:47 Principle #5: Don’t try to change them to be you
20:46 Principle #6: Amplify who they are in bad times
22:10 Principle #7: Do an intervention on yourself

Achieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGenius

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