Sami Lukis doesn’t count sheep before she goes to sleep. She counts men. Specifically the ones she has slept with. The 47-year-old presenter and radio host has been dating for 30 years. And she’s taken her dating stories and turned them into a book, Romantically Challenged. She talks to Mia about the good, the bad and the ugly of the dating world.

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Sami Lukis doesn&rsquo;t count sheep before she goes to sleep. She counts men. Specifically the ones she has slept with. The 47-year-old presenter and radio host has been dating for 30 years. And she&rsquo;s taken her dating stories and turned them into a book, Romantically Challenged. She talks to Mia about the good, the bad and the ugly of the dating world.
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Host: <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/author/mia/">Mia Freedman&nbsp;</a>
With thanks to special guest <a href="https://www.samilukis.com/">Sami Lukis</a>
Find Sami's book Romantically Challenged at apple.co/mamamia
Producer: Elissa Ratliff
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Riveting stories. Fascinating lives. Australia’s #1 interview podcast, with Mia Freedman.

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Sami Lukis Has Been Dating For 30 Years

Have you ever been love-bombed by a romantic partner only to have them go cold as soon as they’ve snagged you?

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who made you feel crazy because of their ability to seem SO great in front of the neighbours but be SO different behind closed doors?

What about a boss who steals your ideas, your thunder and your inspiration…Or a parent who always made your life about them? According to our guest today, chances are you’ve been tussling with a Narcissist.

Narcissism is a word that has well and truly entered the zeitgeist but how well do we really understand it? What are the red flags? What do we DO if we realise we’re in a relationship with one?

Margi Bowden is a counsellor and coach and, importantly, a Narcissism expert and she has ALL the answers for you.

You can learn more about Margi’s work by following her on Instagram

Listen to our episode with Patric Gagne about life as a sociopath here

Listen to our episode with David Gillespie about psychopaths here

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Producer: Tahli Blackman

Audio Producer: Jacob Round


Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures

Have you ever been love-bombed by a romantic partner only to have them go cold as soon as they&rsquo;ve snagged you?
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who made you feel crazy because of their ability to seem SO great in front of the neighbours but be SO different behind closed doors?
What about a boss who steals your ideas, your thunder and your inspiration&hellip;Or a parent who always made your&nbsp;life about&nbsp;them? According to our guest today, chances are you&rsquo;ve been tussling with a Narcissist.
Narcissism is a word that has well and truly entered the zeitgeist but how well do we really understand it? What are the red flags? What do we DO if we realise we&rsquo;re in a relationship with one?
Margi Bowden is a counsellor and coach and, importantly, a Narcissism expert and she has ALL the answers for you.
You can learn more about Margi&rsquo;s work by following her on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/narcissist\_nab/">Instagram</a>
Listen to our episode with Patric Gagne about life as a sociopath <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/patric-gagne-is-a-sociopath/id995159486?i=1000656070446">here</a>
Listen to our episode with David Gillespie about psychopaths&nbsp;<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/david-gillespie-knows-how-to-spot-a-psychopath/id995159486?i=1000391257520">here</a>
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Host: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/wainwrightholly/?hl=en">Holly Wainwright</a>
Executive Producer: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/naima_brown_official/">Naima Brown</a>
Producer: Tahli Blackman
Audio Producer: Jacob Round 
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures

How To Protect Yourself Against A Narcissist

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The Believe in Magic charity was set up by a 16-year-old girl and her mother. Megan and Jean’s charity helped grant wishes to sick children in a make-a-wish sort of way and some kids, including Megan, even got to meet One Direction members.

The charity was founded because Megan was diagnosed with a rare brain condition and a few years later a brain tumour.

A group of internet sleuths became suspicious after Jean tried to raise money for an emergency trip to see a doctor overseas.

So was Megan sick? And if she wasn’t, then how did she die? Journalist Jamie Bartlett has joined Mia for this episode of No Filter, as he got involved later down the track and what he discovered will send shivers.

You can hear the second half of Mia's conversation with Jamie here. 

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Host: Mia Freedman. You can find Mia on Instagram here and get her newsletter here.

Producers: Emeline Gazilas & Cassie Merritt 

Executive Producer: Kimberley Braddish 

Audio Producer: Madeline Joannou

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

The Believe in Magic charity was set up by a 16-year-old girl and her mother. Megan and Jean&rsquo;s charity helped grant wishes to sick children in a make-a-wish sort of way and some kids, including Megan, even got to meet One Direction members. The charity was founded because Megan was diagnosed with a rare brain condition and a few years later a brain tumour.
A group of internet sleuths became suspicious after Jean tried to raise money for an emergency trip to see a doctor overseas.
So was Megan sick? And if she wasn&rsquo;t, then how did she die? Journalist Jamie Bartlett has joined Mia for this episode of No Filter, as he got involved later down the track and what he discovered will send shivers.
<a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/no-filter/jamie-bartlett-part-two/?utm_source=shownotes&amp;utm_medium=podcast&amp;utm_campaign=nofilter">You can hear the second half of Mia's conversation with Jamie here.&nbsp;</a> THE END BITS: 
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Jamie's podcast Believe in Magic is available <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/believe-in-magic/id1683405079">here.&nbsp;</a>
Follow Jamie on Twitter <a href="https://twitter.com/JamieJBartlett?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor">here.&nbsp;</a>
Read Jamie's book The Missing Cryptoqueen <a href="https://www.booktopia.com.au/the-missing-cryptoqueen-jamie-bartlett/book/9780753559611.html?source=pla&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwvL-oBhCxARIsAHkOiu111PfLj2nCEvcT6MI2KB0o0-hDsD4gjJb55VYU6LrgF53oIQeKJSwaAsfnEALw_wcB">here.</a> Complete the <a href="https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/7514277/Mamamia-Menopause-Study-2023">survey </a>for a chance to go in the running to win a $50 gift voucher. 
Feedback? We&rsquo;re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at <a href="mailto:podcast@mamamia.com.au">podcast@mamamia.com.au</a>
Need more lols, info, and inspo in your ears? <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/">Find more Mamamia podcasts here</a>.
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Host:<a href="https://www.miafreedman.com/"> Mia Freedman</a>. You can find Mia on<a href="https://www.instagram.com/miafreedman/?hl=en"> Instagram here</a> and get her<a href="https://mamamia.us12.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=cdf05e38a4d14a4b3395981fd&amp;id=b221ffc9e1"> newsletter here.</a>
Producers: Emeline Gazilas &amp; Cassie Merritt Executive Producer: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/kimbraddish/">Kimberley Braddish</a>&nbsp;
Audio Producer: Madeline Joannou
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

It Seemed Like A Scam But Then She Died. Megan Bhari’s Story [re-release]

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Cait West was raised inside an fundamentalist Christian patriarchal cult that believed that women should be submissive to men and that girls should be raised to serve their husbands…by first serving their fathers. Until she was 25 years old, Cait was what is referred to as a ‘stay-at-home daughter’ - what exactly does that mean? And how did Cait decide to finally leave? Listen to this timely, important, and deeply empowering conversation to hear Cait’s incredible story - Only on No Filter.

You can follow Cait on Instagram here.

You can read Cait’s work & find her book “Rift” here.

Listen to our episode with Tia Levings about her escape from a religious cult here.

Listen to our episode with Megan Agnew about Ballerina Farm & Trad Wives here.

If you need to talk to someone about any of the themes and topics in this episode - please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14.

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Host & Executive Producer: Naima Brown

Producer: Tahli Blackman

Audio Producer: Jacob Round


Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures

Cait West was raised inside an fundamentalist Christian patriarchal cult that believed that women should be submissive to men and that girls should be raised to serve their husbands…by first serving their fathers. Until she was 25 years old, Cait was what is referred to as a ‘stay-at-home daughter’ - what exactly does that mean? And how did Cait decide to finally leave? Listen to this timely, important, and deeply empowering conversation to hear Cait’s incredible story - Only on No Filter.
You can follow Cait on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/caitwestwrites">here</a>.
You can read <a href="https://caitwest.substack.com/">Cait’s work</a> &amp; find her book “Rift” <a href="https://www.caitwest.com/">here</a>.
Listen to our episode with Tia Levings about her escape from a religious cult <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/tia-levings-escaped-a-trad-wife-cult/id995159486?i=1000664294976">here</a>.
Listen to our episode with Megan Agnew about Ballerina Farm &amp; Trad Wives <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-trad-wife-life-of-ballerina-farms-hannah-neeleman/id995159486?i=1000673756016">here</a>.
If you need to talk to someone about any of the themes and topics in this episode - please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14.
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Producer: Tahli Blackman
Audio Producer: Jacob Round 
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures

Cait West Was A Stay At Home Daughter… And Then She Escaped

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Sami Lukis Has Been Dating For 30 Years

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