It’s Friday! This means producer Nina asks Em and Leah the most interesting parenting dilemmas sent into Mum Club. This week, they discuss whether snooping on your child's Instagram is justified for safety, how to handle in-laws who ignore your gift preferences, and why we should stop telling kids to toughen up!

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