Why do we keep choosing the same type of person — even when those relationships don't work out?
In this episode of Move Over Mama, we sit down with love coach and author Belinda Love to uncover the hidden patterns that can shape who we fall for, how we behave in relationships, and why we sometimes repeat the same mistakes without even realising it.
Belinda opens up about her own experiences with heartbreak, being rejected on national television on The Bachelor Australia, difficult relationships, and the childhood experiences that shaped her own beliefs about love.
We dive into:
• What a “love imprint” actually is
• How childhood experiences can shape our future relationships
• Why we can repeat unhealthy relationship patterns
• Belinda's experience of being abandoned by her first love
• Walking in on a partner cheating with her best friend
• How heartbreak can affect the way we see ourselves
• Why we sometimes choose people who aren't right for us
• How to recognise your own relationship patterns
• Learning to stop looking externally for validation
• How to build healthier relationships
• Advice for teenagers experiencing their first heartbreak
• How to know whether someone is actually right for you
• Breaking the cycles we inherit from our parents
This episode is honest, vulnerable, funny and incredibly relatable — especially if you've ever wondered why you seem to keep ending up in the same relationship patterns.
If you've ever had your heart broken, struggled to let someone go, or wondered why you keep choosing the wrong people… this one's for you.
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