Reshma sits down with world-renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel to talk about why midlife can feel so lonely — and how to rebuild community from the inside out. They unpack why independence has replaced interdependence, how motherhood turned into a performance review, and why asking for help is one of the bravest things we can do. Esther leaves us with a path back, showing how connection can be rebuilt one honest conversation at a time.

Follow Esther Perel's podcast Where Should We Begin? on YouTube, Apple Podcasts or Spotify, and subscribe to Entre Nous with Esther Perel on Substack for exclusive bonus content.

You can follow our host Reshma Saujanion Instagram at @reshmasaujani and on Substack. 

Stay up to date with Moms First (www.momsfirst.us) on Instagram at @momsfirstus and with Lemonada at  @LemonadaMedia. 

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Reshma sits down with world-renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel to talk about why midlife can feel so lonely &mdash; and how to rebuild community from the inside out. They unpack why independence has replaced interdependence, how motherhood turned into a performance review, and why asking for help is one of the bravest things we can do. Esther leaves us with a path back, showing how connection can be rebuilt one honest conversation at a time.
Follow Esther Perel's podcast Where Should We Begin? on <a href="https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__www.youtube.com_-40estherperel-3Fsub-5Fconfirmation-3D1&amp;d=DwMFaQ&amp;c=euGZstcaTDllvimEN8b7jXrwqOf-v5A_CdpgnVfiiMM&amp;r=OtSiBH7_dLW_hw6XZmcoSxpM3u7PjB7Xb3KBXz1-_Tc&amp;m=qA5CVEXQsFOeCN9HwM9abzh2g0_EhxdKFB-ZljOSWs0X5wOf_t7KD01c5DTElt4_&amp;s=fLOZDxmNc1Yu3lnkjmLQsA24h2F-YWNFT7-x6Z8hkrg&amp;e=">YouTube</a>, <a href="https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=http-3A__apple.co_estherperel&amp;d=DwMFaQ&amp;c=euGZstcaTDllvimEN8b7jXrwqOf-v5A_CdpgnVfiiMM&amp;r=OtSiBH7_dLW_hw6XZmcoSxpM3u7PjB7Xb3KBXz1-_Tc&amp;m=qA5CVEXQsFOeCN9HwM9abzh2g0_EhxdKFB-ZljOSWs0X5wOf_t7KD01c5DTElt4_&amp;s=LU0a14GNb812C8UkPwk0zhApw5eoKXhplq39-U-tbHA&amp;e=">Apple Podcasts</a> or <a href="https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=https-3A__open.spotify.com_show_3fKOTwtnX5oZLaiNntKWAV&amp;d=DwMFaQ&amp;c=euGZstcaTDllvimEN8b7jXrwqOf-v5A_CdpgnVfiiMM&amp;r=OtSiBH7_dLW_hw6XZmcoSxpM3u7PjB7Xb3KBXz1-_Tc&amp;m=qA5CVEXQsFOeCN9HwM9abzh2g0_EhxdKFB-ZljOSWs0X5wOf_t7KD01c5DTElt4_&amp;s=UITWsficaobItOy_xLmuymsYwINYNZcdSiQu9TOYtU8&amp;e=">Spotify</a>, and subscribe to Entre Nous with Esther Perel on Substack for exclusive bonus content.
You can follow our host Reshma Saujani<a href="https://www.instagram.com/reshmasaujani/?hl=en"> </a>on Instagram at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/reshmasaujani/?hl=en">@reshmasaujani</a> and on <a href="http://reshmasaujani.substack.com">Substack.</a>&nbsp;
Stay up to date with Moms First (<a href="http://www.momsfirst.us">www.momsfirst.us</a>) on Instagram at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/momsfirstus/?hl=en">@momsfirstus</a> and with Lemonada at&nbsp; <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lemonadamedia/?hl=en">@LemonadaMedia</a>.&nbsp;
Thanks so much for listening to My So-Called Midlife. If you haven&rsquo;t yet, now is a great time to subscribe to Lemonada Premium. You&rsquo;ll get ad-free episodes and bonus content like me and Emily Oster talking about her thoughts on how often you should have sex. Just hit the 'subscribe' button on Apple Podcasts, or, for all other podcast apps head to<a href="http://lemonadapremium.com/"> lemonadapremium.com</a> to subscribe.&nbsp;
Click this link for a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this show and all Lemonada shows:<a href="http://lemonadamedia.com/sponsors"> lemonadamedia.com/sponsors</a>
Check out the<a href="https://www.morganstanley.com/ideas/what-should-I-do-with-my-money-podcast"> What Should I Do With My Money?</a> podcast.
To follow along with a transcript, go to<a href="http://www.lemonadamedia.com/show/"> lemonadamedia.com/show/</a> shortly after the air date.

…Is this it? That’s the question our host Reshma Saujani asks herself daily. She’s the founder of two successful nonprofits, she’s married to a great guy, and she’s raising two beautiful children. She’s gotten everything she’s ever wanted, so why does she feel so unsatisfied? Is this a woman’s version of a midlife crisis? She’s determined to figure it out, and with the strength of her group chat behind her, she’s calling in reinforcements. From Julia Louis-Dreyfus and Supreme Court Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson, to Emily Oster and Cheryl Strayed, to experts, friends, authors and more, Reshma’s going to help us all figure out how we stop trying to just get through this time of life… and actually start living it.

…Is this it? That’s the question our host Reshma Saujani asks herself daily. She’s the founder of two successful nonprofits, she’s married to a great guy, and she’s raising two beautiful children. She’s gotten everything she’s ever wanted, so why does she feel so unsatisfied? Is this a woman’s version of a midlife crisis? She’s determined to figure it out, and with the strength of her group chat behind her, she’s calling in reinforcements. From Julia Louis-Dreyfus and Supreme Court Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson, to Emily Oster and Cheryl Strayed, to experts, friends, authors and more, Reshma’s going to help us all figure out how we stop trying to just get through this time of life… and actually start living it.

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