Have you ever wished you could change someone in your life? Have you tried changing someone to fit your ideals and beliefs? If so, have you succeeded? Did it make you happy?

It’s frustrating to try and change someone who isn’t willing to change, especially when your circumstances aren’t helping. This will only trigger stress and anxiety, and will continuously deplete your inner peace and compassion.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty discusses why we should stop trying to change others and instead, focus on loving ourselves through cultivating patience, tolerance, and compassion.

Key Takeaways:
01:29 Have you tried changing someone in your life?
02:25 Top 3 reasons couples fight: money, sex, children
03:36The reasons why we try to change others
05:08 In trying to positively impact the world, we are changing ourselves
05:45 3 things that happen when we try to change people
08:01 Reason #1: We care more for comfort than change
12:52 Reason #2: We can’t understand others because of own narrow thinking
15:20 Reason #3: We think we are always right
18:04 Reason #4: We don’t understand the value of diversity
20:40 Change and the motivation to change are an inside job

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Have you ever wished you could change someone in your life? Have you tried changing someone to fit your ideals and beliefs? If so, have you succeeded? Did it make you happy?
It’s frustrating to try and change someone who isn’t willing to change, especially when your circumstances aren’t helping. This will only trigger stress and anxiety, and will continuously deplete your inner peace and compassion.
In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty discusses why we should stop trying to change others and instead, focus on loving ourselves through cultivating patience, tolerance, and compassion.
Key Takeaways:
<ul>
<li>01:29 Have you tried changing someone in your life?</li>
<li>02:25 Top 3 reasons couples fight: money, sex, children</li>
<li>03:36 The reasons why we try to change others</li>
<li>05:08 In trying to positively impact the world, we are changing ourselves</li>
<li>05:45 3 things that happen when we try to change people</li>
<li>08:01 Reason #1: We care more for comfort than change</li>
<li>12:52 Reason #2: We can’t understand others because of own narrow thinking</li>
<li>15:20 Reason #3: We think we are always right</li>
<li>18:04 Reason #4: We don’t understand the value of diversity</li>
<li>20:40 Change and the motivation to change are an inside job</li>
</ul>
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I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.

I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.
I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

My name is Jay Shetty, and my purpose is to make wisdom go viral. I’m fortunate to have fascinating conversations with the most insightful people in the world, and on my podcast, I’m sharing those conversations with you. New episodes Mondays and Fridays. Please rate and review the podcast if you enjoy it. Live life today ON PURPOSE.

Have you ever wished you could change someone in your life? Have you tried changing someone to fit your ideals and beliefs? If so, have you succeeded? Did it make you happy?

It’s frustrating to try and change someone who isn’t willing to change, especially when your circumstances aren’t helping. This will only trigger stress and anxiety, and will continuously deplete your inner peace and compassion.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty discusses why we should stop trying to change others and instead, focus on loving ourselves through cultivating patience, tolerance, and compassion.

Key Takeaways:
01:29 Have you tried changing someone in your life?
02:25 Top 3 reasons couples fight: money, sex, children
03:36The reasons why we try to change others
05:08 In trying to positively impact the world, we are changing ourselves
05:45 3 things that happen when we try to change people
08:01 Reason #1: We care more for comfort than change
12:52 Reason #2: We can’t understand others because of own narrow thinking
15:20 Reason #3: We think we are always right
18:04 Reason #4: We don’t understand the value of diversity
20:40 Change and the motivation to change are an inside job

Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!

Achieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGenius

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