Is he in the wrong? The internet is divided over this one! A man shared on Reddit that his brother is the first to have kids in the family and with 5 siblings everyone is very excited.

That said, his brother and his wife are now asking the entire family to go to Disneyland for the gender reveal with tickets costing over $200.

He says “Most people cut cakes for a gender reveal. I’m happy for them, but isn’t this over the top? Sorry, I can’t spend $300 with Christmas right around the corner.”

But now his family is mad at him for not going. Is he in the wrong? Listen back here to join the debate