ADHD is being talked about more than ever.  But for many, life still feels harder than it should. Even with a diagnosis there can be a lingering sense of “Why is life still so difficult?”

In this episode, Sonia speaks with ADHD coach Alex Campbell, to find out what we’re missing.

Alex says ADHD brains are motivated by interest, not importance. But the world expects the opposite, and that’s the where issues arise.

People often develop hidden systems to try to meet life’s demands - hypervigilance, hyper-independence and a harsh inner-critic.  But these come at a cost.  Their are high rates of burnout and exhaustion for those with ADHD.

This conversation explores a different way forward: understanding how your brain works, and learning how to work with it, rather than constantly pushing against it.

In this episode:
How interest acts as the fuel for focus and executive function
Why simple tasks can feel disproportionately hard to start
How the brain creates stimulation when things feel boring
Negative interest: why anxiety and urgency often become the default fuel
The hidden coping systems (hypervigilance, masking, hyper-independence)
The role of the inner critic
The long-term cost: exhaustion, stress and burnout
Internal vs external hyperactivity.
ADHD and emotional intensity
Spiky strengths: brilliant in some areas, challenged in others
Practical ways to begin working with your ADHD brain, rather than against it
The value of connection
Identifying strengths, and using them to get activated

Guest: Alex Campbell ADHD Coach
Alex’s book ADHD… Now What? Is available here.

Resources: 
VIA Character Strengths
ADHD NZ

No Such Thing as Normal is made with the support of NZ On Air

ADHD is being talked about more than ever.&nbsp; But for many, life still feels harder than it should. Even with a diagnosis there can be a lingering sense of &ldquo;Why is life still so difficult?&rdquo;
In this episode, Sonia speaks with ADHD coach Alex Campbell, to find out what we&rsquo;re missing.
Alex says ADHD brains are motivated by interest, not importance. But the world expects the opposite, and that&rsquo;s the where issues arise.
People often develop hidden systems to try to meet life&rsquo;s demands - hypervigilance, hyper-independence and a harsh inner-critic.&nbsp; But these come at a cost.&nbsp; Their are high rates of burnout and exhaustion for those with ADHD.
This conversation explores a different way forward: understanding how your brain works, and learning how to work with it, rather than constantly pushing against it.
In this episode:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">How interest acts as the fuel for focus and executive function</li>
<li aria-level="1">Why simple tasks can feel disproportionately hard to start</li>
<li aria-level="1">How the brain creates stimulation when things feel boring</li>
<li aria-level="1">Negative interest: why anxiety and urgency often become the default fuel</li>
<li aria-level="1">The hidden coping systems (hypervigilance, masking, hyper-independence)</li>
<li aria-level="1">The role of the inner critic</li>
<li aria-level="1">The long-term cost: exhaustion, stress and burnout</li>
<li aria-level="1">Internal vs external hyperactivity.</li>
<li aria-level="1">ADHD and emotional intensity</li>
<li aria-level="1">Spiky strengths: brilliant in some areas, challenged in others</li>
<li aria-level="1">Practical ways to begin working with your ADHD brain, rather than against it</li>
<li aria-level="1">The value of connection</li>
<li aria-level="1">Identifying strengths, and using them to get activated</li>
</ul>
Guest: Alex Campbell <a href="https://goldmindacademy.com/alex-campbell">ADHD Coach</a> Alex&rsquo;s book ADHD&hellip; Now What? Is available <a href="https://goldmindacademy.com/adhd-book">here</a>.
Resources: <a href="https://www.viacharacter.org/">VIA Character Strengths</a> <a href="https://www.adhd.org.nz/">ADHD NZ</a>
No Such Thing as Normal is made with the support of NZ On Air

At least 20% of New Zealanders are believed to be neurodivergent, but there is very little awareness, understanding and support for people with conditions such as ADHD, Autism and Dyslexia.

Sonia Gray has a neurodivergent daughter and is an ADHDer herself. In this 10-part series she’ll talk to dozens of experts and people with a lived-experience of neurodiversity to better understand how we can support and celebrate those whose brains are wired differently.

No Such Thing as Normal is brought to you by NZ Herald and Team Uniform, with support from NZ on Air. New episodes are available every Saturday.

At least 20% of New Zealanders are believed to be neurodivergent, but there is very little awareness, understanding and support for people with conditions such as ADHD, Autism and Dyslexia.
Sonia Gray has a neurodivergent daughter and is an ADHDer herself. In this 10-part series she&rsquo;ll talk to dozens of experts and people with a lived-experience of neurodiversity to better understand how we can support and celebrate those whose brains are wired differently.
No Such Thing as Normal is brought to you by NZ Herald and Team Uniform, with support from NZ on Air. New episodes are available every Saturday.

No Such Thing as Normal

At least 20% of New Zealanders are believed to be neurodivergent, but there is very little awareness, understanding and support for people with conditions such as ADHD, Autism and Dyslexia.

Sonia Gray has a neurodivergent daughter and is an ADHDer herself. In this 10-part series she’ll talk to dozens of experts and people with a lived-experience of neurodiversity to better understand how we can support and celebrate those whose brains are wired differently.

No Such Thing as Normal is brought to you by NZ Herald and Team Uniform, with support from NZ on Air. New episodes every Saturday.

At least 20% of New Zealanders are believed to be neurodivergent, but there is very little awareness, understanding and support for people with conditions such as ADHD, Autism and Dyslexia.
Sonia Gray has a neurodivergent daughter and is an ADHDer herself. In this 10-part series she&rsquo;ll talk to dozens of experts and people with a lived-experience of neurodiversity to better understand how we can support and celebrate those whose brains are wired differently.
No Such Thing as Normal is brought to you by NZ Herald and Team Uniform, with support from NZ on Air. New episodes every Saturday.